Chiyambi.
Ziribe kanthu momwe azimayi amayesera molimbika, dongosolo la abambo liribe lamphamvu kwambiri. Kuyambira kale, amuna adaloledwa zambiri, masabata kwa akazi ndipo amaloledwa kufikira lero. Zonsezi ndizosamvetsetseka kwasayansi, koma sizikuyenda bwino. Mwamuna wake akhoza kunyozedwa kapena kunyozedwa chifukwa chochitira nkhanza mkazi wake chifukwa chomenya mkazi wake. Ngakhale panopa pali zochitika zoterezi.
Kuitana kwa kuleza mtima kunathandiza mibadwo yambiri ya amayi kuti ikhale ndi moyo. Chikhalidwe cha amuna chinali cholungamitsidwa ndi njira iliyonse, motero amalimbikitsa zachiwawa. Mawonetseredwe achikazi a khalidwe lolowetsedwa mu chigawo chowonekera bwino, kulongosola malo ake kunyumba, mmagulu.
Ndizodabwitsa kuti atsikana amasankha amuna awo omwe angathe kukhala achiwawa. Ndizosadabwitsa ngati mwamuna woteroyo atenga msungwana yemwe wakhala akuwonanso mobwerezabwereza momwe abambo ake mwa njira zotere amaphunzitsira moyo wa mayi. Chikhumbo chosamvetsetsa ichi chofuna kusankha mwamuna wofanana ndi bambo, mwa amayi ambiri amadziwonetsera mopanda kuzindikira.
Zimakhalanso kuti mtsikana wochokera ku banja lolemera amakwatira ndikukhala ndi mwamuna kwa zaka zambiri, amene amaona kuti kuzunzidwa kumakhala kovuta. Izi zingakhale ngozi yowonongeka, ndipo mwinamwake chifukwa cha kudzichepetsa ndi kudzidzimva kuti ndi wolakwa. Mu kuya kwa moyo, amayi ambiri amalingalira kuti amayenera kukhala ndi maganizo otere, komabe zovuta zimakhala zomveka.
Zindikirani kuti ngati mkazi ali wokonzeka kupereka nsembe, pamene amadzidetsa yekha, amakhala wansanje komanso wamwano, amatha kukhala ndi nkhanza kwa amuna ake. Ndipo, mosiyana ndi zimenezo, asungwana okhulupilika, omwe mwina angakhale odzikuza kwambiri, amakhala ndi mwayi wochuluka kwambiri m'banja. Koma iwo sangalekerere malingaliro awo.
Ndipotu, ngati vuto likusankhidwa ndi amuna, kugonana kumene kumakhala kofanana, pamene mayi ali wozunzidwa, kulipo, ndiye kuti n'zotheka kuthetsa mchitidwe wamakono. Psychoanalysis ndi psychology onse asunthera mokwanira kuchotsa anthu a maofesi omwe amalepheretsa kusangalala.
Chimachitika ndi zenizeni.
Malingaliro a anthu pa nkhani ya nkhanza zapakhomo sizing'onozing'ono. Monga lamulo, onse omwe ayankhidwa pa mutuwu akuyankha kuti chiwawa cha anthu amasiku ano n'chosavomerezeka. Komanso, abambo ndi amai amatsutsa maganizo omwewo pa nkhaniyi. Koma izi ndi zomwe zimawoneka m'mawu. Ndipotu, maganizo pa nkhaniyi amasiyana.
Amuna ndi akazi ambiri amakhulupilira kuti amamenya okha omwe ali oyenerera, kuti kumenyedwa kungakhale koyenera pazochitika zina zambiri zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi kudziletsa. Ena amavomereza kuti kukwapulidwa kawirikawiri kumachita bwino, kuthandizira kusiya kukhumudwitsa kapena kuphunzitsa chinachake. Pafupifupi 30 peresenti ya amuna amakhulupirira kuti izi si zachilendo - pa zifukwa zosiyanasiyana, koma amakhulupirira kuti akazi amayenera kumenyedwa nthawi zina.
Zikuwoneka zachilendo kuti amayi 25% amavomereza ndi amuna.
Chimene muyenera kuchita.
Ndipotu, ngati simukukonda udindo wa wozunzidwa ndipo mukufunadi kusintha moyo wanu, zimadalira inu. Choyamba, pitani munthuyo asanakukambitsire dzanja. Kulephera kumayambira kaye popanda zifukwa komanso popanda zizindikilo, kawirikawiri zimawonekeratu pamene munthu ali wokonzeka kuwoloka mzere. Musayesere kukhala olimba, pitani.
Chachiwiri, musaganize kuti mumasiya zinthu panyumba, zomwe zidzakuchitikirani. Chisankho chovomerezani inu chidzakhala mtsogolo. Ntchito yanu yachiwiri ndi kupita kumalo otetezeka kwa anzanu kapena achibale. Nthawi zambiri, funsani apolisi.
Ngati kumenyedwa kunaperekedwa, musachedwe. Adilesi kwa apolisi, ngakhale kumverera komwe mumamverera kwa munthu uyu ndipo, ngakhale kuti mumamva bwanji kuti mukulakwa. Ngati simunena chilichonse, mudzalimbikitsa kuyesanso.
Bweretsani mboni, amene angakhale onse omwe adakuwonani zizindikiro za kumenya.
Chachitatu, musasiye dziko lanu monga momwe ziliri. Funsani thandizo la maganizo m'madera apadera kapena psychologists.
Chachinayi, musachedwe kukhululukira ndikukhulupilira lonjezo la munthu kuti iyi ndiyo nthawi yomaliza. Monga lamulo, pokhala ndi mphamvu zawo, zimakhala zovuta kuti anthu achokere. Ganizirani za nthawi ina yomwe ana anu angakhale nawo.
Ufulu ndi mwayi wokhala ndi moyo wachimwemwe ndi munthu woyenera kwambiri kwa inu ndi okwera mtengo kuposa momwe maubwenzi omwe mumatayira chifukwa chachikulu. Zikatero, chikondi cha mwamuna sichingapitirire chikondi chake. Mulimonsemo, chisankho cha momwe mungakhalire, kaya kukhala wozunzidwa kapena wachimwemwe - ziri kwa inu.