Kubwezeretsanso kwa mphamvu.
Ziribe kanthu kuti zingamve chisoni bwanji, koma ambiri okwatirana omwe ali ndi vuto ngatilo muukwati, monga momwe chikondi chimatha, nthawi zambiri mumakumana nawo. Kuwonjezera apo izi ndizo chifukwa cha kutha kwa chilakolako ndi maganizo ndi zilakolako zakale. Mukakhala okwatirana okondana, yambani nthawi yochuluka kuti mugonane ndi kugonana ndipo mungayambe kukwiyitsana wina ndi mzake. Muzochitika izi, muyenera kulimbikitsa maganizo anu. Pali malamulo angapo omwe mungapezeko zatsopano za maubwenzi ndi kubwezeretsanso maganizo ngati mutasiya kukonda mnzanuyo.
Choncho, nyengo yoyeretsa ndikupita kwa makolo iyenera kusinthidwa nthawi yabwino. Ndipotu, zonsezi ndizofunika kwambiri. Pambuyo pa moyo ndi chisamaliro, nthawi zambiri timaiwala kuti ndife aang'ono, okongola ndi okondana wina ndi mzake! Pambuyo pake, kamodzi kamene simungathe kudzipunthwitsa nokha kuchokera kwa wina ndi mzake kuntchito kapena kuthamangira kusana kwa masana kuti mukondwere wina ndi mzake. Nchifukwa chiyani tsopano sitimabwereranso kumverera ngati atasiya kukonda ndi kuyesera kuti apitirize ukwatiwo? Pewani maganizo olakwika pambali ndikuyamba kuchita, kubwezeretsanso maganizo ake.
Masewera akuluakulu.
Kodi ndingatani kuti ndibwezeretse ngati ndikulephera chifukwa cha chikondi, ngati ndikuzizira? Momwe mungabwezerere kumverera koyambirira komwe mumakondedwa. Choyamba, zimathandiza "kukumbukira" za izi, ndithudi, kugonana. Osati kugonana kokha, koma usiku wapadera komanso wosakumbukira wachikondi (osati wina). Sikofunikira, mukabwera kunyumba kuti mulole za kugona nthawi imodzi, kumbukirani kuti kugonana ndikofunika kwambiri m'banja mwathu ndipo ngati wokwatirana ali wokhutira ndi moyo wapamtima, ndiye kuti muzinthu zina zonse zidzakhala zabwino ndipo simudzatha kumukonda. Choncho muzengereze bizinesi yonse ndipo sabata yotsatira idzatseke foni yanu. Ndiponso foni yomwe mumaikonda kwambiri. Ndipo musaiwale za foni yam'nyumba. Tangoganizani kuti, pamodzi ndi okhulupirika anu, munaponyedwa ku chilumba chosakhalamo, komwe kulibenso wina kupatulapo inu. Koma musanachite izi, musamalire "chakudya chauzimu". Ndi bwino kutero pamodzi ndi mnzanuyo. Palimodzi, sankhani mafilimu okhudzidwa. Masamba a siliki, makandulo onunkhira ndi ma diski angapo ndi nyimbo zotonthoza. Musaiwale za zovala zamakono zatsopano. Mwa njira, kuyang'ana mu sitolo yogonana ndilo lingaliro labwino, lomwe lingasokoneze moyo wanu wa kugonana. Ndipo pamapeto pake, bisani ma jeans omwe mumakonda kwambiri kunyumba. Chovala chofiirira cha silika kapena chokwanira "izi ndizo zovala zanu zam'mapiri. Ndiyeno chirichonse chiri monga momwe chinakonzedwera, chimangokhala kuti chiphatikize malingaliro ndi kugwiritsira ntchito "zinthu zonse" zomwe zasungidwa pasadakhale. Ndikhulupirire, ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu akulephera chifukwa cha chikondi, izi zidzakuthandizanso kubwezeretsa kumverera ndi chilakolako choyamba mwa iye.
Timakondwera ndi zosangalatsa zazing'ono.
Kuti mukatsitsimutse ndi kukonzanso malingaliro anu, yesani mnzanuyo. Kawirikawiri anthu oimira zachiwerewere amakonda kuthana ndi mavuto awo onse pamutu mwa mwamuna wawo ndipo nthawi imodzi amakayiwala za chikondi, chikondi ndi chikondi. Kumbukirani pamene mumatha kumuwononga ndi chakudya chamakono pogwiritsa ntchito nyali kapena kuyenda mu kuwala kwa mwezi. Kumbukirani kuti omwe saiwala kusonyeza chikondi, nthawi zonse azikhala okondedwa ndikufunidwa. Ndipo malo apamtima samavutika konse. Kodi mukufuna kubwezeretsa chikondi chake? Chonde! Pita kuyenda, koma osati pakati kapena m'masitolo, koma ku paki ina. Pezani malo obwinja, khalani pansi pa zinyalala zotengedwa m'nyumba, sungani botolo la champagne molunjika pa khosi, mudye chipatso, mupsompsone mpaka mutadzimvera. Kumbukirani momwe mudayambitsira mobwerezabwereza, dzidzidzimutseni m'malingaliro anu. Khulupirirani ine, ndithudi, iye, ngati inu, amasangalala ndi nthawi yomwe mumakhala ndikukumbukira momwe alili ndi inu mofanana.
Siyani mavuto anu onse kunja kwa makoma a nyumbayo.
Musayende pakhomo la nyumba yanu, mutanyamula vuto lomwe lapita kuntchito. Siyani zolakwika zonse pambuyo pa chigawo. Inde, ndikusiya nthawi ya "kubwezeretsa maganizo" pakugwira ntchito panyumbamo (ngati inu mumakonda kuchita). Dziperekeni nokha kwa mwamuna wanu, yang'anani filimu yosangalatsayi naye, werengani buku limodzi lochititsa chidwi. Kapena muzingochita nawo ntchito yopitira kuntchito pamodzi. Zidzakuthandizani ndikuthandizani kuti muyandikane, ngati mutamva kuti ndinu wovuta.
Mukhoza kupanga zodabwitsa zofunikira.
Ngati mukukonzekera chakudya chosaiwalika cha kandulo kwa madzulo, onetsetsani kuti mukumuuza mkazi wanu za izo. Khulupirirani kuti pakuyembekezeratu zodabwa zomwe iye adzakondweretseni ndipo izi zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi madzulo abwino. Musaope kukhala osiyana, makamaka pa nkhani yogonana. Pambuyo pa zonse, amuna ngati awa "mabertisi" okha, bwanji osayesa fano ili pawekha. Kotero ngati wokwatirana, monga mukuganiza, munayamba chifukwa cha chikondi, musanadabwe, iye sangaime.
Chimene simukusowa kuchita ngati sakondana.
Musamudetsenso mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu, kumupangitsa kukhala bwenzi lanu. Musamamuuze za mascara watsopano omwe adawonekera mu sitolo, kuti mwawonjezera mapaundi owonjezera, ndipo bwenzi lanu Svetka adatenganso kachiwiri ndi chibwenzi chake. Mwamuna ayenera nthawi zonse kupambana ndi kunyengerera, ndipo osakweza nkhani zosayenera. Ndipo mavuto a amayi amatsutsa anthu kwambiri ndipo izi ziyenera kukumbukiridwa nthawi zonse.
Momwe izo zinaliri ^
Kuti mukhalenso kukondana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu, gwirizanitsani chisangalalo chanu. Mwachitsanzo, kambiranani ndi nyumba yake pomponi imodzi. Zonsezi zazing'ono, poyamba, zowonjezera zimathandizira kubwezeretsa chilakolako choyambirira. Kukhazikitsanso maganizo kumathandizanso komanso kukumbukira. Ngati mumamverera bwino, onani zithunzi zake zakale, kumbukirani nthawi zabwino. Zonsezi zidzakuukitsani ndi kukuthandizani kumvetsetsa kuti maganizo anu akale sanathe. Chifukwa cha kukumbukira kotero, mukhoza kukondana.