Pambuyo paukwati, mwamuna ndi mkazi wake, mwa njira imodzi kapena yina, amabweretsa zinthu zatsopano kwa banja latsopano, nthawi zina ngakhale zobisika kuchokera kumbuyo kwake kodabwitsa. Monga lamulo, kwa nthawi ndithu "sichipereka zizindikiro za moyo", komabe, monga momwe kudziwika, chinsinsi chimakhala chowonekera ...
Izi zikugwiritsanso ntchito kumalo otchuka a pa Intaneti, kumene achinyamata amakonda kulankhula kuposa momwe ziliridi. Kawirikawiri amai amawona chithunzi chimene mwamuna nthawi zambiri amafanana ndi achinyamata, ndipo akhoza kukhala, osati achichepere, koma osayenerera kwambiri!
Kodi izi zikuwopsyeza bwanji banja? Kodi ubale weniweniwo ukhoza kuthetsa chisudzulo? Maganizo osiyanasiyana amakukhudzani: nkhawa, mantha, kusatsimikizika m'tsogolomu ... Pamutu pali mafunso ambiri komanso mayankho omwe amatha nthawi yayitali kuchokera "koyenera kuti mwamuna wake asamangidwe" ndipo "ngati ndikupangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwambiri".
Kodi chifukwa cha khalidwe ili la munthu ndi chiyani? Atsikana ena, kukwatira, "kukonzekeretsa" munthu payekha, kusintha moyo wa wosankhidwa kukhala wopweteka, kukonzekera hyperopeak, pamene ali ndi ufulu wa moyo waumwini ndi malingaliro ake, omwe amatsekedwa ndi maso ena, kuphatikizapo mkazi wa mkazi wake. Izi ndi zowona makamaka kwa mwamuna, yemwe ufulu ndi gawo lalikulu la banja losangalala ndi losangalatsa.
Ngakhale abwenzi atatha kuchita mgwirizano, mwamunayo akuyenera kumverera kuti ndi wokongola komanso wofunidwa ndi amayi - ichi ndi chitsimikiziro cha kugonana kwake. Choncho, kuyankhulana kumathandiza kuthana ndi ntchito yomwe wapatsidwa. Zikakhala kuti mwamunayo ali ndi mabwenzi ndi soc. Mafilimu ambiri ndi atsikana - izi zikusonyeza kuti iye sakhala ndi chidaliro mwa iyemwini.
Kukayikira ndi chikhalidwe cha moyo, mothandizidwa ndi "zosangalatsa" zoterezi zimadzetsa kudzidalira, zimamva "mpikisano" ndi maso okongola kwambiri a atsikana ake. Chifukwa chake, ndi bwino kudzipezera nokha ndikuwonetsa moona mtima kwa wokondedwa wanu kuposa momwe mungachitire ndi Intaneti.
Mwa njira, zindikirani - pali kusiyana kwakukulu kwa yemwe mwamuna wanu akulankhulana naye - ndi atsikana osadziwika omwe sali achizoloŵezi kapena atsikana, omwe poyamba adayanjana naye.
Pachiyambi choyamba, pokhala tcheru, musataye kuyankhulana kwa mwamuna. Chifukwa chiyani?
Munthu wina wokhala ku Alaska anasudzulana mwamuna wake, yemwe anakhala naye zaka 8, chifukwa chakuti anali wofanana ndi anzake omwe anali nawo m'kalasi, koma makamaka mkaziyo anadabwa ndi mfundo yofunikira yakuti mwamuna wake anatumiza mauthenga ku kompyutayi. Pamene adawonekera mtsogolo, adafotokozera ntchitoyi kuti ikhale yachangu. Koma, monga analumbirira, "ndithudi" sanasinthe mkazi wake, zonse zinali zochepa chabe. Koma, tsoka, mayiyo adatsalira ...
Ngati MCH yanu ikugwirizanitsa ndi chibwenzi chanu chakale, ndipo mwachiwonekere sakuyankhula za ana, ndiye muyenera kukhala ochenjera!
Irina, pokhala mkazi wovomerezeka kwa sabata, anasiya mwamuna wake chifukwa adapeza kuti: mwamuna wake sanasiye kuyankhulana ndi bwenzi lake lakale, amene anakumana naye asanakumane naye. Udzu wotsiriza wa kuleza mtima unali wakuti mtsikanayo adakonda kale chilakolako kwa nthawi yaitali.
Komanso, khalidwe ili la munthu likhoza kufotokozedwa ndi kuti mkaziyo safuna "kudutsa". Momwemo, kale, chifukwa, monga mukudziwa, palibe ubwenzi pakati pa mkazi ndi mwamuna. Ena a iwo akuyembekeza kupitiriza chiyanjano.
Momwe mungakhalire mumkhalidwe wotero kwa mkazi? Ndipotu, n'kosatheka kukhala ndi moyo wosangalala nthawi zonse kusakhulupirira ndi kuzunzika kukayikira. Choyamba muyenera kuphunzira kuyamikira zomwe zinali pakati pa inu, malingaliro ofunika omwe mwinamwake mukukumana nawo mpaka lero. Ndizofunika kwambiri komanso momwe mumaphunzirira za ubale wake, "ubweya" pa intaneti kapena iye mwiniyo anena za izo.
Ichi ndi chisonyezero cha momwe maubwenzi anu amalamulira.
Mwinamwake, banja lanu lofooka likukumana ndi mavuto, chisokonezo mu ubale. Ndipo ngati mukuganiza kuti ubale wanu wafika pachimake, ndiye abwenzi obisika - chitsimikizo chowonekera cha izi.
Lankhulani ndi mwamuna wanu za izo momveka. Musalole kuti mukhale ndi zinsinsi. N'zochititsa chidwi kuti iye mwiniyo adzanena za momwe zilili panopa, kodi maganizo ake pa nkhaniyi ndi chiyani? Amafunikanso kuti amuchotse munthu wamba. Intaneti, osachepera kwambiri, chifukwa sichidzabwezeretsa chikhulupiliro chosawonongeka ku ubale wanu. Mkwatibwi akhoza kuchotseratu kwathunthu ndikubatizidwa kwathunthu. Muzochitika izi, ziribe kanthu momwe mkazi wachikondi angafunire, mwamuna wakeyo adzasankha, chifukwa ali ndi ufulu wolingana ndi chimwemwe chake.
Inde, mukhoza kukhala ndi nsanje nthawi zonse, koma mukhoza kungoganiza kuti chinali chofunika kwambiri mu ubalewu. Ndipo musayesere kubwezera pogula makompyuta ena ndipo mumathera nthawi yochuluka pa malo ochezera - sizikuwoneka kuti zitsogolere ku zabwino ...