Osatchulidwa ndi chilakolako kapena opatsidwa chiyeretso? Kwa namwali wamwamuna, mungathe kunena mwatsatanetsatane ziganizo zonsezi. Inde, masiku ano lingaliro loti "namwali" alibe tsatanetsatane yeniyeni, komabe, pakubwera kwa njira zina zogonana, n'zovuta kunena yemwe ali ndi chidziwitso chogonana - mwamuna yemwe kale anali ndi chiyanjano chofanana ndi mkazi kapena wina yemwe amadziwa zonse " osalumikizana "njira zothetseratu kukangana ndi kugonana. Zomwe munthu wopanda chiwerewere ndi momwe angakhalire bwino ndi namwali ndipo adzakambidwa pansipa.
Kumwalika kwachikazi kumafanana ndi chiyero ndipo kungakupangitseni kulira ndi chisangalalo. Koma namwali, ngakhale pa nkhani zokhudza kugonana, cholinga cha achinyamata, madokotala samalipira. Chilichonse chili chokhazikika kuzinthu zokhudzana ndi kulera. Pa intaneti, nthawi zambiri mumatha kupeza zopereka kuchokera kwa anamwali, amuna, koma atsikana-anamwali akadali okwera mtengo. Ubwana wamwamuna sichiyamikiridwa, ngakhalenso kudzudzulidwa ndi kunyozedwa. Choncho, achinyamata omwe sadziwa zachiwerewere, amamverera osakwanira, kuyesa kuchotsa mwamsanga "ballast" yawo.
Ngati mukukumana ndi mnyamata kapena mwamuna yemwe musanagonane musanayambe kugonana ndi maloto osangalatsa, ndiye kuti muyenera kukumbukira - anthu otero, nthawi yoyamba ndi ofunika kwambiri. Ndipo popanda chithunzithunzi chokonzekera kukonzekera zokhumudwitsa zazing'ono ndi chigonjetso chachikulu.
Ndibwino kuti tsopano mudziko lathu ladziko lachidziwitso anthu amadziŵa bwino kwambiri zenizeni zonse za izi. Kotero, nkutheka kuti iwe uyenera kumufunsa mnyamata wanu namwali mafunso osavuta komanso nkhani zokhudza kugonana. Koma chinthu chimodzi ndicho chiphunzitso, ndipo chinthu china chimakhala chizoloŵezi, chomwe kupambana kumadalira pa thanzi la munthu. Ndipo ngakhale mutadziwa zonse zokhudza pistils ndi stamens, njira ya "pollination" ingakhale yovuta kwa inu.
Mwa njira ...
Ku Netherlands pali sukulu yomwe imathandiza amuna kuti adzalandire ubwino wawo. Choyamba iwo amaphunzira mu nthano thupi lamaliseche lakazi. Ndipo pokhapokha ngati munthu atha kuganizira mozama za kukongola kwa wokondedwa wake komanso osakondwera ndi chiwonetsero chake pagalasi - ndiye pali kusintha kuti uchite. Kawirikawiri izi zimachitika palokha, ndipo nthawi zina zimayang'aniridwa ndi akatswiri.
Pali mitundu yambiri ya anamwali. Podziwa mtundu womwewo wa "ogwidwa" iwe, udzatha kudziwa momwe ungakhalire bwino ndi munthu uyu.
Namwali yemwe ali ndi kalata yaikulu "D"
Uyu ndi mtundu wachinyamata wamtundu wina yemwe sadziwa kugonana. Iye ali ndi ufulu wonse kutchedwa wotere monga mwa msinkhu wake. Kawirikawiri awa ndi anyamata a zaka zapakati pa 15-18, omwe ali ndi cholinga chochotsa "kusoŵa kwawo" mwamsanga kuti athe kukhala ngati wamkulu. Ili ndilo vuto lolekanitsa mnyamata kuyambira dzulo ndi mwamuna kuchokera mawa.
Amayi amtundu uwu amagwirizana ndi kugonana mosavuta. Kaŵirikaŵiri amadziwa choti achite, ngakhale manyazi ena akadalipo. Zoona, osati kwa nthawi yaitali. Mtundu uwu kwa mnyamata sikofunikira kufufuza njira yoyenera - mulimonsemo mudzamupatsa zomwe akufuna. Pambuyo pake, cholinga chake chachikulu ndicho kuchotsa unamwali. Lamulo lokha ndiloti musaigwire. Ngakhale, ndithudi, zikanakhala zabwino ngati khalidwe lanu la kutha msinkhu sikunali kokha nkhani yongopeka, komanso phunziro lenileni la chikondi.
Namwali wochokera ku "dziko lina"
Ndi chikhalidwe cha chikondi, mwamuna yemwe, mwa njira yake yomwe, amanyadira kuti ali namwali, ngati chinthu chosowa kwambiri komanso chamtengo wapatali. Unamwali wake ndi chuma chomwe chimangotengera mkazi wapadera kwambiri. Anthu otere samavomereza chikhalidwe ichi ngati chosowa, koma monga ulemu. Inde, mofanana ndi atsikana ambiri, amalota za kugonana koyamba pazitsulo za silika ndikumveka kwa nyimbo zachikale.
Ngati mwakhala mtsikana wapadera, woyenera chuma choterocho - musadandaule. Ingosangalala ndi mlengalenga kuti namwali wanu wokondedwa adzakupangirani inu. Iye anali atalingalira za chirichonse kwa nthawi yaitali, iye anapirira malemba a usiku uno kwa zaka zambiri. Pumulani ndi kumasuka m'manja mwa wolemba wodziwa bwino amene anapanga chochitika ichi mu mtima mwake ndikudziwa momwe zinthu ziyenera kukhalira. Yesetsani kulamulira zilakolako zanu ndi zilakolako - Usiku umenewu ndipo adzasankha zomwe akufunikira. Chinthu chachikulu chimene iye anakusankhani inu, ndi ichi ngati cha amuna ofanana, ndi chofunika kwambiri.
Namwali wamkulu
Pazifukwa zina, iye anakhalabe wosadziwika, sanalole wina aliyense kukhala naye pafupi. Chifukwa cha manyazi kapena maphunziro osadziwika, maonekedwe osangalatsa kapena zinthu zina zofunika kwambiri pamoyo - zonsezi zimapangitsa mnyamata wamkulu kupanga zovuta zambiri. Namwali wa mtundu uwu ndi zosautsa.
Musanafotokozere munthu wotere zonse zokondweretsa moyo wokhudzana ndi kugonana, muyenera kumuchotsa mantha ndikuphwanya "bakha lopunduka". Izi, mwa njira, ndizovuta kwambiri. Chofunika kwambiri, muwonetseni kuti simukugwirizana ndi momwe aliri ndi namwali, kuti sizimasangalatsa, samakukwiyitsani kapena kukuwopsyezani. Yesetsani kumuthandiza - ali ndi nkhawa komanso nkhawa. Nenani kuti tsopano muli pamodzi, ndipo izi zidzachitikadi. Nthawi iliyonse, munthu wina basi izi zinachitika patapita kanthawi ... Ndipo ndi bwino kulankhula mochepa, koma chitani. Adzakuyamikani kwa masiku ake onse.
Namwali ali ndi chilema chachikulu
Kapena ulemu wa munthu wamng'ono. Kapena zoipitsitsa - ndi zowawa zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha mankhwala. Zochitika za opaleshoni yaying'ono muubwana tsopano zakhala zovuta kwambiri. Tsoka, nthawizina sikutheka kupeŵa kuvulala, opaleshoni, chithandizo cham'tsogolo, pambuyo pake anthu kwa nthawi yaitali sangathe kuchita izi, ndipo nthawi zina sangathe. Koma nthawi zambiri amakhala bwino, amangoopa kuti alephera, ndiye chifukwa chake samayambitsa moyo wogonana - sikokwanira kuti ... Mavuto a namwali wotero (nthawi zambiri mothandizidwa ndi dokotala) amatembenuzidwa - ndikudwala kwambiri, ndipo ndiko kwanthawizonse.
Monga lamulo, amuna openya kwenikweni samakhala ndi ululu wamthupi, koma osati pa malo awo apamtima. Ululu ukhoza kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa amuna otero ngati cholepheretsa kugonana. Kodi ndi zosangalatsa zotani zomwe zimakhalapo pakamagaya mano ndi ululu? Ndipo ngakhale ululu uwu - m'mbuyomu wakale, mwamuna sangangowonjezera mantha. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti sakufuna kugonana.
Ngati mukufunadi chiyanjano ndi munthu wotero - khalani wovuta. Musathamangire, musayendetse ndipo musaphunzitse. Ngati wakupatsani zinsinsi zakuya kwambiri, muyenera kungokhulupirira izi. Muuzeni kuti palibe chifukwa chodandaula kuti simudzamupweteka, kuti mumamukonda. Adzakhala woyamikira kwambiri chifukwa chakumvetsetsa kwanu komanso kuleza mtima kwanu. Kodi nkofunikira kuti mukhale ndi munthu uyu? Muloleni iye amve izo!
Namwali amene ali ndi zochitika zabwino
Pankhaniyi, ndizofanana ndi "gawo la theka". Uyu ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi vuto lachidziwitso chodabwitsa. Sindikudziwa bwino zomwe zinachitika usiku womwewo, koma sanagwire ntchito ndi mnzanu wapamtima. Iye analumbirira kuti sadzabwereranso ... Ndipo, powweruza chifukwa iye ali ndi inu tsopano, iye sanasunge mawu ake. Munthu uyu adzapeŵa njira zonse za "kuukira" pa thupi lake. Izi zikhoza kupitirira mpaka atatsimikiza kuti mwakonzeka kumulandira monga iye - wopanda ungwiro, wokanidwa ndi wonyozeka kamodzi. Ayenera kukhala otsimikiza kuti, ngati sangathe, simungamuvutitse nthawi zonse kapena kupukuta mphuno yake. Ntchito yanu ndikumutsimikizira kuti ndinu wokhulupirika komanso wokonzeka kukhala naye mpaka mapeto muzochitika zilizonse. Mosakayikira - kutha kwagonjetsa. Ndipo inunso muyenera kukhulupirira!
Pamene muli ndi mwayi wokhala "namwali", mosakayikira mudzalandira maphunziro opambana a chikhalidwe, chikondi ndikumverera kuyamikira kwa wokondedwa wanu. Kumuthandiza kuthana ndi mantha ake, ululu, kusatsimikizika, mudzatsimikizira kuti ndinu wokonzeka kukhala osati gawo limodzi, komanso mnzanu wokhulupirika, mnzanu amene mungamudalire. Komabe, mosakayikira, imfa ya namwali ndiyeso lalikulu kwa munthu. Taganizirani izi musanayambe kutsogolera dziko la kugonana. Mkazi wochenjera komanso wochenjera amachita nthawi zonse molondola - namwali adzakhala mwamuna wokondwera, ndi kuyamikira ndipo amupatsa usiku ndi chikondi komanso chilakolako nthawi zambiri momwe akufunira.