Mwamsanga mwanayo atasiya kudziŵa za dziko lapansi mwa kutsika manja ake mu chisokonezo ndipo kwa iye kumakhala masewera kapena zosangalatsa, wina ayambe ndi ntchito za maphunziro pa mutu: momwe angakhalire patebulo.
Mu zaka ziwiri kapena zitatu, mumamvetsera kuti asanadye muyenera kusamba m'manja. Pa tebulo, afotokozereni mwanayo momwe angagwiritsire ntchito mphanda, supuni, m'manja mwake kuti awagwire. Patangopita kanthawi pang'ono - tifotokozere mwachindunji ku chikhalidwe cha khalidwe. Samalani kuti mwanayo asasunthike mkate, osasewera naye, atsekedwa ndi pakamwa pake atatsekedwa, sanalankhulane pamene akudya ndi pakamwa pake.
Kuyambira tili mwana timakumbukira mawu akuti: "Ndikadya, ndimamva ndipo ndine wosalankhula." Koma kudya sikuyenera kukhala masewera mumtendere: mungathe kuyankhula, koma pokhapakati pakati pa chakudya. Ngati mwanayo samvetsera, afotokozereni kuti sangamvere pakamwa pawo. Mutu wa zokambirana uyenera kupatsidwa chidwi chapadera. Musalankhulane ndi mwanayo komanso wina ndi mzake m'banja lanu za matenda omwe ali patebulo, asiye kufotokozera za ubale pakati pa abambo, musakumbukire zinthu "zoipa" zomwe zingasokoneze chilakolako cha mwanayo, koma mwachiwonekere sichidzapita phindu lake kulera. Limbikitsani chidwi cha mwana wanu pa zovuta za izi kapena mankhwalawa, kuti athe kuzindikira zoyenererazo ndi zodziwa: momwe zimakhalira mchere, zokoma, zowawa, etc. Mukhoza kutengera masewerawa "Kodi kukoma kumeneku ndi chiyani? ".
Kawirikawiri ana ndi opricious pa tebulo, amathera. Chowonadi ndi chakuti iwo ali ndi utumiki wapansi, sangathe kuika phunziro pa phunziro limodzi kwa mphindi zoposa 15. Choncho, iwo akhoza kungowononga njira yokhayo, kapena mwanayo akhoza kudya kale (pambuyo pake, kawirikawiri makolo asanamalize kudya "chakudya", kotero mwanayo sangakhale ndi njala mokwanira).
Kuyambira ali ndi zaka zinayi, ntchito zophunzitsa zikhoza kuphatikizapo malangizo oyenera kuti azisungunula bwino, kuti adye chakudya panthawi imodzi. Podziwa kusungunula zowonongeka, nkofunika kusinthana ndikudyetsa. Pambuyo pake, makolo sapita kukonza "Ndidyetseni! ", Kuchokera pamene mwanayo kale ndi wamkulu ndipo amatha yekha. Nthawi yomweyo muyenera kusonyeza momwe mungakhalire ndi chodula: momwe mungaike supuni m'kamwa mwako, tulutseni (kuti mwanayo asalankhule, samati, samagwiritsira ntchito makina ake). Pa msinkhu womwewo, mukhoza kusonyeza momwe mungadye ndi mpeni ndi mphanda. Pankhaniyi, ganizirani za chitetezo.
Mwanayo akapita kusukulu, ayenera kukhala ndi khalidwe lokhazikika, amatha kutsata ndondomekoyi pamene adya, amadya mwakachetechete, musayikane pa tebulo. Mafupa sayenera kukhala pansi pa tebulo, kuwoloka (izi zimakhudzanso chikhalidwe).
Ndemanga ziyenera kufotokozedwa, zotsitsimutsidwa ndi zitsanzo zamoyo, zithunzithunzi za zida zamatsenga (Pinocchio, Winnie the Pooh). Musamaphunzitse mwanayo kuti akhulupirire kotheratu kuti "n'kofunika", "choncho amavomerezedwa" - tsiku lina akhoza kusewera nkhanza ndi iwe. Ngakhale kulira kwathyoka, khalani chete ndikufotokozera tanthauzo la zomwe akuchita.
Ntchito zamaphunziro pa mutu wa zokoma pa tebulo sizimangokhala ndi chikhalidwe cha khalidwe pa chakudya. Kuti m'tsogolomu munalibe mavuto, zimaphatikizapo kuti mwanayo agone patebulo, kutsuka pambuyo pake pakatha chakudya. Poyamba amulandire mbaleyo pamsana, pamene ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi, mukhoza kumuphunzitsa kuti asambe mbale. Musamulole mwamsanga, ayenera kusamba pambuyo pake, koma makamaka mosamala pofotokoza zolakwa zake, kuti nthawi yotsatira ayesere bwino.
Ngati akufuna chinachake, musamulole kutambasula, koma mwaulemu afunse (pogwiritsa ntchito "matsenga" mawu akuti "chonde"). Pa tebulo, nanunso, musadye chakudya kuchokera ku mbale yoyandikana nayo, muthamangire kukatenga chidutswa chachikulu. Ndipo pamene chinachake sichinagwire ntchito, kapena chimatuluka (chingwe kapena belch), ndipangeni kupepesa. Mukatha kudya, phunzitsani mwanayo kuti ayamike.
Makolo amafunikanso kukhala ndi maganizo okondweretsa mwanayo. Chakudyacho chimaperekedwa bwino bwino, ikani supuni mu mbale zowonjezera (kuti musalowemo aliyense pazovala zanu). Musadye kuchokera ku miphika kapena mapeyala, kuima, pamtunda. Ngati simukufuna kuti mwanayo adye m'chipinda, musaike chitsanzo ndipo musadyetseko kumeneko. Musadye ndi TV! Pa tebulo, mwanayo ayenera kuyang'ana pa chakudya. Ngati ali wosadziwika, sakufuna kudya, musamudandaule, koma mungopatula mbaleyo. Zikuwoneka kuti sanadye - chakudya chotsatira chiyamba poyamba. Musati mupite nthawi yomwe mwanayo akudutsa mofulumira kudutsa chakudya. Muyenera kudya zonse zomwe zatumikiridwa, ndipo pokhapokha muziphika chifukwa chochita zabwino zomwe simungachite.
Mosakayika, ntchito zonse zophunzitsa ziyenera kutsimikiziridwa ndi chitsanzo chawo. Onetsetsani khalidwe lanu labwino, chifukwa nkhani zovuta zilibe kanthu poyerekezera ndi "chithunzi", chifukwa ana amatsanzira khalidwe la makolo pazinthu zochepa kwambiri. Muyenera kudziyendetsa patebulo momwe mukufunira kuti mwanayo achite, komanso kuti azichita zinthu zophunzitsa pang'onopang'ono, mwachikondi komanso kuleza mtima kosatha.