Kukhala wapadera ndi wosiyana ndi ena ndi mwayi kapena chilango? Khalani mu bwenzi la abwenzi, abwenzi, kulankhulana, kugwira ntchito ...
Kulikonse komwe timakumana ndi anthu, tifunika "kuvala chigoba", mpaka nthawi ina. Ife tikupeza mwa ichi mtundu wina wa chisangalalo, chowonekera, luso. Koma pokhala kukhala wapadera ndi zofunika kwambiri kwa mkazi aliyense ...
Nthawi zonse zimakhala zosangalatsa, kumwetulira kwa "Hollywood", chiwonetsero chabwino komanso chikhalidwe chokhazikika - zonsezi zikuwoneka ngati kufotokoza kwa heroine wa filimuyo kuposa mkazi weniweni. Tili ndi mavuto ambiri ndi zowawa, maloto omwe sangakwaniritsidwe, ndi zodabwitsa. Zotsatira za tsogolo timakakamizidwa kuti tizitha kumwetulira, ndipo ngakhale ndi abwenzi apamtima timagawana kukayikira kwathu komwe.
Kotero zimakhala kuti nthawi zambiri sitikhala ndekha ndi ife eni, pafupifupi, palibe abwenzi, ngakhale achibale. Pambuyo pake, kukhala wapadera, chomwe chiri chofunikira kwambiri kwa mkazi aliyense, ndi zovuta - muyenera kutsatira.
N'zoonekeratu kuti nthawi zina zimakhala zophweka pang'ono "kutulutsa halo," kuchotsani anthu owonjezera ndikugwirizanitsa gulu. Makamaka pamene ikubwera nthawi yosintha ndi kukayikira, kukayikira ndi kusatsimikizika. "Tonse tiri okondwa kwambiri," tikuganiza. "Aliyense sangathe kulakwitsa," timadziuza tokha, ngati pepala loloweza pamtima. Ndipo timapita mwamtendere, pafupi ndi mwendo. Choyamba ku sukulu, kuyesera kusunga ndi mafashoni - timakumana ndi kupsompsona, timayika pantyhose, yomwe amayi anga amaitcha kuti ndi yabwino yokha ...
Ndife apadera, koma ndi ofanana ...
Ndiye atsikanawo amapita ku koleji, inunso. Chifukwa ndikofunikira. Inde, ndipo makolo akuti: "Chitani ichi, mwana!" Ndipo apa mumatha zaka zisanu, mukuphunzira ntchito yosadziŵika bwino ndikupeza maphunziro okondedwa. Ndipo kutuluka kunja kwa makoma a sukuluyi, ndikudabwa kuzindikira kuti tsopano uwu ndi ntchito yanu ya moyo! Ndipotu kukhala wodalirika ndizofunika kwambiri kwa mkazi aliyense - koma timapereka kugawidwa pamalo osamveka bwino a ntchito kapena timayesetsa malo a mlembi omwe amachitira mkaziyo. Kodi tinganene chiyani ponena za chidziwitso pamene moyo ukufunsa, kulira, kupempha - ndipo tikutsatira gululo?
"Koma bwanji," mungayankhe, "sizingatheke kupeza zomwe mumakonda kwambiri!" Inde, anthu ochepa amapeza kuponya kapena kukulitsa petunias. Koma ngakhale iwo ali chitsanzo cha momwe kuli kofunikira kwambiri kuti mkazi aliyense akhale wapadera! Ngati ochepawo athandizidwa - ndipo simukukonda kujambula, chithunzi chosowa, gawo ili la dongosolo lachiwiri pobwezera "prima" yomwe mungakhale!
Mkazi, ngakhale kuti ali ndi ufulu waukulu, ndipo makamaka, maudindo akuganiza, akupitiriza kukhalapo mu dongosolo la makolo. Mu dongosolo lomwe sikoyenera kukhala lapadera, komwe kuli kofunika kwambiri kukhala "monga aliyense," mkazi aliyense ayenera kukwiyirana ndi ena. Pakapita nthawi kuphunzira, kukwatira "anyamata" (omwe ali ngati abwenzi kapena makolo), pakapita nthawi kuti abereke ana, ngakhale atakhala modzidzimutsa amachokera ku mandimu.
Sikuti aliyense amabadwa Mozart, osati aliyense amene angakhale Curie-Ghala kapena George Sandy. Koma mungathe kupeza nokha, ndikupeza njira ya moyo yomwe mumakonda. Pambuyo pa zonse, kuti muzitsatira njira yanu yotsutsana ndi-ayi, osati cholinga, koma lingaliro la anthu - mwa mphamvu ya mkazi aliyense, komanso kukhala wokhazikika pofuna kusunga thanzi la munthu.
Ode kukhala ndi chimwemwe
Chimwemwe - osati nyumba osati mwamuna, osati moyo kapena ana. Chimwemwe sichinachitike. Chimwemwe ndikumverera komwe nthawi zambiri kumachezera ife. Ndipo chimwemwe chachikulu ndicho kukhala ndikumverera. Nthawi zina, ngakhale mu umphawi wosasinthika, chisoni, kupsinjika maganizo ndi kupsinjika maganizo, mdima wa chimwemwe umene timasowa nthawi zambiri ndikutaya! Kotero, bwanji, mu nthawi yathu yovuta, ambiri amadzikonza okha "depressions"?
Chodabwitsa cha "chitukuko" choterechi ndi chakuti zimatsatidwa ndi zokhumudwitsidwa ndi ubongo, kuvutika kuli mwachinsinsi, ndipo msungwana wabwino mwadzidzidzi amakhala miyendo. Kuti mumve nokha, mau anu amkati ndi ofunika kwambiri! Musalole kuti mukhale "ngati wina aliyense," chifukwa ndi zofunika kwambiri kwa mkazi aliyense. Bungwe lonse limapereka malamulo ake - koma ndibwino kukumbukira kuti amangopulumutsa.
Kodi mukufuna zina?
Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi moyo woposa "kukhala ndi moyo" (ndipo izi ndi zimene achinyamata ambiri amalingalira), ngati simukufuna ubale - koma chozizwitsa cha tsiku ndi tsiku - nthawi zonse muli ndi mwayi. Njira zonse ndi maphikidwe onse ali okonzeka kupereka moyo wokha - ndizofunika kuima kwa mphindi imodzi, musayambe kukwiya. Chokani pamsana, chotsani chigoba, pita kumbali. Kumeneko, pamene kuwala kwa soffits si kowala kwambiri, mumatha kudziganizira nokha pang'ono.
Kuchita nawo mbali, kuchita izo mwanzeru ndi zabwino. Kudziwonetsera nokha kudziko lenileni ndizoopsa - mwinamwake kudzakhala nyonga yosagonjetsa yosalala yomwe imapangika zikopa zawo pamisomali. Koma nthawi zina mumayenera kukhala enieni, apadera, osatsatira njira yomweyo. Pitani njira yanu. Ndipo pamene malangizo ali omveka bwino, mungasankhe kuchokera kumasukasi omwe mumawakonda. "Bwana" wodalirika komanso wodziimira kapena "maluwa ofiira", omwe munthu wokondedwa amasamala - kusankha nokha.
Amayi amalangiza, agogo aakazi, alangizi ndi abambo, abwana ndi apothecaries - onse ali ndi maganizo pa akaunti yathu. Koma zoona zenizeni zomwe tingakonde, zikanakhala bwanji mu chisangalalo - timadziwa okha, wapadera komanso wapadera. Ndipo ziri mu izi zomwe ife tiri ofanana - muzopadera.
Kenaka maubwenzi ndi amuna akukhazikitsidwa, mukumapeto kwa moyo, nyumba - chikho chonse. Pambuyo pa zonse, ngati mukudziwa zomwe mukufuna kuchokera kudziko - dziko lapansi liri okonzeka kutipatsa ife manja opatsa.