Fotokozani chikondi chanu ndi maganizo. Nenani kutamandirana kwa wina ndi mzake, matamando chifukwa cha utumiki wangwiro kwa inu, chifukwa cha thandizo lanu. Zikomo chifukwa cha zonse zomwe mnzanuyo amakuchitirani. Izi zidzakhala zolimbikitsanso kuchita zina ndi zina zomwe zimachitika.
Perekani nthawi yamtengo wapatali. Izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kulankhulana nokha pa nkhani zosangalatsa kapena zokondweretsa, kuchita zinthu zina zomwe mumakonda, palimodzi, kugwiritsira ntchito nthawi pamodzi, kulankhula, ndi kumva wina ndi mzake. Chifukwa cha ichi mungathe kupita ku malo odyera, cinema, park. Mukabwera kunyumba, funsani mwamuna wanu za m'mene tsiku lake lapitira, ndikuuzeni za tsiku lanu. Osachepera kamodzi pa chaka kuti apite banja lonse kuti apumule.
Nthawi zambiri amapereka mphatso. Ndiponsotu, mphatso ili kale njira yosonyezera chikondi chanu. Zilibe kanthu kuti mumapereka chani, makamaka ngati ndi zachizolowezi, osati tsiku la tchuthi. Chinthu chachikulu chimene munaganizira za mwamuna, mumafuna kumupangitsa kukhala wosangalatsa. Kungakhale mphatso ya mphatso, maluwa a maluwa, zokongoletsera kapena chinthu chatsopano cha zovala, kapena mwinamwake kuyenda pamtunda kapena kukwera pamahatchi. Apo ndi komwe mungapusitse pozungulira zozizwitsa.
Yesetsani kukumbutsani munthu yemwe ali pafupi ndi inu nthawi zambiri kuti mumamukonda komanso mumamuyamikira. Ndipotu, mawu osavuta akuti, "Ndimakukondani", omva kuchokera kwa wokondedwa, amachititsa kuti munthu akhale ndi maganizo abwino komanso kuti akhale ndi moyo wabwino.
Inde, musaiwale za ubale wapamtima. Aliyense ndi zomwe akunena, komanso kugonana - ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri pa chiyanjano. Ngati mkazi nayenso ndi mkazi wokongola, mayi wabwino, komanso mwamuna wake wachita bwino, ndipo palibe kugonana, kuyembekezera mavuto. Pano palinso mantha, kusakhutira ndi kutemberera. Ndipo zonsezi zimayamba kutsutsana.
Nthawi zina, muyenera kupatula nthawi yokha. Kupuma kwinakwake kotero kuti palibe wina akukuvutitsani. Khalani nokha ndiwekha, ndi malingaliro anu, ikani zonse pa alumali. Ndipo musadabwe ngati hafu yanu ina ikukuuzani za izo, ndikupempha kuti mumupatse chipinda chake kapena kupita ku paki kwa tsiku. Aliyense wa inu ayenera kukhala ndi zokonda zanu ndi zofuna zanu. Simukuyenera kuthetsa kwathunthu mu ubale wanu ndipo simukuwonanso chilichonse chozungulira. Muyenera kukhala munthu ndi "maphwando" anu, ndikuchita nawo zokondweretsa panthawi yanu.
Landirani wokondedwa wanu momwe aliri. Pambuyo pake, ngati mumagwirizana naye, zikutanthauza kuti chirichonse chikukuyenererani. Koma patapita nthawi, mwadzidzidzi, zinapezeka kuti sanali wangwiro. O, ndichisoni chotani! Koma chinthucho ndi chakuti anthu abwino samangokhalako! Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti zofooka zake zing'onozing'ono zimayenera kukhala ulemu wake. Kapena yesetsani kuti musayang'ane pambali ya ubwino wake.
Anthu ena kuti akwaniritse chikondi chofunidwa amapita kumakangano, kumenyana ndi amatsenga. Ena - poyambitsa vuto, osakhutira kukambirana, akudziyerekezera kuti palibe chomwe chachitika, kusunga maganizo onse mkati mwawoeni. Pa nthawi yomweyi ndikuphatikizapo zolakwika nthawi ndi nthawi.
Zomwe zili pamwambazi sizitanthauza kwa akazi okha, komanso kwa amuna makamaka. Mwa njira, musaganize kuti chirichonse cholembedwa chimakhudza akazi okha, komanso amuna. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti chitsanzo cha khalidwe mu maubwenzi sichidalira pa chiwerewere, koma pa khalidwe la munthu, pa "I" wake. Chodabwitsa ndi ichi, izi sizikumveka, koma munthu amene amafuna chikondi ndi chikondi, amasonyeza nkhanza, ndipo, nthawi zina, amadana ndi wokondedwa wake. Ndiye n'chifukwa chiyani izi zimachitika?
Anthu awiri achikondi ndi umunthu wosiyana kwambiri. Aliyense wa iwo ali ndi zofuna zake, malingaliro ake, zizolowezi zake. Ndipo aliyense wa iwo amamvetsa kuti iwo sali chifaniziro cha wina ndi mzake. Amamvetsetsa kuti ndi osiyana, ngati chifukwa cha chikhalidwe. Kumvetsetsa - kumvetsetsa, koma, mwatsoka, zosavuta. Ndipo, pakubwera mphindi pamene wina wa iwo akukumana ndi malingaliro a wina, khalidwe losayembekezereka kwa inu, kapena kusowa chidwi kwa inu. Zinthu ngatizi sizomwe zimaganizira malingaliro ake ndi momwe akuonera, ndi pamene "chimphepo" chakumverera chimaphulika mkati mwake, amakwiya kapena amatsutsidwa ndi khalidwe limeneli.
Luso la maubwenzi ndi losakhwima, nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kutsutsana ndi zomwe mumakhulupirira kuti muthe kusintha mikangano. Mwamwayi, anthu ena amayesa kulankhula zachisoni, za neponyatkah ndi kusagwirizana, kusonyeza nkhanza, kuyesa kupweteka, kutsutsa mnzake. Ndipo wina - adzakhala chete pa zomwe zidapweteka amoyo. Zidzamukhumudwitsa mnzanuyo chifukwa sadali bwino, ndipo amayamba kumulanga ndi maganizo ake oipa.
Zonse ziwiri zikhoza kukhala ndi malo awo. Koma, ndi zabwino bwanji? Kodi ndi bwino kuchita chiyani kuti tikhalebe paubwenzi wolimba, kusunga chikondi? Tiyeni tiyang'ane pazosankha zonse ziwiri. Nambala yoyamba 1. Iwe uli chete. Panali kusagwirizana kapena, chabe, vuto limene wokondedwa wanu anachita mosiyana ndi momwe munkayembekezera. Mukukhumudwa, koma simunena chilichonse kwa mnzanuyo. Nthawi imapita, komanso kachiwiri mtundu wina wosamvetsetsana. Theka lanu lavala chovala chachifupi kwambiri, kapena amabalalitsa zinthu zake kuzungulira nyumbayo, samamuyeretsa patebulo kapena samatsuka mbale nthawi. Ndipo nonse muli chete. Vuto silithetsedwe palokha? Ayi ndithu. Kodi munthu wosamvetsetsa zomwe akuchitazo angasinthe bwanji? Ndipo chotsatira ndi chiyani? Ife tikuwona kuti izo sizikutanthauza.
Nambala yachiwiri yokha. Inu mukuyankhula kwa wina ndi mzake. Panali mkhalidwe wosasangalatsa kwa inu, ndipo nthawi ina, ndipo munakambirana. Aloleni iwo apitike ndi kutengeka, kuwatulutsa iwo, koma zotsatirapo ziri pa nkhope. Munthu wokondedwa wanu amadziwa kuti simukukonda. Ndiyeno chirichonse chimadalira pa iye. Koma, amakukondani, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti adzamvetsa zonse ndipo adzagwira ntchito payekha.
Koma, mukhoza kulingalira njira yachitatu. Mumakambirana mofatsa za vutoli. Iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera kumvetsetsa. Ngakhale ziri zovuta kwambiri.
Kotero ife tinatsiriza kukambirana za funso "Mmene mungasunge chikondi, luso la ubale."