Zomwe zimakondweretsa kwambiri zimapezeka: Pamene mwamuna wanu anali chibwenzi, mumakhumba kumukonda, kuti mumtima mwanu malamulo onse a psychology amakumbukiridwa ndi mtima. Anamvetsera mwachidwi kwa iye, adamuvomereza, anali wokhudzidwa ndi zochitika zake, atavala zovala ndi kumangoganiza za iye yekha. Iye anali wabwino kwambiri, wokondedwa kwambiri, wochenjera kwambiri, wokoma mtima kwambiri, wokongola kwambiri, woposa ... Ndipo Zakudyazi izi zinagwera pamakutu ake kwambiri kotero kuti potsirizira pake anatsimikiza kuti ayenera kukwatira. Mwadzidzidzi. Pa inu.
Komabe, asadutse malire a ofesi yolembera, akunyamula thupi lanu mwachimwemwe, atavala zida ndi taffeta, nthawi yomweyo anawonekera. Osati kuti iwo sanalipo kale. Pakalipano, kumverera ngati mchimanga wa tiger yemwe potsiriza anapeza chikwapu ndi phula m'manja mwa chikwati chaukwati ndi sitampu mu pasipoti, munaganiza kuti ndi nthawi yoti muchitepo.
Pokhala ndi malingaliro a magazini azimayi pa kuphunzitsidwa nyama yowonongeka ya "mwamuna" ndi kukonzekera malingaliro ake omwe a momwe angakhalire bwino mwamuna wokwatirana, mumasintha mwachinyengo kusintha osasinthika ndikusowa maso, makutu ndi miyoyo ya ulemu, zomwe munayamikira poyamba.
Koma simukusowa kanthu. Musadandaule, kumwetulira nthawi zambiri, yesetsani kuyang'ana bwino, ndipo chofunika kwambiri - musaiwale kutamanda makhalidwe ake abwino. Ndikokutamanda mwamuna wake. Ndipotu, pokhapokha pangoyang'anitsitsa, zikuwoneka kuti wolimba kwambiri wokhala m'maofesi sangathe kulekerera "mwana wachisoni" ndipo ali wokonzeka kuchita ntchito zogonana tsiku lonse monga choncho. Koma ndithudi, mchitidwe wanu wamtunduwu uli ngati duwa lachikondi, lomwe popanda chiyamiko choyamika, ngati opanda madzi okwanira, posachedwa adzafota ndikusiya kuchita ntchito zokhazokha, koma ntchito zambiri.
Musamulole iye kubangТono kakang'ono ndipo osati wokondedwa, ndipo samakutamandani inu nthawizonse. Choncho yambani yoyamba. Ndipo ayezi-kirimu, wokhudzidwa ndi ubale wanu wokhazikika ndi wokalamba, amayamba kusungunuka pang'onopang'ono.
Inu mulibe chirichonse chomuyamika Iye? Kodi izi zimachitikadi? Ine sindikanakhulupirira izo! Werengani mndandanda wamakhalidwe abwino kuti mutamandidwe, pitilirani ku kukoma kwanu ndikuwerengera kuti ndi angati omwe mungagwiritse ntchito kwa mwamuna wanu.
ZOCHITIKA ZIMENEZI, ZOCHITA ...
Tsono, pali mndandanda wa makhalidwe omwe angathenso kuyamikiridwa:
• Ndi wanzeru.
Kusiyana kwake ndi chiyani osati Einstein, koma momwe akumvetsetsa ndale!
• Ndi wokongola.
Chiyani? Zosamba ndi mafuta? Koma maso ake ndi otani!
• Ndizochuma.
Nanga bwanji ngati nthawi yomaliza asamba mbale, akadali wachinyamata? Koma atakakamizika kwambiri, adatulutsanso zidazo!
• Ndi bwino.
Musayambe kuvala masokosi omwewo kawiri. Ngakhale kuti muyenera kusamba.
• Iye ndi wokonzeka.
Momwemo, amatanthawuza? Kodi mukuchita !!! Zimakhala zosasangalatsa komanso zachuma, zosamalira zachuma cha banja. O, amakonda ndalama? Chabwino ndiye:
• Iye ndi wowolowa manja.
Ndipo kodi mungakonde kupita ku mapeto ena a mzinda chifukwa cha tomato kuti mupange ruble chifukwa cha chuma?
• Amamvetsera mwachidwi.
Ngati mwakhumudwa nazo m'malo momakupatsani tsiku la kubadwa, adakupatsani ndalama, choncho musakwiye. Zingakhale zovuta ngati iye akanayiwala za iye.
• Ndi wokonda kwambiri.
Chowonadichi chikuwonetsedwanso ndikuti, pambuyo pa kugonana, iye, atatopa ndi ntchito mwakhama kuti akupatseni inu chisangalalo, nthawi yomweyo amagona tulo.
• Ali ndi anzake.
Ngakhale kuti amathera nthawi yochuluka kwa anzake, pali chiyembekezo chakuti pakati pawo, pamapeto pake, zothandiza zidzawonekera.
• Iye ndi wanzeru.
Ena amamuyitana iye wobereka, koma akungoyesera kulowa mu mtima wa zinthu!
• Ndi wokondweretsa.
Ndizoti iye ali ndi mdima wakuda. Koma mukudziwa kuti adzapambana!
• Ali ndi luso.
Anthu a m'masiku ano sadayamikire izi, koma adzayamikira anawo!
• Ali ndi maganizo amodzi.
Choonadi chimayesetsa tsiku lililonse kuti likhale latsopano, mosiyana ndi zolinga, zolinga. Koma izi ndi zopanda pake.
• Ndi bambo wabwino kwambiri.
Ana amamukonda kwambiri! (Mwinamwake chifukwa iwo saziwona kawirikawiri?)
• Iye ndi wazandale.
M'malo moitana apongozi ake apongozi, anangochoka, akung'amba chitseko.
• Iye ndi woona mtima.
Zoonadi ndikunena mosapita m'mbali kuti munapita ku zolimbitsa thupi kuti muchepetse kulemera. Koma akanatha kukhala chete ndikuyamba wokonda mtendere.
• Samasuta (samamwa, samakana, sasewera sweepstakes, samatsogolera atsikana) ...
Kodi mukuganiza kuti sakuchita, chifukwa samateteza mitsempha yanu, koma thanzi lanu? Ndiye uwu ndi mwayi watsopano wotamanda:
• Amakonda kwambiri thanzi lake.
Choncho, amayesetsa kuti asawononge ntchito yake ndikudya madzulo ake pabedi. Ndiyeno-mu banja. Ndipo potsirizira pake:
• Ndimunyada kwambiri!
Kodi si zoona? Ndiye sizidziwika bwinobwino chifukwa chake mudakali naye.
ZINTHU ZIMENE MUMACHITITSA MTIMA WANU
Kuyamika ndi koyamba kwa luso. Choncho, imafuna nthawi yoyenera, malo, kukoma mtima komanso kulingalira. Izi ziyenera kuzindikiridwa kuti kutamandidwa kwakukulu ndikutamanda. Koma mankhwala othandizawa angawoneke ngati balm kwa moyo wa okhulupirika anu, komanso poizoni, omwe angathe kuwononga chiyanjano chanu.
Pano mungatenge monga chitsogozo chochitapo kanthu pa malo awa: kutamanda pakati pa anthu ndi kofunika pa zomwe zili mu dongosolo la anthu awa. Ngati muli ndi khamu la anthu lomwe limasonkhana kwa alendo a abwenzi ake okondana omwe amaganiza kuti ndi masewera a zisewero, kungakhale chinthu chopusa kuti ayamikire chuma chake. Mwinamwake abwenzi adzamvetsa chikhumbo chanu ndipo ngakhale kuzifikitsa izo ku nkhani ya kuzindikira kwanu kwa dziko lapansi. Koma wokondeka wanu amamva ngati munthu wodzitamandira kwathunthu ndipo amamva maganizo odzichepetsa a "amalume achikulire". Koma nsagwada za abwenzi omwewo zimatha kugwa mukamanena kuti mwatopa kumenyana ndi mwamuna wanu kuchokera kwa mafanizi aakazi ambiri.
Musamangoganiziranso zinthu zomwe sizinali zofunika kwa munthu wanu. Ngati amadana ndi banja lake, kuyamika "mumatsuka mbale zanu bwino" zidzakuwonetsani ngati kunyoza komanso kuti sakudziwa chilichonse chokhudza kusamba mbale. Pachifukwa ichi, kutamandidwa kwa mbale kungamveke pokhapokha ngati "inu nonse mumachita zabwino komanso mbale ndizowonetseratu."
Ndipo chinthu china chowonjezera. Musapitirire! Ngati mwamuna wanu ali ndi gulu lakuda, ndiye kuti amafunikira kutamandidwa, kumvetsa, ndi kuthandizidwa monga mpweya. Ngati patapita nthaŵi, ndiye kuti mutamandamize mwamuna wanu mopanda malire - chiopsezo chakuti adzadziona kuti ndi mwini wake wa "makhalidwe onse" omwe ali ndi "chikumbumtima". Ndiyeno zingawonekere kwa iye kuti pafupi ndi mwamuna wanzeru, wowolowa manja, wokondweretsa, womvetsera, wodabwitsa, ayenera kukhala wosiyana kwambiri ndi mkazi. Icho sichoncho. Lolani kuti mwayesetsetse kuti muzimvetsera mwatcheru, koma mofanana pamutu wa munthu nthawi zina mumayenera kulumbirira kukayikira kuti mukusocheretsa kwinakwake ndi chinachake chimene simukuchiuza.
Mu mawu, khalani munthu wolenga ndipo nthawi zambiri mumapeze malo a mawu okoma. Ndipo chotero, ndikukhumba iwe chimwemwe mu moyo wako!