Kawirikawiri mumatha kumva agogo aakazi akudandaula kuti: "Kodi pakali pano - kuti mudziwe bwino, simunakhale ndi nthawi, ndipo mukugona kale." Mawu awa ndi oseketsa, koma sizimveka bwino, panthawi yathu yogonana pa tsiku loyamba ndi lachilendo, amuna ena samaganiza mosiyana.
Komabe, ndikufuna kudziwa ngati kuthamanga kotereku kukuthandizira maubwenzi? Malingana ndi akatswiri, za maubwenzi amenewo omwe ali ndi chilakolako, 12% okha ali ndi mwayi wopanga banja lolimba. Chikoka chosagwirizana cha kugonana chomwe chinayambira pachiyambi cha chiyanjano pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi chidzatha, kuwonetsa kusowa kwa nkhani zomwe zimagwirizana pa zokambirana, ndipo ubale umatha kumapeto. Amayi ambiri nthawi zambiri samafuna kudzipereka okha ku zokondweretsa zakuthupi m'zigawo zoyamba za chiyanjano.
Choncho, talemba zina zomwe zingamuthandize msungwana kuti azigonana ndi abwenzi ake atsopano.
- Pa magawo oyambirira a chiyanjano, sikoyenera kukomana ndi munthu yekha kunyumba kapena kunyumba kwake, makamaka mochedwa usiku.
- Ndibwino kukonza misonkhano madzulo. Chifukwa ngati inu mugona pansi pakhomo pamoto, mudzaphimba bulangeti imodzi, botolo la champagne lidzayima pafupi, ndipo ulonda udzakhala pakati pausiku - munthuyo adzatsimikiza kuti ichi ndi chizindikiro chochitapo kanthu.
- Yesetsani kukumana m'malo amodzi. Funsani munthuyo kuti abwere kwa inu, kenako pitani naye ku bungwe lirilonse.
- Macheso ndi achiwerewere komanso achigololo. Komabe, ndibwino kukhala kunja kwa nyumba, chifukwa sangayembekezere kukhala motalikira pamsewu, ndipo zina zambiri zidzakula ndikukhala zina. Musalole kuti mwamuna atengeke pamene muli nokha, mukhale pabedi labwino, gona pansi, ndipo chipinda chiri pafupi.
- Amuna angathe kusintha vutoli kotero kuti pambuyo pa misonkhano yoyamba idzaphwanyidwa. Ngati zikuwoneka kuti akufuna "kukhala ndi tiyi," ndipo simunakonzekere, mutsimikizireni kumuuza kuti ali pafupi ndi khomo. Pankhani ya nyumba yomanga nyumba, ndi bwino kunena zabwino ku malo olandirira alendo, atatha kunena kuti "Zikomo, wokondedwa." Usiku wabwino kwambiri. " Pomwe abwera kunyumba musamuuze munthuyo kuti: "Chabwino, mukhoza kubwera kwa ine, osati kwa nthawi yaitali." Kuitana kulikonse panyumba yamadzulo kwa mphindi, kungatheke m'mawa.
- Maseka a nthabwala zake, kumwetulira, mukhale bwenzi lake lapamtima. Cholinga chanu ndi, munakhala bwenzi la mwamuna, koma mbuye wachilendo. Pamene mnyamata ayamba kulankhula za iye mwini, ichi ndi chizindikiro choyamba kuti mukuchita zonse bwino. Mwamuna adzatseguka pamaso pa mkazi amene amamukonda. Kugonana molimba mtima, koma moyenera. Samalani ndi nthabwala zokhudzana ndi kugonana, chifukwa nthawi zambiri sizinkwa zambiri. Amuna nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito kuseketsa kuti ayang'ane "nthaka pansi pa mapazi awo". Musakhale osasangalatsa, chifukwa cha nthabwala zabwino sizochimwa. Komabe, pa nkhani zogonana, motalika kwambiri kuti tachedwe, mwamunayo akhoza kuona kuti khalidwe lanu ndi "kuwala kobiriwira".
- Sikoyenera kudutsa malire a zomwe zololedwa komanso makina. Musamulole kuti asatuluke kapena, ngakhale pang'ono, chotsani zovala zanu, zingakhale zovuta kuimitsa zochita zake. Mnyamata aliyense yemwe ali ndi BMW watsopano adzakhala wokondwa "kusewera" ndi mipando ya amina. Ambiri amagula makina amenewa.
- Kawirikawiri nenani mamitidwe a munthu. Nthawi zonse mumamvetsetse tanthauzo lake kwa inu, kuti akufuna. Mwachitsanzo, izo zidzakhala zabwino kwa mwamuna, pamene, ngati mwangozi, mupuma fungo la zokongoletsera zake pamagulu. Inu mukhoza kunena kuti lero izo zikuwoneka zabwino. Chidwi chonsecho chimamudalitsa kuti mtima wanu woyembekezera suli wokhudzana ndi kukhumba kwake ngati munthu.
- Mukhoza kusonyeza malingaliro anu pagulu. Izi ndizotetezeka, chifukwa palibe china chomwe chingathe kuchitika mu izi.
- Musadzitengere nokha nthawi. Sikofunika kunena kuti muyenera kuyembekezera mwezi. Musatchule masiku enieni - iwo ndi opanda ntchito. Mphindi womwewo uyenera kuchitika kokha mukakhala okonzekera, osati tsiku kale.
- Mwa zochita zanu, onetsani kuti munthu samakukondani, kuti mumamukonda. Ikani mutu wanu paphewa kapena mutenge dzanja, kotero iye amve ngati munthu. Mutha kukwapula bondo mkati mwake, koma musewere - bondo basi! Mulimonsemo zingakhale zotheka kukwera mmwamba, munthu akhoza kuona gawo ili monga "kuitanira".
- Musakhulupirire mawu a munthuyo: "Tonse tidzatha kupewera." Ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse amangoonekera pamaso panu pokhapokha, m'madera otere, mahomoni amphongo amatha kusankha kunja, ndipo amapita patsogolo kuposa momwe mungafunire.
- Musamupatse munthuyo chizindikiro chodabwitsa. Mwamuna amalinganiza mosiyana ndi mkaziyo, ndipo akhoza kuonedwa ngati wanu, poyamba, kuchita zolakwa mosiyana. Monga mkazi angathe kutumiza chizindikiro chosavuta, ndikuwonetsani chitsanzo. Mwapempha mnyamata kunyumba kwanu mutatha mvula yothira, mum'phika tiyi wonyezimira, atakulungidwa mu bulangeti, ndipo mumayika mumaikonda, otentha komanso okongola. Atsikana ambiri angaganize kuti: "Ndi chiyani chomwecho?" Pajamas ndi osamala kwambiri, kuti mnyamata aziyamikiridwa monga kuyitanira kuti akhale pachibwenzi. Komabe, izi siziri zoona! Zovala zokonzera kugona pamaso pa mwamuna zimawoneka zosadziwika. Ndipo ziribe kanthu konse ngati izi ndi flannel nightie, pajamas kapena ngakhale izo zidzakhala zopusa zazikulu maboti - munthu nthawi yomweyo aziwona zochita zanu ngati "kuwala kobiriwira".
Pomalizira ndikufuna kunena, ngakhale kuti amuna onse amaumiriza atsikana tsiku lawo loyamba kugonana, mkati mwawo kwinakwake m'mbuyo mwa malingaliro awo akufuna kuti muwayembekezere pang'ono. Amafuna kukhulupirira kuti ndinu "wapadera." Mmodzi wa iwo amafuna kuti mukhale wokongola kwambiri, wodabwitsa komanso wabwino kwambiri. Akufuna kuti mumuganizire mwa anthu wamba komanso kuseka nthabwala zake. Mwamuna akufuna kuwona mulungu wamkazi pafupi. Aloleni iwo akukhumbeni inu, atsatire inu ndipo musamapereke kwa iwo mwamsanga ndi mosavuta. Ndipo pokhapokha mutakhala "Mkazi Wabwino" kwa yemwe amakukondani!