Kodi mungaphunzire chiyani kuchokera kwa munthu wamakono?

Kuti tipeze mpikisano ndi amuna, tiyenera kukhala ngati msilikali yemwe ali pankhondo. Ndikofunika kuphunzira machitidwe a mdani, malo ake ofooka. Ngati mumvetsetsa ndikudziwa amuna, kuphatikizapo kukongola kwanu, kukoma mtima ndi ulemu, zidzakupangitsani kukhala osagonjetsedwa. Mwachibadwa, amuna si adani athu. Koma palinso ena oimira kugonana amphamvu omwe sitinakhale nawo pachibwenzi kuyambira pachiyambi, ndipo patapita nthaŵi, amakhala adani. Ndizo amuna awa ayenera kuphunzira.

Kwa zaka mazana ambiri anthu anali akuluakulu m'banja, ndale, zachuma, ndi mbali zina za moyo. Koma amayiwa amateteza ufulu wawo, anatsimikizira amuna kuti tikhoza kugwira ntchito mu fakitale, kuyendetsa galimoto, kuwuluka ndi ndege. Pang'ono pang'onopang'ono ponena kuti mkazi ali wofooka, wopanda chithandizo, kuti akhoza kuphika kuti adye ndi kubereka ana, atha kulowa m'chilimwe. Takhala amphamvu, opambana, ndi bizinesi. Ngakhale, kuyambira m'mbiri yakalekale, simungapezeke paliponse, ndipo palibe, ndipo zomwe zikuchitika kale zimakhala pamutu kapena mu khalidwe. Mkazi wamakono akhoza kuwononga munthu mwa luntha, kupambana kuntchito, mphamvu ndi zina zambiri. Zokwanira kale kuti zidzudzule zogonana mwamphamvu zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kulamulira. Ndibwino kuti aphunzire zinthu ndi zothandiza. Wachibairo wapitala, nthawi ya kubereka akubwera.

Amuna ambiri ali odzidalira kwambiri, ali ndi kudzidalira kwambiri. Amadzitamandira chifukwa cha mabwenzi awo ndi omwe amadziwika nawo ndi minofu (zomwe sizili zofunika kwambiri), ali ndi galimoto (ngakhale kuti sali yatsopano ndi yogula pa ngongole), ndi nyumba (chabwino, yomwe adailandira kuchokera kwa agogo ake aakazi ndi kumtunda wa Moscow Ring Road). Phunzirani kwa iwo kunyada! Ayi, sikuli koyenera kuzunzitsa mphuno zanu, kungoyenera kuti mumapindule mumunda uliwonse. Mwinamwake kwa wina ndi zophweka, koma inu munayesetsa, yesetsani kupeza chimodzi kapena chimzake. Lolani aliyense adziwe kuti mudzathetsa vuto lililonse. Ndicho chimene mungaphunzire kuchokera kwa munthu wamakono.

Amuna nthawi zonse amalongosola malingaliro awo molimba mtima (pafupifupi onse), ndipo ngati sakonda chinachake, amatha kupita kwa otsutsana nawo bwinobwino. Ayi, sikuli koyenera kumenyana. Koma kuti muteteze maganizo anu, fotokozani maganizo anu ndi opatulika. Ngati mukufunadi, mukhoza kuika maganizo anu pamsonkhanowu, koma muyenera kungochita mosamala komanso mosamala.

Amuna ali ndi chinthu chimodzi chofunika kwambiri, luso: akhoza kuponyera chirichonse ndikupita kukapuma. Ndipo osati kwenikweni mu klabu, koma pa mpira kapena kungoyendera bwenzi. Kodi ndinu woipitsitsa? Dzikonzekere wekha tsiku! Funsani kuntchito, pitani ku sitolo kapena kuwonetserako, ku nyumba yosungirako zinthu zamakono, inde kulikonse, ngati mukanakonda komanso mutasangalala tsiku lomwe munadzipangira nokha. Kukwanira kuganiza za ntchito zapakhomo, kuwerengera bajeti ya banja, inunso muli munthu, ndipo muli ndi ufulu wopuma. Madzulo, mmalo mwa kawirikawiri kuphika ndi kuyeretsa, dziyang'anire nokha, piritsani kuti muwerenge bukhu kapena mutenge botolo lokometsera. Bzinthu sizingatheke. Ndipo izi zikhoza kuphunzitsidwa kuchokera kwa munthu wamakono.

Amuna amadzikuza okha, ndi matupi awo. Samazengereza kuzungulira mphuno zawo, kulavulira ndi kukwapula kumene zimakoka. Musati mutenge chilichonse, musayambe modzidzimutsa kuti muzitha kunyamula. Ndiwe mtsikana! Ndiko kudzikonda nokha momwe iwe ulili. Ngati mtundu wina wa munthu wamkulu wamphongo ndi woipa amadziganizira kuti ndi Apollo, ndiye bwanji osadziona kuti ndiwe Belle? Pambuyo pake, ndi!

Amuna onse amadziwa zonse. Ngakhale iwo sakudziwa chinachake, iwo akudziyesabe kuti aliyense mu dziko amadziwa, amadziwa, amamvetsa. Pafunso lililonse, funso lovuta kwambiri, omwe akuyimira kugonana molimba nthawizonse amakhala ndi yankho. Choncho musamachite manyazi kulankhula molimba mtima pa mafunsowa ndi zinthu zomwe simukuzidziwa. Dziwani kuti chinthu chofunika kwambiri pankhaniyi ndi kulankhula molimba mtima ndi mawu amodzi. Phunzirani kupanga chinyengo, ndipo mudzawona kuti ambiri mwa abambo anu ayamba kukulemekezani, akuyang'anani mosiyana, ayambe kupempha uphungu. Ndi chiyani chinanso chomwe mungaphunzire munthu wamakono?

Amuna nthawi zina amasankha njira yosavuta. Ngati mwadzidzidzi, amakhala pansi ndikuyang'ana TV, zomwe zimasonyeza kuti kulankhula zopusa kumasonyeza, ndipo palibe njira yothetsera vutoli, ndiye kuti sangayambe kumuyang'ana mwakhama, angakonde kukhala pabedi, kumwa mowa ndi kuwonerera TV. Akazi, mosiyana ndi amuna, amatha kupitiriza kuthetsa mavuto ndi ntchito. Tidzapeza malo akutali, titha kuchita chinachake. Kotero zingakhale zoyenera kuima kachiwiri, ndikupumula ndikuchita kanthu? Nthawi zina ndi zothandiza komanso zosangalatsa. Phunzirani kumasuka komanso osapanga zosafunikira.

Ponena za kuyeretsa, pafupifupi anthu onse amatsimikiza kuti kuyeretsa ndi ntchito yopusa komanso yachikazi. Ndipo akazi, mosiyana, amakhulupirira kuti ndikofunikira, kusunga nyumba mwa dongosolo, kuti atuluke. Ndipo mumayesa kusinthasintha ndi kusatuluka. Pamene fumbi lidzasungunuka pa maalumali m'nyumba yanu, mukhoza kuchita zinthu zina zothandiza: werengani, sangalalani, kambiranani ndi abwenzi anu. Nchifukwa chiyani mumayendayenda panyumbamo ndi ndodo ndi chotsuka chotsuka, ngati pakapita sabata padzakhala dothi? Ndiye inu muchotsedwa. Pakalipano, sangalalani ndi moyo!

Mu moyo wa munthu aliyense ntchito yofunika imasewera ndi abwenzi. Muli ndi abwenzi ang'onoang'ono? Palibe amene angapite ku mafilimu? Tsatirani nokha abwenzi ena khumi ndi awiri ndikuyenda nawo! Kambiranani, pitani ku sitolo palimodzi, ingoyenda. Ngakhale pali mwamuna pafupi ndi inu, iye ali, choyamba, mwamuna, osati chibwenzi. Ndi iye simungathe kukambirana zomwe mungamuuze mnzanu. Sangathe kuimirira maola anayi a ulendo wamalonda. Bwenzi lapamtima yekha lingathe kuchita izi. Choncho, tenga anzako. Ndili okondwa kwambiri!

Amuna amakonda masewera, osiyana. Mpira, hockey, volleyball, njuga. Kodi ndinu woipitsitsa? Ngakhale kuti sichedwa kwambiri, ndipo chiwerengero chanu chili bwino, ndikuchita nawo masewera omwe mumawakonda, koma pambali pa mawonekedwe abwino, mumakhala ndi maganizo abwino.

Ambiri aife tiri ndi mafano. Ochita, owonetsera, oimba kapena ndale. Ndiye bwanji simukuyamba kutsanzira wokonda masewera omwe mumawakonda? Khalani wamdima ndi osamvetseka monga iye. Phunzirani kwa iwo kuthana ndi mavuto a moyo. Ndikofunika kuti mutha kusamalira zolinga zanu ndi moyo wanu. Kumbukirani kuti zonse zili m'manja mwako. Sikuchedwa kwambiri kuti tiphunzire. Ngakhale kwa amuna.