Maulendo a Mendelssohn, mlengalenga, nyanja ya maluwa, kumwetulira, kuyamika, kuwunika kwa makamera, makamera a kanema omwe amakukondani inu ndi okondedwa anu. Ndipo ndiwe mfumukazi ya mpirawu, wokongola, airy, wokondwa. Ndipo patsogolo - yoyamba ukwati usiku ndi usana. Dziko lapansi lojambula mu mitundu ya utawaleza, mtima ukuwuluka mlengalenga, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti ndiwe wopambana kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi. Tsiku losangalatsa, lokhalo m'moyo, ziribe kanthu zomwe iwo okwatirana khumi adanena! N'chiyani chingakhale chokongola kuposa tsiku laukwati?
Koma apa panabwera salute, inamveka ndi nyimbo ndikufuula "momvetsa chisoni" tsiku labwino la tchuthi, ndipo inu munasiyidwa nokha. Tsopano ndinu banja, ndi chimwemwe chonse, mavuto, mavuto ndi maudindo. Koma bwanji, ngati mwakwatirana, ndipo simunakali mnyamata ndi mtsikana, koma okwatirana achichepere, mwamuna ndi mkazi? Ndipo ndinu wamkulu bwanji, ziribe kanthu. Chofunika ndikuti ndinu amodzi. Ndipo palibe amene angafunse-kodi ndikumayambiriro kwambiri? Kodi mwakonzeka? Kodi mumamvetsa zomwe banja limatanthauza? Ndibwino kuti, ngati makolo amamvera chisankho chanu komanso ngati sakuchita chidwi, iwo sanasokoneze. Ndizoipa ngati ndi nthawi yochepa, ndipo mukumvetsa kuti mwamsanga ...
Ndipotu, mungadziwe bwanji kuti ndizoyambirira kwambiri kuti muvekwe korona, kapena kodi ndi nthawi yoti muzichedwa? Ndipo kodi pali yankho lililonse la funsoli: Kodi banja loyambirira ndilobwino kapena loipa?
Monga mwachizolowezi, palibe yankho losagwirizana. Chilichonse mu dziko lino n'chopanda malire, ziribe kanthu momwe zingamvekere. Ndipo kuyambirira kwaukwati kumakhalanso ndi ubwino ndi kuipa kwake. Choncho, mphamvu zake zimadalira zambiri. Zonse zimakhala zosinthika, kukoma mtima, chikondi cha achinyamata omwe ali pachibwenzi, komanso kuthandizidwa, kuthandizidwa ndi achibale ndi abwenzi, komanso pa moyo, komanso pazinthu zakuthupi, pulogalamu ya ntchito. Chokhacho, mwinamwake, kupindula kwakukulu kwaukwati woyambirira kungatengedwe kuti, monga lamulo, ndi kokha kwa chikondi. Ndipo, chifukwa chake, nthawi zonse amakhala ndi mwayi wopulumuka moyo.
Zina zomwe zikhoza kuchitika chifukwa cha mgwirizano wa mitima ya achinyamata ndikuti onse amakhala ndi moyo wathanzi komanso mitsempha yamphamvu, choncho, chifukwa cha zonse, chifukwa cha chikondi, zolakwa za wokondedwa zidzakhala zosawoneka. Kuphatikizanso apo, okwatiranawo asanakudziwe kale, ndipo kotero, chisamaliro ndi maudindo okhudzana ndi wina ndi mzake zidzakhala zosangalatsa, osati zolemetsa. Izi zidzakonzedwa kwambiri ndi malingaliro abwino ndi osamala pa mbali ya makolo a achinyamata omwe angokwatirana kumene. Ngati mbadwo wokalamba uli ndi chidziwitso chokwanira kuti athe kuthandiza ana awo mosamvetseka komanso pokhapokha ngati kuli kofunika, komanso kuti asatenge banja lawo laling'ono ndipo asayese kukhazikitsa ulamuliro wawo mwachinyengo, zidzalola achinyamata okwatirana kuphunzira ufulu ndi udindo wawo komanso okondedwa awo. Ndipo, chifukwa chake, mgwirizano wawo woyamba udzasanduka banja lamphamvu.
Chokhumudwitsa chachikulu pa zokambirana pa mutu wa banja loyambirira ndi, ndithudi, kubadwa kwa mwana. Pano, malingaliro a otsutsa ndi otsutsa akuzungulira nthawi imodzi yofunikira, koma mosiyana kwambiri. Oyamba amatsimikiza kuti mwamsanga mutabala mwana, ndikosavuta kuukitsa, chifukwa mumvetsetsa bwino, chifukwa ndiyandikana naye chifukwa cha msinkhu wake. Yachiwiri akuti makolo achichepere akadali ana omwe, choncho safunikira kudikira iwo kuti azikhala ndi maganizo okhudzana ndi mwanayo, komanso kuleza mtima komwe mimba ndi kubala zili pafupi, kapena kudziletsa, popanda zomwezo m'zaka zoyambirira za moyo mwana wakhanda sangathe kuchita. Vuto ndilokuti onse ali abwino m'njira yawoyawo. Ndipo chimene chidzapambana - chimadalira kwambiri makhalidwe omwe ali achinyamata, mgwirizano wawo, kukonzekera kuthandizana, kuthandizana kuthetsa mavuto ndi zolephera.
Vuto lina lalikulu, lopweteka maganizo ndi kupsinjika maganizo, lidzangokhala mwadzidzidzi komanso lodziwika bwino kwa okwatirana a ufulu wina aliyense. Zimadziwika kuti nthawi zina munthu aliyense ayenera kukhala yekha kwa ola limodzi kapena awiri, kumasuka, kutaya zinthu zonse komanso kwa aliyense. Ndi zabwino kapena zoipa, sikuti ife tiganizire. Koma ndi izi zingathe kugwirizanitsa kusamvana ndi kusakhutira. Achinyamata okwatirana omwe alibe zofunikira pamoyo sangathe kudzikonzekera okha kuti athe kuphunzira, kugwira ntchito, kuchita zonse kuzungulira nyumba, kumvetsera wokondedwa wawo, komanso kupeza nthawi ya zosangalatsa. Izi siziri zosankha kwa munthu wamkulu. Chinthu china ndi chakuti ma discos ndi mabwalo a usiku, maphwando ndi makampani osangalala a mabwenzi atatha zaka zingapo amakopeka pang'ono mpaka atakhala chinthu chosowa kapena chosowa kanthu. Koma ndili wachinyamata izi ndizo zikuluzikulu za moyo wamba. Ndipo ndibwino kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi asasiye mkazi wokhala yekha pamapiri a zovala zosasamba kapena nsalu zosaphimbidwa ndipo samangokhalira kukondwera ndi bar ndi abwenzi. Ndizoipa ngati atachita izi palimodzi, kutembenuzira nyumba yawo ku malo osabzalidwa komanso osasangalatsa, kumene amangofika usiku wonse.
Zili zoonekeratu kuti zifukwa zogwirizana ndi mgwirizanowu ndizofanana. Zambiri zimadalira pa nkhaniyi: Winawake akuyamba kukwatira ndipo makamaka, kukhala ndi ana, ndipo wina ali wokonzeka ali wamng'ono. Chinthu chachikulu apa, ziribe kanthu momwe chikondi chingamvere, chimadalira kuwona mtima kwa chikondi, chidzakhala ndi mphamvu ndi kukoma mtima, kukonzekerera paunyamata akadakali kudzisunga ndi ukwati ndi udindo. Ziwerengero zimasonyeza kuti chiwerengero cha mabanja osudzulana m'maukwati oyambirira ndi okwera kwambiri. Ndipo mbiriyakale imadziwa milandu yambiri pamene maukwati oyambirira adayambanso kuyanjana kwabwino kwa banja, kutengedwa m'moyo wonse.