Magaziniyi ndi yofunika kwambiri. Ndipotu, nthawi zambiri pambuyo pa mkangano, njira yoyamba yothetsera mikangano imachitidwa ndi amayi. Amuna, mpaka kufika podzikuza kwawo, amakhala mu otchedwa "kubisala" ndikungodikirira kuti mkaziyo akuzindikirabe cholakwika chake ndikuyesera kusintha chinachake. Ndipo panthawi imeneyi palibe vuto kuti ndi ndani yemwe ali woyenera. Ndipo ndani amene anayambitsa kutsutsana kumeneku. Itanani koyambirira - uyu si skate wamwamuna. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira kuti anyamata ndi abambo akulekerera maganizo ndi kukhala ndi foni m'manja mwawo, kuyembekezera kuitana usiku wonse, siowongolera kwawo konse. Amatha kungodzipatula yekha ku vutoli poyendera bar ndi abwenzi. Kapena pitani nawo limodzi, mwachitsanzo, kusodza. Ndipo ndithudi iye adzapitirizabe mu moyo wake, izi sizidzasokoneza aliyense nkomwe, monga momwe mwamuna wamwamuna amakhalira nthawi zonse kuposa zonse. Ndipo apa ndikumapeto kwa mphindi: foni inaimba ndipo chiwerengero chawonetsera chanu chikuyatsa. Inde, ndithudi anadikirira izi, koma sindidzatopa kubwereza kuti munthuyo ndi wodzikonda, wodzikonda komanso wodzikweza. Ndipo, ngakhale ziri zovuta kuzizwitsa, koma kuphatikiza pa chirichonse, ngakhale ndi khalidwe la mwana wamuyaya, mu kuya kwa moyo wake. Ndipo kuthamanga mofulumira ku foni, iye mumasewera asanu ndi limodzi mwa khumi samakhala. Iye sakusowa kuyitana, iye akungokufunsani inu kuti muganizire mozama za zomwe ziri zolakwika. Ndipo, komanso, anayamba kumudziwa ngati munthu. Tsopano, pakangopita nthawi, inali nthawi yake yosewera "mnyamata wokhumudwa". Amuna ndi amphamvu amphamvu ndipo nthawi zonse amafunika kuganizira. Ndikhulupirire, adakondwera kuti mukuyitana, koma sikokwanira. Muyenera kudandaula za kuti mungathe kutaya. Ndipo izi, mwa lingaliro lake, zidzakhala phunziro loona ndi lothandiza kwa inu m'tsogolomu. Ichi ndi chifukwa chodziwika kwambiri pa khalidwe lachimuna pa nthawi imene mwamuna samatenga foni pambuyo pa mkangano. Zimakhala zosavuta kuvala chigoba cha "wozunzidwa" ndikukonzekera masewera onse, kusonyeza kuti ndi wabwino komanso nthawi yomweyo wosasangalala komanso wokhumudwa.
Zoonadi, simuyenera kubwereranso kumbuyo komanso kuti akuwopa chabe kulankhula ndi inu kapena sakudziwa zomwe munganene makamaka ngati akudziwa bwino kuti vuto lonse lakumenyana kwanu ndibodza. Amuna ndi achilendo, osakhala akazi kwa ife. Ndipo panthawi yomwe iwo ali okonzedweratu, ndizovuta kuti iwo asankhe mwanjira iliyonse kapena mwachindunji chawo, musalole kuti apereke maudindo awo ndikupempha chikhululukiro mwachindunji.
Ngati kukangana kwanu sikuli kolimba ndipo inu nonse mukulakwa kuti mwachitika, sikuti samatenga foni. Ndiye ingomusiyani iye nthawizonse kuyitana ndi kumusangalatsa. Ingopita kumunsi, kwa masiku angapo. Pankhaniyi, n'zotheka kuti patapita nthawi adzakuitanani nokha, koma ngati sachita izi, mudzakhala ndi mwayi woti akufuna kulankhula ndi kutenga foni. M'patseni nthawi yokha, kuti athetse mtendere ndi kuganizira zinthu zonse ndikuziganizira. Mwamuna akamagunda pansi pambuyo pa mkangano, ndipo ataganizira zonse, amachepetsa pansi, ndiye kuti muli ndi mwayi wabwino wochulukitsa. Osati pamene simutcha munthu, pansi pa dzanja lotentha - izi sizitsogolera pa zabwino. Mwamuna, panthawi yachisangalalo cha mumtima, sangathe konse kulingalira ndi kumvetsera mwakachetechete kwa inu, atapanga chisankho choyenera. Kotero kuti atenge kuchokera kwa iye, kuti atenge foni sizimveka bwino. Nthawi yokhayo ikhoza kuthetsa chirichonse.
Pamene muli otsimikiza 100% kuti vuto lanu liri mwa inu, ndizo zonse zomwe zikunena. Pambuyo pa zonse, kugwira mwamuna kuti akhale ndi moyo, kwaife akazi, ndi kosavuta ndipo motero, kumadzi kuti amve kupweteka kwake komanso panthawi yomweyo, kuswa malingaliro onse. Mu mkhalidwe uno, ndikuganiza kuti simungachite ndi foni imodzi. Pano, ngati munthuyu ali wokondedwa kwambiri kwa inu, nkofunikira, molunjika, kuti mutengepo kanthu mwamsanga, ndikukonzekera. Njira yabwino ndiyo, popeza sizidzamveka zachilendo kwa inu, kusiya foni yanu nokha ndikubwera kwa inu nokha. Ndikhulupilireni, kukambirana momasuka ndi bwino pakati pa inu ndi diso kungasinthe kwambiri. Poyamba, mukhoza kuyika ma bulati onse pa "ndi", kuthetsa vuto lomwe layamba pakati pa inu. Ndipo kachiwiri, simudzatha kudzizunza nokha ndi malingaliro ndi maganizo oipa omwe mwinamwake safuna kukuwonaninso ndipo ubale wanu watha. Ndipo potsiriza, chachitatu, mumangosiya kudzizunza nokha ndi kudzimva kuti ndinu wolakwa, chifukwa mwamukhumudwitsa. Choncho, ngati mwaganiza kugwiritsa ntchito njira yowyanjanitsa, musati muyike mu bokosi lakutali, musadzizunze nokha, osati izo, kungosonyeza kuti mumasamala kwambiri za izo ndipo ndizofunika. Musachite mantha kuwonetsa kuti mwalapa moona mtima. Dziwani, ndithudi adzayamikira.
Ndipo, monga, potsiriza, ine ndikufuna kunena. Nthawi zina ife timapanga zolakwa zambiri, potero timathamangitsa anthu omwe ali okondedwa kwa ife, ndiyeno, monga lamulo, timadandaula. Zili ngati mawu akuti: "Zimene tili nazo - sitizisungira, koma timataya kulira". Choncho, yamikirani yemwe mumamukonda. Ndipo ngati mwamunayo samatenga foni pambuyo pa mkangano, gwiritsani ntchito mauthenga omwe akukhalapo nthawi zonse, kumutumizira iye mophweka, koma pa nthawi yomweyo mawu amatsenga: "Ndimakukondani, mundikhululukire !!!".