Nchifukwa chiyani munthu samapereka ubale wapamtima? Tiyeni tiyesere kuzilingalira.
Maubale ake ndi ofanana ndi kamera mu nyumba ya IF. Iye amayamikira ufulu wake kwambiri ndipo sali wokonzeka kupita ku zochitika zowopsya ngati pali kuthekera kuti atayike. Chowonadi chakuti iwe wapita ku zolakwa zambiri: anasiya kupita ku magulu ndi mabwenzi, kawirikawiri amakumana ndi abwenzi - izi ndi zake zomwe alibe gawo. Mundikhulupirire, chifukwa chakuti timadula ufulu wathu kwa iwo sichiyamikiridwa ndi iwo. Koma, apa, akuopa kuti adzamangidwanso manja ndi phazi. Muzochitika izi, nkofunikira kufotokozera kwa mwamuna wanu kuti ndondomeko yanu sichiphatikizapo kumuika pamtanda pambali pake. Ndipotu, ndikukhulupirira kuti maubwenzi olimbitsa thupi amakhala osungika.
Komabe, chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe zimakhudza amuna ndi kuti abwenzi ake onse ndi omasuka ndipo salemedwa ndi maubwenzi. Atalowa mu ubwenzi wapamtima ndi inu, akhoza kukhala nkhosa zakuda kwa abwenzi. Kwa munthu, palibe choopsa choposa kuoneka mosiyana kwa abwenzi ake. Ngati mwamuna wanu ali wodalirika pamalingaliro ozungulira, ndiye kuti mungafunikire kupirira, kapena kuyang'ana mnzanu watsopano, amene angakhale wodziimira pazochita zake.
Amuna onse amafuna kukhala ndi mtsikana. Koma, ambiri a iwo amadziwa kuti mtsikanayo ndi ndalama zambiri. Chilema cha munthu nthawi zambiri chimakhala chopinga pakati pa mitima yokonda. Pachifukwa ichi, mungafunikire kutsimikizira osankhidwa anu kuti ndalama sizikuthandizani kwambiri. Koma, ngati mukuganizabe kuti ndinu oyenerera maukwati abwino komanso mphatso zamtengo wapatali, ndiye kuti simuyenera kukhumudwitsa mtima wa mnyamata ndipo mukuzindikira kuti mukukonzekera bwino.
Alibe malo ake okhala, momwe angakuitane. Gwirizanani kuti kukhala ndi makolo siyeso kwa osowa mtima, ngakhale makolo ali angelo.
Inu nthawizonse mumakhala opanda chidwi, ndipo palibe munthu mmodzi wamoyo angathe kuthana ndi zopempha zanu. Inde, simukuzindikira zolakwa zanu mwa inu nokha. Ndipo iwe umangodziwa kuti mwamuna wako akukusokoneza iwe ndi manja ndi miyendo yonse. Mwachibadwa, kwa inu mumkhalidwe uwu pali chokhacho chokha - ndi HE! Koma, ndi bwino kuyang'ana khalidwe lanu kapena, ngati kuli kovuta, funsani mwamuna wanu kuti akuthandizeni. Ngati ndi wokondedwa kwa inu, ndiye kuti ndibwino kupita kudziko ndikuyesera kuti musinthe. Mwa njira iyi, mudzabweretsa chimwemwe m'banja lanu.
Ndiwe wovuta kwambiri. Inu nthawizonse mumanena kuti mukufuna kukhala ndi ana, banja. Ndipo, kawirikawiri, mumalota ukwati ndipo mofulumira, ndi bwino. Uchi, kumbukirani kuti mtengo wamtengo wapatali kwa mwamuna? Ufulu. Musamuike maganizo anu pa iye. M'kupita kwanthawi, adzafunanso chimodzimodzi. Ndipo, ndikhulupirire ine, ngati atenga yekha izi, adzakondanso ubale wanu.
Mwinamwake chifukwa chimene mwamuna wanu amakunyengani inu ndi msinkhu wake? Ali wamng'ono kwambiri, mwinamwake akufunabe kuyendayenda ndi kusangalala, ndipo ubale ndi mtsikanayo suli mbali ya zolinga zake.
Amuna omwe kale anali ndi ubale weniweni, taonani chisoni, chovuta kwambiri kupita ku ubale watsopano. Ayenera kuphunzira kachiwiri kuti akhulupirire, kukonda. Nthawi zonse amamverera kuti ubale uliwonse wotsatira udzakhazikika mogwirizana ndi ndondomeko yakale komanso kuti atsikana onse apangidwe mayeso omwewo. Sikoyenera kukanikiza, komanso, kukangana ndi munthu woteroyo. Apa njira yabwino kwambiri - kudzipereka, kutentha, chikondi ndi chikondi. Ndipo, malo anu oundana, adzatsika patsogolo panu. Ndipo, pamene izi zichitika, akakukhulupirirani - mudzakhala chitsanzo chake, chimene adzanyamula m'manja mwake.
Okondedwa atsikana, ali ndi vuto lililonse mu chiyanjano, ndibwino kuyang'ana pazu! Musayesetse kusintha ndi kuswa amuna - ichi si ntchito yoyamikira ndi yopanda ntchito.