Nsanje ndi mnzake wokhulupirika wa chikondi, squire, chitetezo, ndipo nthawi zina wowononga. Choncho, muyenera kuligwiritsa ntchito mosamala kwambiri. Maganizowa ndi odabwitsa. Nthawi zina zimatha kuthamangitsidwa ndi kuyang'ana kuthamanga kapena fungo la mizimu ya anthu ena. Ndiyeno amathyola ndikuphwanya chilichonse m'njira yake. Ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale kusakhulupirika ndi mabodza osadziwika kumakhalabe kosamalidwa ndipo amasiyidwa opanda kanthu.
Nsanje mwa amayi imabwera chifukwa choopa kutayika thandizo pamoyo, wopereka chakudya, woteteza. Amuna safuna kuti apatsane wina ndi mnzake. Chikhalidwe choterocho pa ma geneeni chinathandiza kuti pakhale mapangidwe a akazi otchedwa intuition, kuthekera kwa kuzindikira mabodza, malingaliro ndi
malingaliro obisika. Kwa amuna, komanso, kukhoza kunyenga ndi kusintha kwasintha kwa zaka mazana ambiri.
Nthawi zina abwenzi ogonana amagwiritsa ntchito nsanje kuti ayese mphamvu ya ubale wawo kapena kuti atsitsimutse chikondi chosautsa. Mgonero uliwonse uli ndi njira zake zokha. Tidzakambirana zachikazi basi. Nazi malingaliro a momwe mungapangire nsanje munthu wokondedwa.
Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Azimayi amakonda kukhala ochuluka kusiyana ndi amuna kuti azichita nkhanza ndi abambo omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo, motero amachititsa nsanje za munthu wokondedwa. Amatha kupita kumalo aliwonse okha, motero amalola mnzakeyo kumvetsetsa zomwe akufuna komanso kusamvetsetsa mwamuna, zomwe ziri bwino.
Njira yachiwiri yochititsira nsanje, monga momwe ziwonekere, ndikumanyalanyaza bwino wokondedwa wanu. Kukana kukumana, popanda kuyankha mayitanidwe, kupeĊµa misonkhano m'njira iliyonse yomwe ingatheke, mkazi akhoza kuyambitsa mkuntho wa chilakolako mwa munthu, momwe chikhalidwe cha msaki chimabadwa mwachilengedwe. Masewerawo mu "Cat ndi Mouse" ayenera kukhala ofooka ndi oganiza bwino. Apo ayi, munthu wokondedwa, yemwe walephera, akhoza kuiwala za wozunzidwayo ndi kusintha kwa wina
Njira yachitatu ndi yothandiza kwambiri, chifukwa imakhudza zingwe zamphongo zamwamuna. Izi - kulankhula mwachikondi ndi wina kutsogolo kwa wokondedwa wake. Kuvina, kukumbatirana, kukonda ndi munthu wachilendo kumayambitsa mphepo yakukhumba mtima wa wosankhidwa wanu. Chinyengo champhamvu pa nkhaniyi chikhoza kukhala choletsa munthu wina pamaso payekha. Kusangalala kumadziwika ndi anthu ogonana m'njira zosiyanasiyana.Komwe mkazi aseka, zimawoneka kuti mwamunayo amasonyeza kuti amakonda kugonana. Atamva kuseka, mwamuna amadandaula ndikuyamba kuchita. Momwemonso, mayiyo amachititsa kuti onse okwera pamavalo azisewera pansi, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimatha ndi kugunda kwawo.
Nchifukwa chiyani amai ali okonzeka kuyendayenda m'mphepete mwa phompho, kuchitira nsanje amuna? Monga momwe kafukufuku amasonyezera, ndi ochepa okha omwe amachita zimenezo mwa kubwezera, pamene ambiri amayesa kuyesa mphamvu ndi kuya kwa malingaliro a wokondedwa wawo, kumuwonetsa iye kuti amuna ena amamukonda. Makamaka chilakolako chochititsa nsanje mwamuna wokondedwa chimapezeka mwa amayi omwe amuna awo amakula mofulumira kwambiri ndipo ayamba kusamalira akazi awo pang'ono.
Kuchotsa nsanje mwadzidzidzi kumadzutsa kudzidalira kwa mkazi, kumamuthandiza kuti adziwonetse yekha pamaso pake, ndi pamaso pa mnzanuyo Ngati sangakhale wosasokonezeka, saona kuti akuwonekera pambali, ndiye kuti maganizo ake amatha. Ngati iye ali ndi chimphepo cha chilakolako, ndiye. mkazi amamukonda ndipo amafunidwa.
Akazi, monga Achifaransa amati, kawirikawiri amakhululukira nsanje chifukwa cha amuna, koma samakhululukira konse kupezeka kwake. Komabe, musanachititse nsanje za wokondedwa wanu, ganizirani ngati kuli kofunikira kuti mukhale paubwenzi wanu.