Zotsatira zake ndi zotani?
Mukakumana ndi munthu yemwe adalowa mu mtima mwako, atasiya mutu wake, nthawi zina ambiri samangoganizira kuti ali ndi mwayi wotani kuti akhale ndi wokondedwa wanu. Pali nthawi zambiri pamene, chifukwa cha matsenga, ubale unayamba pakati pa anthu, ndipo nthawi zina maukwati anamaliza. Mabanja ena amakhala osangalala, ndipo ena kwa mboni zosadziwika akhala chitsanzo choipa cha zotsatira zake pamene zimasokoneza tsogolo la munthu wina.
Kodi zotsatira za mwana wachinyamata zingakhale zotani kwa mwamuna ?
Choopsa chachikulu cha spell ndichoti zochitika zonse zomwe zikuchitika ndizosatheka kuziwerengera. Pogwiritsa ntchito mabala, mkazi yemwe akufuna kulosera mwamuna nthawi zambiri "amatseka maso ake" ngakhale atagwirizana. Mankhwala a munthu amalephera mtendere. Mwamuna amayamba kuganiza za mkazi, amayesetsa kuti akhale ndi mbali yake, koma pazochitika zomwe sizikupezeka, nthawi ndi nthawi amamumvera. Privorot amapanga chifuniro, kukakamiza, ndipo izi zimayambitsa kutsutsana kwakukulu. Mwamuna amakumana ndi chilakolako chopweteka kwa mkazi, ndipo tsogolo limadalira chikhalidwe chake komanso khalidwe lake. Kawirikawiri, kuchita zamatsenga kumayambitsa mwamuna kuti abwere kwa mkazi, koma chikhumbo cha neostatsya palibe.
Amuna enieni, olimba mu mzimu, ayamba kukana chiwawa choterechi. Pali nthawi zambiri pamene amatsenga amachotsa kuchotsa mwamuna m'banja ndipo iye, kuyesera kukana chilakolako chopweteka, achoka m'banja, koma osati kwa amene adalowedwera. Kawirikawiri pamfundoyi, amuna amamwa ndi kuwononga thanzi lawo, akuyendayenda pafupi ndi malo odyera, ma casino, ndi zina zotero.
Nthawi zina amuna auzimu omwe amaperewera amapereka mankhwala, koma sangapeze mtendere ndi mkazi. Kupuma ndi zolakalaka zimachitika kokha patali, ndipo pamene ali ndi iye, munthuyo amayamba kuzindikira kuti apa sali yekha. Zonsezi zikuyambitsa chisokonezo ndi kuwonongeka kwamanjenje. Mwamuna amalumikiza ku mawu, amamatirira kuzinthu zazing'ono. Iye ali wolemedwa ndi boma lotero-vuto la kukakamizidwa ndipo sangakhoze kuthawa kwa iye. Chifukwa cha ichi, dongosolo la mitsempha likuvutika, iye amakhala ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse, choncho amaika mkwiyo pa mkaziyo. Tsoka ilo, pamakhala zovuta pamene zotsatira za kupotoza kumayambitsa masewera a magazi ndi kudzipha.
Zotsatira za chikondi kwa akazi
Yemwe amayesetsa kukonda, sakonda munthu nkomwe. Zhensni mkazi wina wachikondi sangachite chinachake chomwe chingasokoneze moyo wa munthu. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zambiri akazi amawombera chifukwa cha kusadziwa kapena chifukwa cha "chidwi cha masewera." Chikhumbo chofuna kupeza mwamuna mwa njira ina iliyonse, mkazi amayesetsa kukakamiza mphamvu zoterozo zomwe sizingatheke kulimbana ndi munthu wosadziwika. Izi ndizimene zimatanthauzira magazi, miyambo yosiyanasiyana ya matsenga, kuphatikizapo mphamvu zamphamvu, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimapweteka anthu omwe amazigwiritsa ntchito. Kuvutika ndi kukhumudwa kwa munthu yemwe anachita chikondicho kungangobwera pamene akulapa mu ntchito yake, kumvetsetsa zomwe zochita zake zinayambitsa.
Privorot kawirikawiri imayambitsa kusayanitsa kwakukulu kwa mphamvu yaumunthu, nkhani zambiri zomwe zingamveke zingakhale zotsatira za chikondi cha munthu wina yemwe amalepheretsa tsogolo la munthu, wogwirizana ndi zochitika zodabwitsa pamoyo wawo. Izi ndizovuta m'banja, kuntchito, mavuto azachuma, thanzi labwino. Kawirikawiri mavuto oterewa amatchedwa "kuwononga", osadziwa chifukwa chake zochitika za miyoyo yawo zingasinthe mwa njira yoipa.Ngati mwapanga spell posachedwa, ndiye kuti wolakwa sayenera kuyang'anitsitsa. Izi ndi zotsatira za spell, zomwe simungathe kuziletsa. Ndipo komabe, munthu wokhulupirira sangachite chilichonse chonga icho, chifukwa amadziwa za zotsatira zake.
Ngati spell wachikondi anali wachidziwitso komanso wofatsa, posachedwa adzawona mtundu wa kuzunzika kwake komwe kwaperekedwa kwa wokondedwayo. Mkaziyo akuyamba kuzindikira kuti sakondedwa. Ndipo iyi ndi chilango choopsa kwambiri. Pozindikira kuti munthu amalemedwa ndi kukhala pafupi, kuti amakwiya ndi mawu alionse, mkazi amangochita mantha. Pakubwera kuwonongeka kwathunthu kwathunthu kuti chirichonse chinali chopanda pake. Zingakhale zomveka kuti munthu aliyense amalandira zomwe akufunira. Kufulumizitsa zochitika zina ndi chithumwa, mukhoza kukoka mzere pansi pa zizindikiro za chikondi ndikuyika chikumbumtima ndi thanzi la wokondedwa.
Mmene mungathetsere zotsatira za chikondi
Kuchetsa zotsatira za matsulo kumadalira kutalika kwake komwe mwapita komanso momwe mwagwiritsira ntchito matsenga. Musamayembekezere kuti mudzasangalala pamodzi. Ngati chinachake chalakwika mofulumira, muyenera kuyesa kubwezeretsa mgwirizano ndi msinkhu wapitawo. Poyerekezera kuti palibe cholakwika, ndithudi sizingagwire ntchito, tikusowa kanthu. Ndipotu, pamene munthu akuvutika, zotsatira zake kwa inu zidzakhala zovuta. Ndi bwino kuyesa kumunamiza munthuyo. Ngati mkazi wazindikira kuti moyo wake kapena moyo wa banja lake wakhala wovuta, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti mupite ku mapemphero. Kukhumudwa kokha, kwakukulu, kumathandiza mkazi kuthana ndi mavuto. Ndipo ngati izi zichitika, ndiye kuti moyo udzasintha. Zotsatira za malonda achikondi zingakhale zovuta kwambiri, choncho ganizirani ngati mungagwire ntchito yotere kapena bwino kuyembekezera tsogolo lanu.