Kuwona mayi wakufa mu loto

Ngakhale mayiyo atamwalira, pamakhalabe mgwirizano wosadziwika pakati pa iye ndi mwanayo. Ndicho chifukwa chake kholo lochedwa nthawi zina lingabwere m'maloto, motero, akuchenjeza mwana wake chinachake kapena kufotokoza zochitika zinazake kwa iye. Kulumikizana kwachinsinsi kumeneku kumasuliridwa mosiyana ndi omasulira maloto, koma kwenikweni onsewo ali ogwirizana poganiza kuti ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino, monga mayi womalizira ali ngati mngelo woteteza mwana wake.

Kuyanjana ndi makolo omwe anamwalira

• Malinga ndi bukhu la loto la Freud, makolo omwe anamwalira amawoneka m'maloto athu nthawi zovuta komanso zovuta kwambiri, ngati tikusowa malangizo awo komanso kuwathandiza.
• Kugona pa mayi wakufa kumatanthawuzidwa ngati chenjezo la tsoka lomwe likubwera. Izi zingagwiritsidwe ntchito pazochitika zonse za moyo - banja ndi ntchito. Wolota ayenera kukhala wochenjera monga momwe zingathere m'choonadi, chifukwa zovuta zitha kukhala ndi zifukwa zosiyana.
• Buku la Miller la loto likunena kuti kuwona amayi akuchedwa m'maloto ndi malonjezo okondweretsa kwa ogona amakhala osangalatsa ndalama chifukwa cha zokondweretsa zake - mwinamwake mukhoza ngakhale, kupeza maloto anu.
• Mayi wakufa amatha kulota kuti akuchenjezeni za kusintha koyandikira - ngati mutha kulankhula naye, samverani momveka bwino mawu ake ndi zifukwa zake, chifukwa ziwonetseratu za kusintha kumeneku.

Kuwonekera kwa kholo lofera mu loto, monga kukhumudwa kwa imfa yaposachedwapa

Inde, kupatukana kwamuyaya ndi munthu wapafupi kumabweretsa ululu wosapweteka, chifukwa chake, nthawi ina pambuyo pa imfa, amatha kubwera kwa ife mu loto, chifukwa chosazindikira kuti sakufuna kumuuza. Ena akulota mabuku amanena kuti mayi wakufayo akulota za kukhala ndi uthenga wabwino. Wogonayo sayenera kuiwala kuti, ngakhale kulira kwa imfa ya mtundu wachibale, moyo umapitirira.

Ngati mu maloto mayi wochoka akupsompsani inu, zikutanthauza kukhululukidwa. Ngakhale kuti panalibe kusagwirizana ndi kutsutsana pakati pa inu, pamene adakali moyo, kupsompsona kwa amayi mu maloto kumasonyeza kukhululukidwa kwathunthu. Koma, maloto omwe mumayang'aniranso bambo ndi mayi omwe anamwalira ali ndi moyo amatha kusonyeza chisoni chanu komanso kufunika kokondedwa. Pofuna kuchepetsa katundu wolemetsa wa imfa, ndi bwino kukumbukira makolo mu tchalitchi ndikuyika kandulo pamtendere wawo.

Ngati amayi akuchedwa akukukumbutsani m'maloto, ndiye m'moyo weniweni mantha omwe akhala akuzunzika kwa nthawi yayitali inu mudzakhala osadziwika. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti zidzatha paokha - muyenera kuyesetsa kuti mutayike.

Kusagwirizana ndi kusagwirizana ndi mayi wakufayo

Maloto omwe mudakangana nawo ndi amayi ochedwa, amasonyeza chikumbumtima chanu chosayera - mwinamwake munalakwira kuti simukufuna kuvomereza, kapena simukukondwera ndi mnzanuyo, koma simukuyang'ana ku chibwenzi chozizira. Muyenera kuganiziranso khalidwe lanu, ndipo ngati n'kotheka, konzani mkhalidwewo.

Dream Manager Meneghetti amakhulupirira kuti kulumbira mu maloto ndi mayi wakufa akulonjeza mavuto, ndipo ngati mutakangana mu chipinda china, muli mwa iye ndipo vuto lidzagwedezeka.

Malinga ndi bukhu la maloto a Vanga, kulumbirira mu maloto ndi mayi wakufa kumatanthauza zochitika zosaganiziridwa zolakwika kapena zolakwitsa, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti ogona asadzakhalepo posachedwapa. Ndiponso, maloto ngati amenewa angakhale chiwonetsero cha kusagwirizana m'banja, mpaka chisudzulo, ngati muli wokwatira. Ganizirani za momwe mumaonera okondedwa anu, chikumbumtima chanu chisonyeze zomwe ziyenera kusinthidwa pofuna kubwezeretsa mtendere ndi mgwirizano.

Ngakhale kuti imfa ya mayi ndizovuta kwambiri kwa munthu aliyense, simuyenera kulemba chabe malingaliro a maloto amene wachibale wawo wamwalira. Mwinamwake iye akufuna kuti akuuzeni inu chinachake.