Malingaliro okhudza mkazi wamaloto mwa amuna nthawi zina amasiyana kwambiri ndi omwe amayi amatsatira. Choncho tiyeni tikambirane nanu nkhaniyi yomwe imakopeka ndi anthu, ndipo izi zimayankha. Kodi nthano za izi ndi ziti?
ZOCHITA 1. Amuna amawopa ndi anthu anzeru kwambiri - zimakhala zovuta kuyendetsa
Zoona . Ndipotu, amuna ambiri ngati akazi ozindikira, amakhulupirira kwambiri m'maganizo awo, amachititsa kuti azikhala osatekeseka komanso odalirika. Komabe, kugonana kolimba sikukumvera chisoni amayiwo, omwe nthawizonse amakhala "anzeru" ndikukonzekera kawiri kawiri kafukufuku wa erudition. Palibe amene angakonde izi. Ndipo dziyerekeze nokha m'malo mwake. Akadapanda malipenga, panthawi imodzimodziyo amasonyeza kuti simudziwa zambiri poyerekeza ndi iye.
Nthano 2. Mkazi woyenera ayenera kukhala ndi mawonekedwe ake
Zoona . Kukhala ndi mapazi "m'makutu" sali otsimikiza kuti mwamuna adzamutcha mkazi wabwino. Ambiri mwa amuna ngati guitala (chovala chochepa ndi m'chiuno chonse). Zomwe amazisankha - mkazi wotero amatha kupirira ndikubereka wolowa nyumba wathanzi.
Council . Zilibe kanthu kuti simungapereke chitsanzo, muyenera kudziyang'anira nokha. Sikoyenera kuyendayenda pakhomo ndi chobvala chovala ndi chovala chovala. Onetsani maonekedwe anu onse kuti ndinu okongola, ngakhale mukakonza chakudya chamadzulo.
ZOTHANDIZA 3. Mkazi wabwino amaleredwa ndi malamulo okhwima
Zoona . Zoonadi, kuleredwa bwino ndi makhalidwe abwino zimaonedwa kuti ndi zothandiza, koma zimatenthedwa ndi kuzizira. Ndipo monga nthano-yowonongeka, khalidwe labwino "komanso" wabwino ", kusowa kwapadera komanso" bitchiness "kwa amuna akhoza kunjenjemera ndi nthawi.
Council . Pofuna kukweza chidwi kwa mwamuna, nthawi zina amai amachita zochitika zosavomerezeka, amatsutsana ndi malamulo ovomerezeka, ndipo amakhala ndi maganizo ake ndipo sachita mantha. Pangani nthawi zina mu ubale wanu. Izi zidzawathandiza kupotoza pang'ono. Wokondedwa wanu sangakhumudwe ndi inu ndipo sadzakhala ndi chilakolako choyang'ana wina.
ZOTHANDIZA 4. Mkazi wabwino ayenera kukhala ndi ntchito yabwino
Zoona . Choyamba, munthu aliyense akufuna kuwona bwanayo ndi interlocutor yokondweretsa, omwe mungakambirane osati nkhani yeniyeni yomwe imabwera pa "communal". Ndi chifukwa chake mkazi wogwira ntchito akhoza kukhala wabwino kwa munthu wamakono. Koma sikuti ayenera kukhala mzimayi wamalonda ndikukhala ndi ntchito yabwino.
Council . Kaya ntchito yanu ndi yotani, yesetsani kukhala ndi luntha ndi uzimu kuti mwamuna wanu azikonda nthawi zonse. Mkazi wamkazi wosangalatsa ndi wopanda pake, alibe phindu kwa aliyense, ngakhale ali mkhitchini kukhitchini, ndipo nyumbayo ndi yoyera komanso yokoma.
ZOTHANDIZA 5. Mkazi wabwino ndi hatchi pamphepete adzaima
Zoona . Munthu yemwe mbiri yake ya "mkazi wamphamvu" yakhazikitsidwa, monga lamulo, amasonyeza mphamvu zake mnyumba, kuyesa kutsogolera mbali zonse za moyo wa mwamuna wake: posankha zokongoletsera ku malo oyandikana nawo kwambiri. Koma chifaniziro mu malingaliro achimuna sichikugwirizana ndi zoyenera. Palibe munthu amene angapitirizebe kuzunzidwa m'gawo lake.
Council . Khala wachikazi ndipo usawope kuwoneka wofooka. Ndikhulupirire ine, ndiye munthuyo sadzakhala ndi china chirichonse koma kukhala wolimba mtima.
Musamangodabwitsa wokondedwa wanu, pangani mgwirizano wapamtima, ndiyeno mudzakondedwa, ndipo motero, ndibwino kwa munthu wanu.