Zimakhala zokondweretsa nthawi zonse ndi iwo, zimaperekedwa ndi zamphamvu ndi mphamvu, zakhala zikuwonekeratu, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti angathe kuphunzitsa ndi kusonyeza zambiri m'moyo. Choncho, atsikana achinyamata nthawi zambiri amakonda okwatirana okwatirana, osati anzawo. Pambuyo pake, kwenikweni, msungwana yemwe adakondana ndi mwamuna wokwatira, nthawi zambiri amadikirira moyo wochuluka.
Choyamba, tidzasanthula zosungira za chikondi ichi.
1. Msungwana sangathe kumutcha kuti wokondedwa, nthawi iliyonse yoyandikana naye akhoza kukhala mkazi wake. Kaŵirikaŵiri okondedwa amadzitcha okha, ndipo atsikana osauka akuvutika poyembekezera kuyitana. Kawirikawiri amuna abwenzi awo amatchedwa mayina achimuna, ndipo zokambiranazo ndi zowuma komanso zolimba - ngati imodzi mwazochita zachiwembu.
2. Kuwona kumapangidwanso ndi munthu pa nthawi ndi malo oyenera yekha. Sankhani malo otetezeka kunja kwa mzinda, malo odyera ochepa, omwe palibe omwe amapita, kuti asawonekere.
Moyo wapamtima nthawi zambiri umakhala mofulumira, ndipo nthawi zambiri m'malo osasinthika mwachikondi. Kenaka amatsatira kusonkhanitsa mwamsanga ndi kuchotsa umboni - zojambula kuchokera pamutu pamutu, tsitsi ndi fungo la zonunkhira za akazi.
Nthawi zambiri, ndipo mwinamwake nthawi zonse, mtsikana amagona yekha, chifukwa wokondedwa ayenera kugona pakhomo. Osatchula za maholide ndi maholide.
5. Nsanje yowawa, zochitika zawo, chisangalalo, kukhumudwa ndi kaduka kwa mkazi wake, msungwana si chinachake chimene sangathe kumuuza wokondedwa wawo, ndipo alibe chifukwa, chifukwa choipa chonse amamva kuchokera kwa mkazi wake.
Zinthu zabwino za chikondi choterocho.
1. Nthawi zonse amadzaza nthawi yaulere. Mukhoza kupita ku disco mumaseŵera kapena kampu ndi nthawi imodzimodzi, popanda kupereka akaunti ya nthawi yomwe mumakhala.
2. Palibe amene akuzunza mafunso kapena kufotokoza ubalewu, palibe yemwe akuyang'ana foni yam'manja.
3. Ndi zophweka kugwiritsira ntchito, kudziyesa kukhala okonda, chifukwa sangathe kukhala pamodzi nthawi zonse. Choncho, munthuyo amadziimba mlandu, ndipo zimakhala zosavuta kuzigwiritsa ntchito.
Kawirikawiri, zotsatira za buku lolembedwa ndi mwamuna wokwatirana zingayambitse msungwana kwambiri maganizo. Ndipo kuti muthezenso chidziwitso chanu, mufunika nthawi yochuluka. Ziribe kanthu momwe amalemekezera ulemu wake, chimodzimodzi, chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa chiyanjano chiripo. Mkazi nthawi zonse amakhala woyamba ndipo moyo nthawi zonse umatsimikizira izi. Ankaganiza kuti adzatuluka naye pazilumbazi, koma sizikuyenda bwino. Iye analonjeza kuti adziŵe bwino makolo ake, koma sakufulumira. Pambuyo pa msonkhanowo, adayamba kuusa moyo, mwamsanga anachoka pakhomo. Izi zikusonyeza kuti muzochitika zoterezo mavuto amakhala aakulu kuposa ubwino.
Zikupezeka kuti mwamuna wokwatira ndi wopindulitsa komanso wothandiza kukhala ndi mbuye wa mtsikana. Choyamba, palibe udindo uliwonse, nthawi iliyonse buku lingathe kulembedwa ndipo munthu wokhayokha mu mgwirizano wotero nthawi zambiri amathera nthawi ya chiyanjano. Mwamunayo amatsogolera misonkhano, kukwaniritsa kwawo komanso nthawi. Chigwirizano choterocho sichilekerera kulengeza. Ndipo kodi yotsala ya mtsikanayo ndi iti? Pa awiri awiriwa, mwamuna amayesera kubisala maubwenzi amdima ndi mphatso zamtengo wapatali. Msungwana, kulandira mphatso yomweyo amaiwala chisoni cha ubale ndi kudziponyera chophimba cha mkazi wokondwa ndi wokondedwa.
Choncho, musakhale ndi chiyembekezo chakuti mwamuna wokwatiwa ndiye tsogolo lanu, ndikuti ndiye yekhayo ndi chikondi chenicheni pa moyo. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zosiyana m'moyo, koma malamulo ndi ofunika kwambiri. Chiyanjano pakati pa mtsikana ndi mwamuna wokwatiwa kawirikawiri sichimatha kutha.