Tonsefe timafuna kumvetsetsa, kukhulupirirana. Kupambana kokha, komwe palibe ngakhale wina woti azigawana - ichi ndi chowawa kwambiri "sweetie" chimene munthu angakhoze kuchipeza. Chisoni chimene palibe amene angatsanulire ndicho cholemetsa kwambiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake anthu amayamikira kwambiri mgwirizano wapamtima pakati pawo.
Koma pakufuna ubale wabwino ndiubwenzi, mungathe komanso kuvutika - pakati pa anthu apo pali maubwenzi ena omwe amangokhala ngati "pafupi". Anzanga, abwenzi ndi abwenzi, njoka zina - chilichonse chingachitike.
Ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale mdani wamkulu kwambiri akhoza kusangalala ndi chisoni chanu kuti munthu alandire chithandizo kapena "kukankhira" kwa nthawi yaitali kuti achoke. Pa nthawi yomweyi, mnzanu wapamtima amene mumadziwana naye kuyambira ali mwana - musapereke kutentha ndi chithandizo chofunikira ...
Ndi ndani amene angamange?
Ubale, odabwitsa mokwanira, ndikumanga. Pang'ono ndi pang'onopang'ono. Inde, zikumveka zovuta kwambiri - "kumanga", kuwerengera, pamene zotsatira ziyenera kukhala zoyandikana ndi ubale pakati pa anthu. Koma kwenikweni, palibe chinthu chachilendo mu izi - mwa njira inayake timapanga bwalo lolankhulana, lolani munthu mmodzi alankhule nafe ndikupewa ena.
Zoyembekeza zathu
Pezani mu chiyanjano ndizo zomwe tikusowa - zikuwoneka, palibe chophweka. Komabe, timafunikira tsiku lililonse (ngakhale ola limodzi) mosiyana. Zotere:
- thandizo
- kuvomereza zochita zathu
- chisamaliro
- panthawi yake "kick"
- chitonthozo
- chidwi mwa ife
- chidwi chathu kwa munthu wina
- zatsopano
- chisangalalo chachilendo.
Kukhala ndi ubale wapamtima ndi ubale pakati pa anthu ndi sayansi yonse. Kodi ndi ndani amene tiyenera kulankhulana naye, ndipo ndi ndani, m'malo mwake, tifunikira 'kukhalabe maso'? Tiyeni tiyese kuyendayenda m'magulu akuluakulu omwe timadziwa nawo
Anzako. Timayesetsa kuti tikhale ndi ubale wapamtima ndi iwo, koma pakati pa anthu ogwira ntchito, maubwenzi amapangidwa mobwerezabwereza ndi kupanga osati m'malo ofunda. Mwamsanga pamene gawo la "kutentha" ndi "zokonzeka" zokongola za tiyi ndi khofi zidzakhala zazikulu kuposa njira yothetsera - kampani ikhoza kuthetsa ogwira ntchito-oyankhula, osasiya kukhalapo.
Wachibale. Mwamwayi, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta pamene maubwenzi apamtima ndi okondana amakhazikitsidwa pakati pa anthu omwe ali okhudzana ndi mwazi. Iwo amaganiza za "yemwe ayenera kukhala" osati amayi ndi abambo okha, komanso alongo, azikazi, agogo aakazi ndi zidzukulu ... Ndipo nthawi zina Mulungu amapatsa nzeru kwa achibale amagazi kuti atenge mtundu wokondedwa mwa munthuyo, osati mwa ndende ya malingaliro awo. Ndipo kumeneko, kumene kumangokhala m'malo mwazowona, mozama, za ubale wapamtima kapena waubwenzi sizikupita.
Odzidzidzidwa. Anthu okonda kuyenda nawo komanso anthu ocheza nawo amakumana kawirikawiri. Ulendo wopita kukapuma, kukagona mu hotelo yoyandikana ndi hotelo, kutengako nthawi yaitali pa basi kapena pagalimoto, ngakhale - zonsezi ndi chifukwa chabwino chochitira misonkhano. Komabe, musakhumudwitse kuti muzochitika zina mudatha kukambirana zokondweretsa, koma ena - ayi. Kunyumba, momasuka komanso momasuka, simungapitirize kudziwana. Chidwi cha oyendayenda anzawo chikufalikira molingana ndi mtunda wotsala ku mudzi wawo - ndipo izi ndi zachilendo. Komabe, mu lamulo lirilonse pali malo osangalatsa, koma zosayembekezereka zosayembekezereka.
Anzanga a mabwenzi. Mabwenzi awa ndi ochuluka kwambiri kwa anthu osadziwika bwino. Mu bwalo lonse, inu, choyamba, mwachibadwa mumadziŵa anthu atsopano, ndipo kachiwiri - mungathe kusankha kuchokera kwa anthu ambiri omwe mumawakonda kwenikweni. Ndipo ndi anthu oterewa, kuyandikana kwamtendere ndi kuthandizana kumatha kukhazikika. Nthawi zina anzathu amatidziŵa kwambiri komanso osati mbali yabwino. Mzanga watsopano pankhaniyi ndi wabwino kuposa awiri akale. Iye sanamvepo nthabwala zanu "zamatsenga" ndipo sanayese mbale "yoyenera". Monga inu - osadziŵanso za moyo wake, wakale, milandu. Ndipo ichi ndi chifukwa chabwino chosonkhanitsira "tiyi" pamodzi ndi tiyi ndi tete-tete!
Anzanga aubwana. Mwatsoka, sitikukula - tikusintha. Ndili ndi zaka, zokhumba zatsopano, zizoloŵezi, ndi malingaliro zokhudzana ndi moyo amasintha. Choncho, ubale ndi Masha kuchokera ku kindergarten №123 akhoza onse apitirize, koma mu njira, ndi kusiya "monga zosafunikira." Kwenikweni, ngati cholinga ndi maziko a kukhalapo koteroko ndi kukumbukira nthawi zakale nthawi ndi nthawi, mudzafunanso kukumana kamodzi pa chaka. Ndipo palibe mgwirizano sungakhoze kukhala wofunda, wochezeka ndi wodzaza, ngati zochuluka kuposa momwe simukugwirizanirana.
Anzanu onse ndi abwino - sankhani kukoma!
Anzanu onse amagawidwa kukhala mabwenzi akale ndi amtsogolo ndi abwenzi. Choncho, kuchita nthawi yaitali ndi munthu, posakhalitsa kapena posakhalitsa muyenera kusankha. Chibwenzicho chimakhalabe "monga" - mwachitsanzo, wochezeka, mwangwiro, kapena kusiya. Kapena, ngati pali mfundo zothandizira, mukhoza kuzifikitsa ku gulu la pafupi ndi lachikondi. Inde, ndithudi mudzafunika kugwira ntchito, kuzindikira ndi kupatula nthawi yowonjezera "ngodya zakuthwa", pokhala wokondweretsa nokha ndi chidwi chenicheni mwa munthuyo.
Kumbali ina, kulola kuti zinthu ziziyenda paokha, ndi zophweka kwambiri kupeza anzako-atsikana achinyengo chanterelles ndi abwenzi-megers. Koma simungathe kumanga ubale weniweni ndi iwo ...