Mfundo yakuti mkazi ayenera kuoneka bwino, palibe kukayikira. Zili ngati chidziwitso chomwe sichifuna kukangana ndi umboni, chifukwa munthu "amakonda ndi maso ake," ndipo ndizo. Panthawi yomweyi, amakhulupirira kuti munthu ayenera kukhala "wabwino kuposa nyani", ndipo izi ndi mapeto a nkhaniyo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti munthu wooneka bwino ali ngati munthu wokongola komanso phwando loyenera. Ndipotu, maonekedwe a munthu, komanso maonekedwe a mkazi, amathandiza kwambiri pakusankha wokondedwa. Ndipo, ndithudi, kuyang'ana kwathu koyamba timamvetsera kuoneka kwa munthu: pamaso pake, thupi ndi fungo ... Si chinsinsi chakuti anyamata okongola amakhala "osowa kwambiri" pakati pa atsikana. Ndalama zoterezi ndizofunikira kwambiri, kumbuyo kwawo "kuthamanga" atsikana onse a m'kalasi, chabwino, motero, izi zimapanganso achinyamata ndi okongola. Kuyanjana ndi "kufuna" koteroko kwa kukongola kwawo, anyamatawa nthawi zambiri sagwirizana ndi ubale weniweni, chifukwa kwa iwo kusankha ndikobwino ndikugwiritsa ntchito. Mwachibadwa, kuyambira paunyamata, umunthu wa munthu woteroyo umapangidwa.
Kumbali ina, amadziwika kuti mnyamata ali wokongola maonekedwe, nthawi zonse samangokhalira kuchita zinthu mofulumira komanso molimba mtima. Zimapezeka kuti okongola ali ndi ubale weniweni ndipo amadziwika ndi mfundo zapamwamba za makhalidwe abwino, pomwe panthawi imodzimodzi, monga "mahule" ali otchuka chifukwa cha ntchito ya Casanova.
Inde, chowonadi chibisani, ife mwanjira ina timakhala "opanda mphamvu" pakuwona munthu wokongola, makamaka ngati womaliza akuyamba kutisamalira. Koma, monga akunena, amakumana pa zovala, ndipo amawona m'maganizo. Pamene "prelude" itatha, ndizo zokhudza chiyanjano choyamba, chidziwitso cha wina ndi mnzake chimayamba. Ndipo ngati munthu sakuyimira chirichonse kuchokera kwa iye mwini monga munthu ndi munthu, ndiye ndikuganiza kuti "zokongoletsera zokongola" posachedwapa zidzathetsa zonsezi. Zingathenso chimodzimodzi za msungwana wokongola. Ngati iye alidi "dummy", ndiye kuti munthu yemwe ali pachibwenzi sangathe kusankha munthu woteroyo. Ndipo, monga akunena, kukhala wochenjera ndi wokongola ndi woipa, koma ndi akazi awa omwe ali phindu basi. Mwamunayo, ndithudi, pankhaniyi ndi zosavuta. Kwa munthu ndikofunika kwambiri kukhala moyo wokongola, kuti ndiyankhule bwino ndikukhala wokondweretsa komanso wopambana, kachiwiri ndikupanikiza, ndikupambana. Momwemo, kusagwirizana ndi kupambana, malingaliro amatha kugonjetsa mkazi kwambiri.
Ngati munthu aganiziranso funso lakuti "Kodi maonekedwe a mwamuna ndi ofunika kwa mkazi", ndiye ndikuganiza kuti mkazi amadziwa bwino yankho la funso ili. Ndipo yankho ndilo: "Chofunika, koma osati chovomerezeka." Mukaika patsogolo, kukongola kwakunja kudzatenga malo ena 4-5 pakati pa zikhalidwe zamunthu ndi zokoma.
"Tsopano ndikukumana ndi munthu wosaganizira kwambiri amene sasamala zomwe akuwoneka ndipo sasamala zomwe akunja amaganiza za izo. Pa nthawi yomweyi, iye ndi munthu wokondwa komanso wozama kwambiri. Mmenemo - munthu weniweni ndi wamphamvu, kumbuyo kwa ine amene sindimamuwopa komanso womasuka. Izi ndi zoona kuti ine, mkango wamphamvu pa horoscope, ndikuoneka bwino, nditavala bwino ndikuwonekera. Kukongoletsa kwake - ndi ine ... ndikufika kumapeto kuti zotsutsana zimakopeka. Kwa ine, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti munthu amandikonda ine ndikukhala wachifundo kwa ine, "Rita akuvomereza. Inde, nthawi zina mumakumana ndi anthu angapo, osakhala ngati onse awiri, koma nthawi yomweyo anthu amakhala okondwa ndipo ali pamodzi. Chithumwa chamkati cha munthu ndi khadi lokhalo lokhalo limene lingathe kugonjetsa mkazi woposa deta chabe.
Ndikoyenera kuzindikira kuti ngati mkazi akomana ndi mwamuna wokongola, wofewa komanso wamwamuna wokongola, sakunena kuti adzamusankha kuti akhale mnzake wa moyo, chifukwa kuti banja labwino likhale ndi makhalidwe osiyana, ndizofunika. Ndikofunikira kuti mwamuna akonde ana, akhale wodalirika, wokhulupirika ndi wanzeru. Monga mmodzi wa anzanga akale anati: "Mwa mwamuna zigawo zikuluzikulu ndizofunika: fungo komanso kuti mukufuna kukhala ndi ana kuchokera kwa iye. Ngati "awiri "wa alipo - molimba mtima pansi pa korona."
Kodi mwamuna wa maloto anu ndi ndani, mumadziwa nokha. Chofunikira chachikulu cha kusankha kwanu, kukongola kapena malingaliro, ndipo mwinamwake onse ndizolemba zazikulu zomwe mtima wanu umanena. Kudalira mtima wanu, nthawi zonse mumasankha bwino. Amuna okongola, anzeru ndi okongola kwa inu, akazi okondedwa!