Sindikudziwa ngati ndizovulaza mwamuna - munthu "wamoyo" pafupi ndi Orlando ataya ... Kodi mungaganize kuti kugonana kunali kowala komanso zabwino? Ndipo kodi zokhumba zobisika zoterezi zingaganizedwe kukhala chinyengo kwa mwamuna wake?
Orlando Bloom ndi Mickey Rourke ndi anthu ofanana ndi amuna omwe ali pafupi ndi inu. Zomwe tikuwona pazenera ndi chithunzi chopangidwa ndi ntchito ya anthu ambiri. Chimodzimodzi chithunzi chomwe mkazi amawonekera m'malingaliro ake ndipo kwenikweni amagonana ndi chithunzi ichi, osati ndi munthu wina. Ndikuganiza kuti izi ndizosiyana, osati vuto lililonse, komanso kuganiza kuti kugonana sikuyenera kuonedwa kuti ndikunamizira mwamuna wake. Ngati maloto amenewa amathandiza moyo wa kugonana, thandizani mkazi kuti awonongeke, ndiye kuti palibe cholakwika ndi iwo.
Pamapeto pake , mwamuna ali pabedi ndi wokondedwa wake, makamaka ngati sangakwanitse kugonana, nthawi zambiri amatha kuganiza mobisa ndi zolakalaka zachinsinsi zokhudzana ndi kugonana - osati mafilimu a kanema, akhoza kukhala woyandikana naye kapena wogwira naye ntchito, kapena ngakhale mnzanu wapamtima poyenda. Ndipo izo sizikutanthauza kuti izo zimakusintha iwe kapena ziri pafupi kusintha.
Ngati, ndi chizoloŵezi chogonana nthawi zonse, mwamuna amakhala wokhutira, ndiye kuti alibe chinthu chogonana - ndipo izi sizikutanthauza kuchuluka, koma za khalidwe. Wokondedwayo ayenera kuyang'anitsitsa momwe mafilimu amamafilimu amamukondera, mwamuna aliyense amasonkhanitsa kusonkhanitsa malingana ndi zomwe amakonda. Kwa mkazi wanzeru, ili ndi pepala lachinyengo. Ndibwino kuti muwonere filimu yolaula nokha kapena mnzanuyo kuti mumvetse zomwe amakonda ndikuzichita. Mwachiwonekere, muzigawo ziwirizi, sizinatayika chirichonse, ngati mwamuna akufunabe mkazi pafupifupi tsiku lililonse, ngakhale kuti zolaula zimakhala zovuta.
Chinachake chatsopano ndi chachikongola
Ngati zokhumba zokhudzana ndi chiwerewere ndi zokhudzana ndi kugonana, ndiye kuti zimakhala zosavuta komanso zotetezeka kukwaniritsa maliseche, pogwiritsa ntchito zipangizo zochokera kumsika wogonana kapena popanda iwo. Mwa ichi palibe choipa kapena chochititsa manyazi, mosiyana - zambiri zabwino za thanzi ndi zokondweretsa. Ngati, mwa mawu ake, iye akufuna mwamuna, ndiye izi zikhoza kutanthauza kuti akufunabe chibwenzi, chifukwa kugonana ndikokhutira osati zakuthupi zokha, komanso zosowa zapakati. Amayima yekha kapena pamodzi ndi katswiri wamaganizo kuti azindikire zomwe akufuna.
Zokhudzana ndi zomwe munthu angakwanitse kuchita popereka chinsinsi cha "kugonana popanda zotsatira", ndiye, monga lamulo, ndizolimbikitsa. Posachedwapa, kugonana kwakukulu kwakhala kozoloŵera kuti akazi nthawi zambiri amasonyeza ntchito, ndipo zimayamikira kwambiri.
Ngati mkazi akudziganizira kuti ndi mkazi (sizowopsa kuti pamayamba yoyamba sakuiwala kunena kuti mwamunayo ali nacho), ndiye, moyo wawo pamodzi ndi uhule wobisika, momwe, ngati mukufuna, simukufuna, muyenera kukwaniritsa zofuna zonse za "kasitomala" ". Ubale wotere umapezeka ngati mkazi sali chinthu chokongola chofunikira chofunikira kwa munthu chifukwa cha udindo. Ngati banjali ali ndi chikondi ndi kulemekezana wina ndi mnzake, ndiye kuti munthuyo sangapange zopereka zomwe zimamukhumudwitsa kapena zimamukhumudwitsa, mulimonsemo, sangapereke kangapo.
Sikuti mkazi aliyense amatha kuona bwinobwino momwe mwamuna wake wokondedwa amachitira mwachikondi ndi wina. Ayenera kuuzidwa mwachindunji, kwa iye kuti zilakolako zake zowonjezera zimamupweteka, ndipo ngati mwamuna amamukonda kwambiri, amavomereza kuti asanalankhulenso za iwo, kapena adzakambirana pamodzi. Ubale muwiri sizingatheke popanda kudalira, kumvetsetsa kumverera kwa wokondedwa, chikhumbo choyendana wina ndi mzake kukakumana. Popanda izi, moyo wogonana wogwirizana ndizosatheka. Choncho, pamene mkazi akulemba kuti "Ndikufuna kumusangalatsa," ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti wokondekayo sangakhale wosangalala, kupweteka kwa wosankhidwayo.
Mwa njira , kuti nthawi zina mwamuna amawoneka mwachikondi pa zokongola ndipo akufuna kukhutira ndi zilakolako zobisika za kugonana sizomwe zimadetsa nkhaŵa, wina akhoza kudandaula ngati sakanatero. Kwachiwerewere champhamvu ndi zachilendo kukondweretsedwa ndi amayi, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti iye samayesetsa kufunafuna zosangalatsa m'zonse, koma ndi zomwe amamukonda.