Timakhala ndi chikhalidwe chogonana
Choyamba, ndibwino kuti mudziwe kuti zovala zowonekera kwambiri, kukula kwa phokoso, maonekedwe okongola, mawonekedwe a m'chiuno, kutalika kwa miyendo ndi kugonana sikufanana. Mungatsanzire makhalidwe ndi juga monga momwe mumakonda, koma ngati palibe chiwerewere chachibadwa, ndiye kuti sikudzatheka kuti amuna akhale okongola. Kugonana kwachilengedwe sikutheka kufanana, koma kungapangidwe. Koma choyamba muyenera kudzimasula nokha kuchokera kumayendedwe a anthu ndi kukumbukira kuti:
- Gawo lamphamvu laumunthu silingalekerere akazi opusa kwambiri. Ife, ndithudi, sitingakhoze kumvetsa chinachake ndipo izi ndi zachilendo, koma ife tiribe ufulu kuti tikhale opusa moona;
- Ophwanya mafilimu samakonda akazi omwe amadziwika ndi maonekedwe awo. Iwo amavomereza kwambiri amayi owona mtima, amodzi ndi osadziwika;
- Amuna samakonda amayi omwe amatsatira miyambo yovomerezeka yovomerezeka (amayi omwe amayesa kuyang'ana bwino). Ine sindikusamala za amuna, ndipo kugonana sikukondweretsa kwa ine mwina.
Pakukula kwa kugonana kwachilengedwe, chinthu chotsiriza chimasewera mbali yofunikira. Komabe, zikhalidwe za anthu nthawi zonse zimasonyeza kuti muyenera kudziyesa bwino, ndi kubisala kugonana kwanu m'njira zonse zomwe zingatheke komanso zosatheka. Monga, chinthu chachikulu mwa mkazi si thupi. Ndizowonadi, koma chizoloŵezicho chimatsimikiziranso. Chiyero sichikutanthauza kusaganizira kwenikweni kugonana. Popeza chiyero chenicheni ndi chinsinsi cha kugonana chomwe mukufuna kuti mutsegule. Komanso, zimatanthauza khalidwe la atsikana kukhala wosasangalatsa, luso lake loganiza ndikuchita payekha. Ndipo ngati, pokambirana ndi mnyamata, msungwana wotere amudziwitsa kuti moto wa kugonana unayamba, ndiye kuti munthuyo sali wokondwa, chifukwa amayamba kukondana naye. Ndiko kunjenjemera kwambiri kuti mumvetse kuti ndinu wamkulu, ndipo kukhalapo kamodzi kumakondweretsa mkazi wokongola uyu! Izi zikutanthauza kuti kukakamiza kugonana kumachokera ku mphamvu ya mkazi kuti azichita mwanjira yomwe mwamuna amadziwira kuti mkazi ali wokonzeka kuphwanya miyambo ya chikhalidwe. Izi zimayamikiridwa kwambiri ndi amuna.
Kuti mukhale ndi khalidwe labwino mwa inu nokha, n'zotheka kuganiza, koma yasheby akanawatsogolera bwanji mkhalidwe umenewu, ngati atatsimikiza kuti palibe amene akudziwa za ntchitoyi? Ndipo padzakhala nthawi pamene ife tonse tidzakhala ndi makhalidwe ofanana. Ndiyeno sizidzasamala zomwe anthu amaganiza, pambuyo pake, uwu ndiwo moyo wathu ndipo amasamala chiyani. Inde, musathamange mumsewu mumaliseche, chifukwa ndithudi zidzatha muvuto. Koma ndibwino kuti muzichita zinthu mofulumira, bwanji osakhala ndi mwayi? Ngati wina sakonda, chabwino, ali ndi nkhawa, tiyenera kudandaula. Kotero, tinakambirana za kukula kwa kugonana, tsopano tikambirana za kunja ndikuphunzira momwe tingagwiritsire ntchito njira zina zogonana.
Kukulitsa zokhudzana ndi kugonana
Mbali yachithupithupi ya chiwerewere chathu chachilengedwe chimasonyeza kukhalapo kwa pheromone zogwira mtima. Pheromones ndi ziwalo zolimbikitsa kugonana, phokoso limene limagwidwa ndi nthumwi ya amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Fungo ili pafupifupi imperceptible, kotero ndizosatheka kuzizindikira, mosiyana ndi fungo la fungo. Ma Pheromones amachititsa kuti iwo asamaganizire za amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Munthu aliyense ali ndi zizindikiro zake, zomwe zimangokhala ngati mtundu wina wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Kuti ma pheromones agwire ntchito molimbika, amalangizeni kuti:
- Kuti amasulidwe ku ziphuphu zakuthupi ndi m'maganizo mwazidziwitso;
- Nthawi zonse mukhale ndi thupi labwino, chifukwa ichi mungachite mtundu uliwonse wa masewera;
- Ndipo ndithudi, idyani bwino.
Pansi pa zakudya zoyenera zimatanthawuza kusavomerezeka kwa chakudya chamadzulo komanso kusowa kudya. Komanso, sizimaphatikizapo zakudya zowononga. Pachifukwa ichi, kulingalira moyenerera n'koyenera. Ndizotheka ngati muli ndi chibadwa chakuthupi kuti mukhale wolemera. Pofuna kusungira mapaundi pang'ono kuchokera pamtunda, ndi bwino kumwa mowa wa khamulo kuti udye.
Amayi ambiri omwe ali ndi pheromones amphamvu mwa amuna amadziwika kwambiri kuposa akazi oonda. Nthawi zina mukakhala atsikana ambiri, chibwenzi chogonana chimakhala chokongola kwambiri kusiyana ndi mkazi yemwe nthawi zonse amadzetsa zakudya.
Wopikisano wothamanga ali ndi pheromones amphamvu. Komabe, simusowa kuti mukhale ndi nkhawa kwambiri, choncho musazengereze masewera. Zokwanira zidzakhala aerobics, kuthamanga, masewera olimbitsa thupi.
Kukhala mkazi wamagonana kumafuna psychotraining ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, kusinkhasinkha, chitukuko chauzimu, kuthekera kusintha maganizo olakwika kukhala mphamvu zowona. Ngati simungathe kudzithandiza nokha, pitani kwa psychoanalyst, mukhoza kupemphera, werengani mabuku ofunikirawo. Zonsezi zikhoza kuchitika chifukwa cha ukhondo, zomwe zimapereka zotsatira zabwino.
Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumathandizira kukulitsa luntha ndi luso labwino, kumapangitsa kukumbukira ndikukulitsa chidziwitso chomwe chidzatipangitse kukhala opambana, chomwe chidzatipatsa chidaliro. Muzitsulo padzakhala chisomo, kumasuka, zokopa kwambiri, ndi maso - kuwala. Chimwemwe chidzabweretsa chisoni ndi ziwawa. Kuyitana kwa kugonana ndi pheromones kuyambitsa bizinesi yawo kenako ...