Mu moyo wake munali zovuta ndi zochepa, kudandaula ndi kukayikira, koma nthawi zonse amakhala omasuka kwa atsopano ndipo tsopano akudziwa chinsinsi cha chimwemwe.
Wokongola, wokopa, wokondwa "wakuda kuchokera ku" Via Gyra "wakhalabe wokondedwa kwa anthu onse, ziribe kanthu kangati nthawi yomwe gulu labwino la Chiyukireniya likuyenda bwino.
Mu moyo wake munali zovuta ndi zochepa, kudandaula ndi kukayikira, koma nthawi zonse amakhala omasuka kwa atsopano ndipo tsopano akudziwa chinsinsi cha chimwemwe.
Mwachinsinsi kuchokera kwa amayi anga, mu 2000, mwana wazaka 18 yemwe anamaliza maphunziro a Khmelnytsky Pedagogical School anakhala wovomerezeka ndi "Via Gry". Ntchito yabwino sanalepheretse ngakhale mwana wake kubadwa - Nadia Granovskaya anabwerera pamalo pomwe Igor anali mwezi wokha. Ndiyeno anali atatopa ndipo anasiya "Via Gyra". Ndipo panali Nadia watsopano, Nadia Mayher, yemwe ali ndi pulogalamu ya TV "Zokondweretsa Zambiri Nkhani" pa STB - ndi tsitsi lake lodulidwa, mu madiresi olimba. Lero bomba la kugonana likuimba kachiwiri za chikondi. Ndipo izi ndizonso Nadia watsopano! Mwachidziwitso mosiyana, amatsuka ndi malingaliro ndikukhala moyo mogwirizana ndi iye mwini ndi dziko lapansi.
Zaka zitatu mumakhala mukusangalala nokha - munamvetsera mwana wawo, mumagwira ntchito monga wowonetsera TV, mumamva mawu a Chichewa, Chingerezi ndi Chisipanishi. Tsopano muli ndi nyimbo yovuta ya moyo kachiwiri. Kodi muyenera kusiya chiyani chifukwa cha kuchepa kwa nthawi?
N.M. Ndili ndi nthawi yokwanira pazinthu zonse, chifukwa nthawi yanga siilipo - pali nyimbo, ndimakonda kumvetsera mtima wanga. Ndipo ndimakonda nyimbo yosiyana kwambiri, chinthu chachikulu ndikumverera kumapeto. Mukangomva kuti mukuchita zinthu mopitirira muyeso, ndi bwino kuima ndi kuganizira. Ngakhale ndikuvomereza mau osiyana m'moyo wanga, ndi zabwino kwa ine.
Kulira?
N.M. Inde, ndikulira! Ndipo payekha, ndi wina "mu chovala." Chilengedwe chodabwitsa chimakonza munthu - ndikofunikira kulira onse amuna ndi akazi. Pambuyo pake, misonzi ndi mliri wa mavuto ambiri.
Panthawi ina, inu munachiritsidwa ndipo mwatchutchutchu mwachangu kuchokera kuopseza kwa odwala. Pambuyo pa zochitika zoterozo, mungapangire munthu yemwe ali ndi vuto la maganizo kuti apite kwa katswiri kapena adzikonzekere yekha?
N.M. Monga lamulo, ndizosatheka kudzimvetsa nokha. Sindikuona chilichonse cholakwika chifukwa chakuti anthu amatembenukira kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo. Kuchokera pazitsamba ndikofunikira kutuluka mwa njira iliyonse. Dziko lathu lapansi liri lopanda chifundo: kaya ndinu "masamba", kapena inu mumakhala ndi udindo pa moyo wanu, mukhale osiyana, pangani malamulo anu omwe. Njira yomwe mukupita ndi funso lachiwiri. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti palibe ozunzidwa, osunga bata. Chisoni chawonongeka, chiwonongeka ndi zovuta kumanga. Ndikhulupirire, zabwino zonse zikuyendayenda, muyenera kungodzipangitsa kukhala woyenera kwambiri.
Inu munavomereza kuti ndinu munthu wokonda kudzikayikira ndi kukaikira. Kodi mukuganiza kuti makhalidwe amenewa amakuthandizani kuti mukhale bwino?
N.M. Palibe mwazinthu izi zomwe zimathandiza kuti chitukuko chikhalepo. Ichi ndi chinthu choyamba chimene ndinayenera kuchotsa kuti ndipitirize, komanso ndikudziimba mlandu. Ndipo mu chikhalidwe ichi pali zambiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake sitingateteze ufulu wathu monga nzika za dziko lathu, ambiri a ife ndife zidole.
Kodi moyo waumunthu wagusintha bwanji? Kodi mwakhala munthu wosiyana?
N.M. Zikanakhoza kutembenuka ngati izo sizinali hypersensitivity kubodza ndi chinyengo. Chilichonse chiri ndi mtengo wake, ndipo sindine wokonzeka chifukwa cha kutchuka kwaumisala, kulipira ndalama za chikondi changa chaufulu ndi ufulu wa mwana wanga. Choyera ndi chakuda chinali, chiri ndipo chidzatero - izo zonse zimadalira zomwe mumasankha.
M'dzinja mndandanda wanu woyamba wa ndakatulo zachikondi "Kukopa kanthawi kochepa" kunatulukira.
Tiuzeni momwe ndakatulo izi zinabadwira, monga momwe mukudziwira, pa zenizeni.
N.M. Ndinayamba kulemba ndakatulo yoyamba mwana wanga atabadwa mu 2002. Kenaka ndinadandaula, ena mwa olembawo, omwe anali ovuta kwambiri, adalowa m'bukuli. Ndiyeno pause: kuyendayenda, nthawi yodziwonera nokha. Ndipo mu 2006, pamene panali nthawi yochuluka, ndinayambanso kulemba - zinthu zambiri zosiyana, ndimayang'ana zolemba, ndikulemba. Tsopano ndikudziwa kuti posachedwa ndikuyamba kulemba chifukwa ndinapezeka kudziko lina kumene ndimakhala omasuka, komwe ndili kunyumba, ndikudya, ndikukhala ndi pepala loyera, ndipo ndingathe kukhala oposa moona. Zonse mkati, zonse zinasweka, kuthawa kwa moyo ndi kugwa kwake. Ndikulemba mosiyana kwambiri, chofunika kwambiri, ndondomeko yowala, kulola dziko lakunja kupyola mu ndende ya malingaliro anga, malingaliro ndi maloto ofotokoza, ndi osaganizira pang'ono.
Bukuli likuwonetsedwa ndi zithunzi zanu zoyenera. Nchifukwa chiyani mwasankha "kusonyeza chirichonse"?
N.M. Zithunzizo ndizowona monga momwe ndinadzilolera ndekha, chifukwa ndakatulo zanga ndizosavuta. Bukhu ili ndi ndekha: lokongola ndi loopsya, loipa m'mawu ndi mulungu. Izi ndizo zamoyo zanga, kufunafuna adrenaline.
Ena amatsutsa ndakatulo yanu. Inde, ndi "Via Gro" anthu ambiri amaona kuti ndizopusa. Kodi zimakupweteka?
N.M. Ine sindikusamala chomwe iwo amandiyitana ine. Anthu sayenera kuweruzidwa, ndipo amakhumudwitsidwa kwambiri ndi chinachake kuti atsimikizire wina. Ndipo ine ndikusangalatsidwa kwambiri ndi ambiri. Ndipo nanga bwanji? Ine sindikuyesera kuti ndizisangalatse. Mu bukhuli muli mzere wotere: Ndipo pause pa kuyamikira kwaumwini iwe sudzawona kuchoka kwanga; Ndiyang'ana pagalasi ndikunyansidwa ndikuganiza kuti ndiwe wotani. Nthawi zambiri mumayenera kuganiza choncho? Pamene ndinkatchula ndakatulo iyi, sindinaliyimire munthu wina, ngakhale kuti ndendende ndikukhala m'dziko lino. Ine sindiri "squeamish" ndi anthu, ndimapereka chidwi kwa aliyense, chifukwa ngakhale scum alibe popanda chifukwa. Koma ndekha ndimakhala ndi baramwamba kwambiri kuti ndivomereze moyo wanga munthu, ndipo izi sizidalira chuma. Azimayi omwe amawopa okha amavomereza okha, ndipo sindinali osiyana nawo.
Mtima wanu siufulu?
N.M. Mtima wanga ndiufulu kwamuyaya. Idzazaza ndi chikondi, zikunyoza ndi kukhulupirira zozizwitsa. Koma ndimakonda kuthera nthawi yokha, ndikudzipereka ndekha ku kubadwa kwa malingaliro osiyana, kuti ndikhale nawo. Ndipo sindikusowa anthu okondweretsa.
Ndi chiyani, mwamuna wanu? Munthu wochenjera, wokonzedwa bwino ndi dziko lolemera kwambiri.
N.M. Sindikukamba za mawonetsedwe abwino a makhalidwe awa, koma mphamvu ndizofunikira.
Inu munanena kale kuti simudzakwatira ... Fotokozani chonde.
N.M. Ukwati ndi wopanga. Ngati mumakondadi munthu wina, khulupirirani iye, ngati muli zolengedwa zovomerezeka za Mulungu, ndiye kuti simukusowa zosamalidwa. Kodi ndikofunikira kusintha pakati, kugwirizana ndi munthu wina? Inu mukhoza zonse kudzilola nokha, mu lingaliro lenileni la chirichonse. Ndikofunika kokha ngati padzakhala phindu kwa magawo awiriwa, kaya mungapweteke kapena kupweteka. Mungayesere kupeza chiyanjano, koma nkofunikira, ngati simukufuna kumva? Ndi chikondi mu mtima, mwabwino, mungathe kukhululukira zambiri ndikulola zambiri, aliyense atapita njira yake yakukula mkati. Wina amadzipangira yekha kuti n'zosavuta kuti azisewera ndi malamulo a wina. Ndipo nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti munthu amene anakumana ndi njira yathu ndizolimbikitsa kuti apite patsogolo, koma yekha. Pisanafike mwamuna, pali anthu ambiri oyendayenda.
Mukuganiza bwanji - ndani ayenera kupeza ndalama m'banja?
N.M. Payekha, ine, ndithudi, ndiyenera kupeza. Ndilibenso wina woti ndidalira, komanso, ndimamva bwino kwambiri. Sindidalira aliyense, ndilibe ngongole kwa wina aliyense. Sindingathe kulamulidwa, Ndimadzikonda kwambiri.
Kodi mumakonda kugwira ntchito zapakhomo, kupanga ulesi, kudzuka khitchini?
N.M. Ayi, kokha kwa osankhidwa.
Zingasokoneze zokoma za mwana wa zaka 7 wa Igor. Tiuzeni za izo.
N.M. Amapita ku sukulu yachiwiri, kupita ku sukulu yapadera ndi chilakolako cha ku France. Ngati ine ndiri kutali, mwanayo ali ndi amayi anga kapena ndi nanny. Igor ndi mwana wokondweretsa kwambiri, ndi wokoma mtima, wokondwa, woyamikira, womvera. Ndikumva kuti tidzakhala mabwenzi abwino.
Ungakonde bwanji kumudzutsa?
N.M. Ndikufuna kuti aphunzire kuyamikira nthawi iliyonse ya moyo. Chilichonse chiri chosakhazikika komanso chosakhalitsa. Kuti asakhumudwitsidwe ngakhale zili choncho, amalemekeza akazi, amawayamikira komanso amawakonda, amapereka zonse ndipo sanadandaule, koma adayang'ana modzidzimutsa msampha wachikazi. Ndipo iye anakumana ndi yemwe Ambuye adamulengera.
Kodi chisangalalo mukumvetsa kwanu ndi chiyani?
N.M. Choyamba, ndizo zachisangalalo zikuyenda pamphepete. Timathandizana wina ndi mnzake kukhala osangalala. Pambuyo pake, ndipo wodutsa wodutsa amatha kukhala osangalala, kumwetulira moona mtima, ndi chikondi.
Pamene muli okondwa, monga chilengedwe chakhazikika mkati mwanu, ndipo mumagawana magawo?
N.M. Chimwemwe chiyenera kupopedwa, kuti chigawidwe.
Mwinamwake simudzagwiritsa ntchito moyo wanu wonse mukuimba "Via Gra" - unyamata si wamuyaya. Kodi mungakonde kuchita chiyani pambuyo pa Via Gra? Ntchito? Kukhala pazilumbazi? Kukula kabichi, monga mfumu ya Roma inachitira, kusiya ufumuwo?
N.M. Achinyamata ndi osatha! Mwinamwake mudzakula kabichi, ndipo ine, mwina, ndidzachita zomwe ndikuchita bwino - kulenga. Ndipo ngati sali pa "Via Gra", ndiye kuti mumasambira. Chifukwa cha malingaliro omwe amabadwira mwa ine, kwa anthu omwe amathandizira kudzidzilitsa okha mu chinachake chatsopano, kusayeruzika kwawo, pamapeto, nthawi iliyonse ndikadzimasula mobwerezabwereza. Ndipo ndidzachita chiyani mawa, Iye yekha akudziwa.