Mwina ndizomveka kulankhula za mavuto amene amayenda ndi wina aliyense, ngakhale banja losangalala kwambiri.
Malo oopsa.
Pali mabanja omwe amakhala ovuta kupulumuka ngakhale nthawi zovuta kwambiri popanda zotsatira. Ena amagwa mosiyana pa mavuto oyambirira. Kuti mudziwe zomwe muyenera kuyembekezera kuchokera ku ubale wanu m'tsogolomu, nkoyenera kutsimikizira ngati muli mu malo otchedwa chiopsezo.
Nthawi zambiri mavuto amawoneka pakati pa okwatirana omwe ali ndi zaka zambiri.
Musamayembekezere nyengo yopanda mtambo, ngati muli ndi zolekanitsa zosiyana, maphunziro, chikhalidwe cha anthu, mapindu.
Pamene okwatirana ambiri ali ndi kusiyana, olemerera nthaka kuti apange zisokonezo zosiyanasiyana.
Chinthu cholakwika chingatchedwe kukhala ndi makolo, achibale ena kapena oyandikana nawo okha.
M'dera loopsya mumagulu awiriwa akutsatira zolinga zosiyana, momwe maonekedwe a banja amadziwonetsera mwa njira zosiyanasiyana.
Komanso, ana ndi mfundo yofunikira. Kumbali imodzi, kukhalapo kwawo kungalimbikitse vuto la maubwenzi, komano, kusakhala kwa ana sikuwapulumutsa ku mavuto.
Nthawi yodikira mphepo yamkuntho.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo samagwirizana pa izi. Zindikirani kuti mavuto oyambirira pakati pa maubwenzi amayamba pamene okwatirana amatha kutopa. Kawirikawiri izi zimachitika chaka chimodzi chiyambireni moyo wokhudzana.
Mfundo zotsatila zotsatirazi zikuchitika zaka 4-5 zonse. Zambiri zomwe zimakhudza maubwenzi, nthawi zambiri padzakhala zovuta ndipo phindu lidzakhala limodzi.
Pali maanja omwe maubwenzi awo samasintha kwambiri, mosasamala kanthu za maulosi okhudza maganizo. Ena amangoona kuti ali ndi vuto la zaka zisanu kapena khumi, ndipo amadabwa pozindikira kuti gawoli silikhala loyamba kwa iwo.
Zizindikiro za masautso akubwera.
Sitinganene kuti mavutowa amadza mwadzidzidzi tsiku lina ndi nthawi. Kawirikawiri, mpaka nthawi yovuta, okwatirana amatha kuona zizindikiro zina, zomwe munthu angadziwe pamene chiwerengero cha mavuto chikubwera ndi pamene denouement ikubwera.
-Kuthandizidwa kwa kugonana.
Kulephera kwa chiyanjano kungayambitse mikangano, koma kungakhale chiwonetsero cha mphepo yamkuntho.
- Palibe chikhumbo chokweza chidwi cha wokondedwa.
Pakati pa gawo lino iwo amanena zambiri: okwatirana samasamala za maonekedwe awo pambali pawokha, kulola kuchitapo kanthu ndikusazindikira kusintha kwa wina ndi mzake.
-kulephera kupeza chiyanjano.
Ngati m'chaka choyamba chokhala pamodzi mumakhala mosavuta komanso mosangalala kupeza njira zothetsera mavuto omwe angakwaniritse onse awiri, tsopano ndi njira yina yozungulira, ndipo aliyense akukoka bulangeti.
-kusowa kumvetsetsa.
Ndi pafupi ndi gawo ili lomwe iwo akunena, mutamva kuti okwatirana anayamba kulankhula zinenero zosiyanasiyana. Ngakhale mawu ophweka ndi omveka bwino nthawi zina amachititsa kuti asamayende bwino, ndipo tanthauzo la zomwe zanenedwa sizingafikire adilesi.
-Nedness mu tsatanetsatane.
Tsopano simukusowa chifukwa chachikulu chokangana, pali zotsutsa zomwe zikubwera.
- Magulu osiyanasiyana olemera.
Zili zachilendo kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi wake amatha kukhala mtsogoleri, ndipo wachiwiri - kapoloyo. Panthawi ya mavuto, abwenzi amatha kusintha maudindo awo ndi choonadi ndi zowonongeka, zomwe zimangowonjezera mkhalidwewo.
-Zowona.
Kusamakhulupirira kumatenga mawonekedwe okhaokha. Izi ndi zotsutsa zachipwirikiti, ngakhale ziribe chifukwa chilichonse kwa iwo, izi ndizozitsutsa za zochita zomwe sanaganizidwepo.
Momwe mungakhalire?
Choyamba, khalani chete. Vuto la kugonana silili chiganizo kwa maubwenzi okha, ndizosavuta chabe komanso kuyesa mphamvu.
Dziwani kuti kwa inu mwafika nthawi yovuta yomwe mungagonjetse kokha ngati mutamamatirana. Ngati cholinga chanu ndi kupulumutsa banja, mkuntho sudzakuthandizani.
-Thandizana wina ndi mzake.
Panthawi yovutayi, mudzalakwitsa, zomwe muyenera kukhululukirana.
-Thandizana wina ndi mnzake.
Pamene mumakhala chete ndikukhala mkati mwanu, pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati panu. Kusewera chete kumangowonjezera kusakhulupirirana ndi kukwiya wina ndi mzake.
-Yesetsani kupeza zosamvana.
Panthawiyi, ndi bwino kuiwala za mapeto a chiwonetsero. Mwamsanga mutavomereza, posachedwa mavuto adzatha.
-Samaimba mlandu ena.
Vuto lingakwiyitse anthu ena, koma sio chifukwa chawo. Ndikofunika kukumbukira pamene mwasankha kutsutsana wina ndi mnzake kwa wina ndi mzake, abwenzi kapena ngakhale ana. Kuwonekera kwa ana ndi chiyeso chachikulu kwa okwatirana, komabe vuto likhoza kuchitika m'mabanja omwe ana ali kale achikulire kapena kumene sali konse.
-Musakwiyitse.
Tsopano mikangano imatha mosavuta kuunika kokha. Kuwona kokwanira kokwanira, pamene mwadzidzidzi pali madandaulo omwe akuyankhidwa. Dziyang'aneni nokha ndipo musayese kukwiyitsa wokondedwa.
- Musaiwale kupuma.
Kuphatikizana kuchokera kwa wina ndi mnzake. Vuto la maubwenzi si nthawi yabwino yochitira limodzi pamodzi paulendo. Koma musadzitengere nokha kwambiri, mwinamwake kuyankhulana pakati pa inu sikudzatha.
Ndikofunika kuti musamaope kuzindikira kuti mwasintha, ndipo ubale wanu wasintha. Mabanja alibe mikangano, koma mukhoza kukhala chitsanzo chabwino chogonjetsa mavuto alionse popanda kutaya chinthu chachikulu: kulemekeza ndi kukondana wina ndi mzake.