Timagwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso cha kugonana kwa amuna.
Pofuna kuti abambo azitha kulandira bwino, abambo amapita kuntchito zawo zonse. Ndipo chinthu chochititsa chidwi kwambiri ndi chakuti anthu onse amadziwa bwino kuti akugwiritsidwa ntchito, koma nthawi iliyonse yomwe amapeza nyambo imeneyi. Chikhalidwe chimapambana patsogolo pa chifukwa ndipo amuna amakwaniritsa mwachangu chimene mkazi akufuna. Kukonzekera kotere kwa munthu kungakhale kotalika kwambiri, chifukwa chilakolako chogonana chimawongolera chilakolako chake ndipo mwamunayo amadzidalira kwambiri.
Kaŵirikaŵiri tamandani amuna.
Amuna ali ngati ana. Amakondwera kwambiri akamatamandidwa. Musanamukakamize munthu kuti achite chirichonse, choyamba mumutsimikizire kuti popanda iye palibe amene angachite bwino. Ndipo palibe munthu yemwe angakhoze kukana chiyeso chotsimikizira izo.
Gawani zozizwitsa zake.
Momwe mungapangire munthu wanu kupita nanu, mwachitsanzo, kuwonetsero kapena malo owonetsera, ngati sakufuna. Chilichonse chimathetsedwa mosavuta. Lankhulani za zokondweretsa zake, kugawira zofuna zake, ngakhale kupita ku mpira ndi iye, pambuyo pake. Ndipo zingakhale zovuta kuti iye akane pempho kuti apite nawe.
Yambani kuchita nokha.
Pali njira yabwino kwambiri yopangira munthu kuchita zomwe mkazi akufuna. Mwachitsanzo, muyenera kukonza chinachake m'nyumba, ndipo mwakuya akuyang'ana TV. Kotero yambani kuchita izo nokha, ndithudi, kusonyeza zonse zomwe inu simungakhoze kuchita chirichonse. Poyang'ana zowawa zanu, amangochita manyazi, ndipo adzichotsa yekha ku TV.
Tidzamupatsa ufulu wosankha.
Pamene mukufuna kuti munthu achite chinachake, monga momwe mukufunira, funsani za izo, koma konzani funso lanu kuti asankhe, koma, panthawi yomweyo, sangakane. Mwachitsanzo, mutamupempha kuti apite nawe ku sitolo, nenani kuti: "Wokondedwa, ndikhoza kupita ndekha, koma popanda iwe kudzakhala kosautsa, ndipo ndikufuna kukhala pansi pakhomo."
Iye sadzakana inu, kutaya kuyamikira kwanu m'maso mwanu kudzakhala kosasamalirika kwa iye.
Timagwiritsa ntchito fanizo.
Yerekezerani izo ndi abwenzi anu aakazi ayenera kusamala kwambiri. Awonetseni kuti mkazi wa mnzako ali wokondwa, mwamuna wake amamugulira zambiri, ndi zovala zomwe ali nazo. Ndipo mwamuna wanu amafunadi kuwonetsa ena kuti amasamala za mkazi wake bwino. Chimene chinafunikira kwa iye.
Mupangitse iye kuti azidzifuna yekha.
Katswiri wina wamaganizo wotchuka dzina lake Dale Carnegie analemba kuti kuti akakamize munthu kuchita chinachake, munthu ayenera kumutsimikizira kuti ndifunikira kwa iye mwini. Chotero tiyeni tigwiritse ntchito malangizo anzeru awa. Ngati mwamuna wanu akukaikira, mwachitsanzo, ngati mupite kukachezera amayi anu, nenani motere: "Amayi adzakugula pie ya apulo, yomwe mumakonda kwambiri." Ndipo kuyendera kwa amayi anga ndithudi kudzachitika.
Nthawi zina kumalira.
Nthawi zina, pamene chirichonse chikuyesedwa ndipo simukudziwa momwe mungapezere mwamuna kuti achite zomwe mkazi akufuna, mungagwiritse ntchito njira yowonongeka, ndiko kuti, kuti muthe. Koma, musagwiritse ntchito molakwa izi. Sikuti anthu onse amagwa chifukwa chachinyengo chimenechi. Kulira mobwerezabwereza kungangowakwiyira kapena kuwakwiyitsa.
Pa mimba yonse.
Aliyense amadziwa mwambi wakuti "Kukonda mtima wa munthu kumakhala m'mimba mwake." Choncho gwiritsani ntchito choonadi ichi chosamveka kuti munthu achite zomwe mukufuna. Dyetsa, madzi, ndiyeno funsani.
Kukhala ndi maganizo abwino ndikofunika kwambiri kuti mupambane.
Ndipo, zowona zonsezi zingagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati munthu ali ndi maganizo abwino, ndipo ngati atatopa kuchokera kuntchito, ndiye kuti amufunse chinthu china chomwe chimangodzidzudzula yekha kuti alephera. Kuti mukwaniritse ndondomeko yanu, ndi bwino kuyembekezera mphindi yabwino kwambiri.