Anthu, chirichonse chimene anganene, ndi zolengedwa. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti munthu amafunikira banja. Banja likhoza kukhala laling'ono kapena lalikulu, lingakhale makolo kapena ana, kapena theka lina. Kusungulumwa, pamene palibe wina woti anene - "Ndimakukondani", kotero kuti amvetse ndikuvomereza - ichi ndi tsoka lenileni kwa munthu. Koma aliyense "wosakhala wabwino" ali ndi zifukwa zake zokha.
Ngakhale ndi makolo ndi ana, munthu akhoza kukhala wosungulumwa ngati alibe wokondedwa pafupi. Kapena kukhala wosungulumwa ngati muli ndi bwenzi lomanga nalo banja. Panthawiyi, ndani ali ndi mwayi ... Kodi mwamuna, mwamuna kapena mkazi angasamalire popanda bwenzi lake? Kodi munthu amaima kwa nthawi yaitali bwanji? Ndipo n'chifukwa chiyani anthu ena amazisankha mosamala?
Zifukwa zabwino kapena zifukwa?
Mavuto athu onse amakhala pamutu panga, kotero madotolo pa mankhwala ammutu - akatswiri a maganizo ndi aumaganizo amalingalira. Ngati munthu sakufuna kugwirizanitsa moyo wake ndi moyo wa wina, zikutanthauza kuti ali nazo zifukwa zabwino. Chifukwa choterocho chingakhale kusokonezeka maganizo. Munthu amaopa kuti adziwonenso zomwe zachitika kale pamoyo wake. Nthawi zambiri chikondi choyamba, chosayera komanso chosayera, chimathera ndi kusakhulupirika, kupweteketsa mtima waumunthu, kusiya moyo wopitirira moyo wonse ... Ndiyeno munthu amasankha kusungulumwa - popanda wina woti ndinakukondani pamene palibe wina woti agawane chimwemwe cha moyo, koma sipadzakhalanso zokhumudwitsa !! !!
Kuvulala Kwambiri
Anthu amanena kuti mmodzi wa anthu okondedwawo amamukonda, wachiwiri amadzilola yekha kukonda. Amene amalola, nthawi zambiri amachitira nkhanza kwambiri anthu omwe amakonda, nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito pofuna kudzikonda. Ngati munthu akuvutika maganizo pa nthawi ya unyamata kapena msinkhu, nkovuta kuthetsa izo mosiyana. Ndiyeno munthu amakana kukonda konse. Kusungulumwa sikungokhalapo pamene palibe amene anganene kuti "Ndimakukonda", koma ngati palibe chikhumbo choterocho. Ndipo kukana uku kungatsutsane ngati chirichonse - "Sindikufuna kumanga ena ndi malonjezano," "ndizosatheka kukonda kwamuyaya, choncho bwanji kuzunza ena" ndi ena.
Chifukwa chake chingakhale makolo kapena achikulire ena omwe adamupweteketsa mwana, pokhala ndi maganizo ake kwa wina. Chisokonezo cha maganizo sichikhoza kuthana ndi vuto lachisokonezo, kotero chidziwitso ichi chimakhazikitsidwa kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo, ndithudi, chimakhudza zochitika za moyo wotsatira.
Popanda kuzindikira, munthu amayesera kuti asagwere mumkhalidwe wofanana ndi umene adakhumudwitsidwa nawo , ndipo chifukwa chake, amasiya kukula m'dera lino. Zikatero, n'zotheka kugwiritsa ntchito njira zamaganizo zomwe zingamutsogolere kudziko lino. Kenaka ntchitoyo siyambira ndi kuthekera kwa kuthana ndi kusungulumwa, pamene palibe wina woti "Ndimakukondani", koma pamene pali chikhumbo choyankhula, mvetserani. Ndiye kusakhala ndi chiyembekezo, kukhala ndi umutu wosowa kudzasintha.
Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti munthu ayenera kuzindikira kuti akufunikira kuchotsa katunduyo, chifukwa njira iliyonse imaganiza kuti vutoli liyenera kuwonanso kamodzi, kuti potsiriza lizisiye. Ngati psyche isanakonzekere vutoli, ndipo izi zimachitika ngati woyambitsa wothandizirayo ali achibale ake, zotsatira zake zidzakhala zoipa. Kusungulumwa kotero, pamene palibe wina woti "Ndimakukondani" ndipo kumvetsedwa, kumva, kulakalaka, kungowonjezereka. Ndipotu, n'zosatheka kukakamiza munthu kuti alankhule, momwe nkutheka kukakamiza kukonda ...
Kodi mungathandize bwanji?
Thandizo ndilofunikira pokhapokha ngati mwiniwakeyo amamupempha kuti awathandize. Munthu yemwe wakhala akuvutika maganizo kwambiri paunyamata wake samacheza ndi anthu ena, koma, nthawi zambiri, amapindula kuntchito yake, yomwe imathandizidwa ndi ndondomeko yaikulu, komanso mphamvu zopanda mphamvu. Anthu oterewa safunikanso kulankhulana ndi dziko lakunja, amakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri ndi dziko lawo lamkati.
Chifukwa chachiwiri cha chikhumbo chokhala nokha ndizozidziwikiratu za chipangizo cha psyche. Izi ndizozitengera. Pankhaniyi, katswiri safunikira. Introverts ali ndi dziko lamkati kwambiri. Tangoganizani momwe anthu oterewa amamvera mumtima mwawo! Otsatsa safunikira kulankhulana, choncho tsiku ndi tsiku komanso maola ambiri amakhala mu gulu lapamtima kotero atopa kwambiri moti amasankha ntchito zomwe siziphatikizapo ochezeka komanso ochezeka ndi anthu ena. Munthu wotereyo angakhale ndi chidwi ndi iye yekha, dziko lake lamkati, kugonana kwake kwapakhomo sikungamuyenere. Koma otsogolera alibe changu chogwira ntchito, monga anthu ovutika maganizo, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti athe kusintha. Kwa anthu awa ali oyenera ntchito zaluso za kulenga ndi ndandanda ya ntchito yaulere. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti palibe anthu omwe amadzimvera munthu woteroyo, ndiye kuti vuto lachisokonezo ndilosalephereka.
Chifukwa chachitatu cha chikhumbo chokhala payekha ndi kusayenerera kukakamiza moyo wa munthu, kusintha kwa mnzanu mu chiyanjano, kusafuna kutenga chuma cha banja. Ichi ndi chizoloŵezi chodziwika bwino chokhala ndi chidziwitso. Cholinga chawo ndi moyo wopanda mavuto. Anthu oterowo, monga lamulo, samapewa kukhudzana ndi maganizo, chirichonse chiwerengedwera, zonse mu bizinesi ndi m'moyo waumwini. Chifukwa cha malo amenewa chiri muzomwe moyo wapatsidwa, malingaliro a moyo wa achibale ndi abwenzi. Munthu woteroyo ndi wosasinthika. Choncho, ngati munthu wotereyu akufunika kukhala wofunika kwa inu, avomereze moyo wake, mwinamwake m'kupita kwa nthaŵi adzakulolani pafupi naye.
Kaya timakonda kapena ayi, umunthu umafuna kukhala wokha, wokhumudwa monga momwe angawonekere ...