Zitsanzo za malingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana

Pamene mukuyang'ana pa inu, maso a mnzanuyo akungoganizira kwambiri zakukhosi kwanu? Izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuchita mwamsanga ndikumulepheretsa kugonana pogonana. Kukwanitsa kugwiritsira ntchito arc kapena kuphunzitsa kochititsa chidwi mazisini ... Ndithudi mnzanuyo amadziwa kuti mukhoza kudzitama ndi njira zabwino zogonana. Ndipo ndizo zabwino. Koma nthawi zina, kuti amukondweretse, izi si zokwanira. Pambuyo pake, amuna ali ngati ana: amafuna kusewera.

Ndipo masewerawa ndi malamulo omwe adadza nawo okha. Tinalemba mndandanda wa zosangalatsa zomwe amuna ambiri amangofuna kuzizindikira. Ndipo zambiri mwaziganizidwezi zikhale zosiyana kwambiri ndi kugonana - chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mwayi umenewu mungathe kukhala nawo limodzi. Zitsanzo za malingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana ndi nkhani ya mutuwo.

Iye ndiwotchuka wa mafilimu "People X" ndipo nthawi zonse amanyamula khosi lake pamaso pa blue diva Rebecca Stamos? Choncho, Lachisanu lotsatira muyenera kukhala pa gouache ya buluu ndikusewera masewera otchedwa "Kugonana kwa Masewera Amphamvu": mutha kufunsa kuti muzivala ndi Spider-Man.

Inde, amakonda ngati titayesetsa. Amapitirizabe kubvula zovala zawo, ndikuzisiya ntchito yokha (komanso mtsikana wochokera kumwamba ndilo loto la munthu wozunza kwambiri). Wokondedwa wa masewerawa ndi zochita za khalidwe lapamtima limene timakhala nalo ndi ogonana naye: pamene akuyang'ana maloto khumi, mumakwera pansi pa bulangete ndi ... Ndikofunika kuti apange kale njira zowonongeka. Ndipo pamene akunena kuti walota zazaka 16, yesetsani kudabwa.

Mukutsatira mwatsatanetsatane mafashoni - kodi nthawi zonse mumafunika zovala zatsopano? Zidzakhala zogwirizana ndi mwamuna wanu, koma ngati mutayala lamba la masitonkeni, zojambula, msuzi ndi makapu 1/4 ndi tizilombo toyambitsa matenda ... Usiku, makamaka umene angagwiritse ntchito phokosoli, sadzaiwalika.

M'dziko lamakono, amayi akuvotera kwambiri chifukwa cha ntchito yofulumira ndi yachiwawa ya chikondi: mwinamwake chifukwa chakuti ali otsimikiza - ndi momwe amachitira zokonda zofuna za munthu. Koma zoona zake n'zakuti nthawi zina oimira chilakolako chogonana samafuna kuthamangira kulikonse komanso kwa nthawi yayitali, yaitali, nthawi yaitali kuti akhalebe pachimake ... Chinsinsi ndichosunga wokondedwa kuti asakhalenso wamasewera, masewera olimbitsa thupi amutengera kumwamba .

Mukhoza kulankhula momasuka ndi mnzanu pa nkhani zakuya, nthawi zonse mumamufunse pabedi za zomwe akufuna kuti achite ndi zomwe mukuyembekezera, ndipo amayamba mosavuta ndi zochitika zatsopano usiku uno? Mkulu! Koma nthawi zina mumapatsa mpata wanu wokhala ndi mwayi wogula: bukhulaninso ma bukhu angapo omwe amakonda zithunzi nthawi zambiri - ndi kuwabwezeretsanso m'chipinda chanu chogona.

Ana, ngakhale atakula, amapezedwa mobwerezabwereza kwa akuluakulu. Ndipo mu malingaliro a theka lanu lachiwiri, palinso mchitidwe wosadziwika wa momwe makolo ake adakondera chikondi: kuwala kunatsekedwa, iye anali mu chikwama chogona usiku, iye, akuyesera kuti asamve phokoso, amachotsa mathalauza ake ... Zofunikira monga "Madmen" ndi "Moyo" pa Mars "akudandaulira chabe chilakolako chathu chosadziƔa kukhala moyo wa makolo awo: pamene kugonana kumawoneka kuti kwatha, ndiye chifukwa chake kunali kosangalatsa kwambiri kukhala nawo. Phunzirani zowonongeka zamakanema ndi zamtsogolo - m'mbuyomo! Retrosorochki mwa njira, akugulitsabe m'mabwalo a masitolo. Kukonzekera kugonana kosaloledwa, musaiwale kusungira katundu ndi mapepala ozizira.

Kugogoda kwa magudumu, woyendetsa amapereka tebulo ndi tiyi ya tiyi, ogulitsa gzhel, chimanga ndi nsomba zakhwangwala m'mawindo pa siteshoni. Idyani m'galimoto yodyerako, bwererani ku chipinda chanu, kukoketsani makatani ndipo kulolera kusinthasintha kwa maonekedwe kumapatsa chibwenzi chiganizo chake. Pochita zogonana pa sitimayi, pali chinachake chochokera ku zowonetserako - kukubuula kwanu sikudzasiya kukayikira pakati pa anzako anzawo chifukwa chomwe bwenzi lanu labwino linapita mofulumira kumbali. Ndipo chikondi - pambuyo pa lingaliro loti kuti panjira yopita kumalo osangalatsa mudzawoloka theka la chigawo cha Tver, ndikuyesa kwambiri.

Monga mukudziwira, Kaisara anali munthu wokondedwa kwambiri mu ufumu wonse, ndipo malo okongola nthawi zambiri amakhala amayi a olemekezeka ... Mwachidziwikire, munthu amene amadya mafuta omwe mumaphika, angakonde kukhala ngati mfumu, ndipo inu-nkhani yake yokhulupirika. Chilakolako cholamulira mkazi wokonzeka kumvera, mwa amuna pa subcortex: gwiritsani ntchito tebulo, musambitseni mapazi ndi madzi ndi chamomile, musani mabulu ndikumudikirira kuti ayambe kugwedeza ndi kulamulira.

Mutaphunzira zochitika zonse zisanu ndi zinayi za okhulupirika anu ndi kusewera nawo ndi ana ndi akulu, ndi nthawi yosiya mabuku onse ogwiritsira ntchito ndikungomunamizira ndipo popanda kuganizira zochitika ndi zotsatira, khalani ndi chikondi! Muloleni iye achite chimodzimodzi chinthu chomwecho - kugonana, kaya kulimbana, kapena banja, sikuti ndi thanzi labwino, komanso limatsitsimutsa. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zothandiza kudziƔa kuti chilakolako cha banja lanu chilipobe.

Zikhulupiriro zokhudzana ndi malingaliro ake, zomwe mungachite bwino kuiwala:

Amuna amaganiza kuti amafuna izi, ndipo mumaganiza kuti anthu amazifuna, chifukwa mafilimu amawoneka otsimikiza komanso okongola. Koma kirimu ozizira ndi kutentha kwa thupi lamoyo sizigwirizana.

Chochitika chochepetsedwa, chomwe chimapangidwa pamtunda wa mamita zikwi zingapo, chimapereka chifukwa chodzitama pamaso pa abwenzi. Komabe, munthu aliyense, wowona mtima mumtima mwake amavomereza kuti ndizosatheka kwenikweni kulembera kwa iye mwanjira yoyenera panthawi yopulumukira. Ndipo kupanga zovuta zovuta ndi zina zotero.

Inde, amuna akulota kutenga nawo mbali kugonana kwenikweni, koma ndikukhulupirirani: akaona gulu la amuna ndi akazi amaliseche akuyenda mozungulira malo omwe ali pafupi, adzafuna kuti abwere mwamsanga ntchito ina kwa inu nonse.

Mchenga kapena miyala yaing'ono (osati kutchula zazikulu!), Khungu lakuda, kukangana. Brrr! Zosangalatsa kwambiri komanso zoopsa za thanzi.

Ngati inu ndi mnzanuyo simunakhale ndi nthawi yozindikira malingaliro anu muubwana wanu, musayesere kuchita - ziribe kanthu momwe galimoto yanu ilili yaikulu, zitsimikizo ndi zobwezeretsa zimatsimikiziridwa zonsezi. Ndi bwino kungoukwiyitsa ndi kukhudza pamene ikuimikidwa, ndikupita ku chipinda chogona. Kapena ku khitchini, mu bafa, pakhomo - njira zambiri!