Kukhalira mtima sizitsulo. Malinga ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, matenda a mitsempha sagwira ntchito molakwika. Munthu, ali ndi mitsempha yamphamvu, amakumana ndi mavuto ena, amawoneka bwino ndi ena.
Kukhudzidwa, ngati kulikulirakulira, kukhoza kukopa anthu achikulire kukhala munthu wowoneka bwino. Munthu wotero angafanizidwe ndi nyenyezi yomwe imamveketsa anthu omwe amamuzungulira. Amamvera chisoni, amamvetsa chisoni, amadziwa mmene angagwirizane ndi maganizo ake omwe amachititsa kuti azigwirizana.
Kuyambira ali mwana, amagona pang'ono. Zimakhala zovuta kuti mukhale chete ngati akulira. Atakula, mwana woteroyo ndi ovuta kupirira zolephera - amatha kuswa zidole zake mopweteketsa ndikupita kumanyazi ngati chinachake sichigwira ntchito. Chifukwa cha izi zonse ndi kuwonjezeka kwachisamaliro, kutumizidwa ku thupi ndi moyo.
Ana, pokhala ndi chizoloŵezi cha onyoza, samalola kulekerera. Choncho, kudzacheza kwa dokotala ndi gehena weniweni kwa makolo ake. Chiyesochi chingayambike chifukwa chakuti akukonzekera kupita ku polyclinic. Chabwino, ngati zimabwera pa katemera, ndiye kuti izi sizipita kwa makolo okha, komanso kwa ogwira ntchito zachipatala. Mwanayo akulira kuchokera kulikonse kapena kupunduka, osalola kuti adzikhudze yekha. Kawirikawiri, zochita zake ku zinthu zazing'ono zilizonse zamphepo, wina akhoza kunena, osati zofanana ndi chifukwa cha mkwiyo.
Ana okondweretsa amadziwika ndi kukayikira. Ndi bwino kumufunsa mwanayo za momwe akumvera, ndiye adzayankha kuti ndizoipa kuti ali ndi kupweteka mutu, kupweteka m'mimba ndi pakhosi. Komabe, izi sizimagwirizana ndi zenizeni, komatu chimfine chodziwika chabe ndi.
Rebenokochen ndi wabwino kwambiri pogwiritsa ntchito kuwonjezereka kwake ngati chinthu chofunika pa milandu pamene safuna kuchita chinachake, mwachitsanzo, kuti asapite kusukulu kapena kuti asakwaniritse ntchito ina. Koma, malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo a anthu, kupweteka kwa ana koteroko kuli kolimba kwambiri, ndipo vutoli limadetsa thanzi lawo mozama kuposa ana ena.
Palinso chinthu china chomwe chimawasiyanitsa ndi ena, ichi ndi chizoloŵezi chakukwiyira. Ngati wina atemberera, nthawi yomweyo amayamba kulira. Choncho, nthawi zonse muyenera kukumbukira kuti mulimonse momwe ziliri kofunikira kuti musamafuule pa adiresi ya ana. Ana awa amakhalanso wamanyazi. Musamuuze kuti simukuyenera kuchita mantha, ndizopanda phindu, chifukwa kumapeto kwa mantha ake kumakhala kofanana ndi kupweteka kwambiri. Zingakhale bwino ngati mwanayo akuzoloŵera pazochitika zosiyanasiyana pang'onopang'ono, popanda kupanikizidwa.
Zosamvetsetseka, n'zotheka kulimbitsa mwanayo khalidwe lofanana, ngati kukayikira. Nestoit nthawi zambiri amadandaula, pamene akunena kuti ndi chinthu chosauka, chinthu chosauka, kuti agwa ndi kuvulazidwa nthawi zonse. Ndi malingaliro ameneŵa, iye, ngakhale akufuna, sangathe kupirira kuopa kwake kulikonse ndi zovulaza.
Khalani womasuka muzochitika zilizonse ndikupangitsa kuti chidwi chanu chikhale chofunika kwambiri. Mwa ichi mudzamuthandiza kuthetsa maganizo ake. Ndipotu, mwana woterowo amamva kuti ndi wamphamvu kuposa ena osati ululu wokhawokha, koma amatsatiranso zomwe ena akunena. Ngati kwa iye chinachake chiletsa, iye akhoza kugwa muukali ndi kuwononga chirichonse, chimene chidzakhale pansi pa dzanja. Ndipo kuletsedwa kochepa kwa mwana wina sikungadabwe konse.
Ana oponderezedwa oterewa ndi ovuta kuchitapo kanthu ngakhale ngakhale zolephera zochepa, amakhala akulira ndi mkwiyo. Izi zimawululidwa pokhapokha poyesa ena ndi kudzidalira. Mwana wotereyo nthawi zonse amakhala ndi maganizo oipa. Iye ayenera kuchita chinachake, kuleza mtima kwake kumatha ndipo amatsiriza kuti sakudziwa kuchita chirichonse. Noi sakufulumira kugwira ntchito payekha, chifukwa samakhulupirira mphamvu zake ndipo sachita khama kuti athetse mavuto. Chifukwa chaichi, chidwi cha chirichonse chili mofulumira kwambiri.
Mmene mungakhalire ndi makolo
Makolo ayenera kudziwa kuti atawona khalidwe la mwanayo pakapita nthawi, n'zotheka kupeŵa kuwonjezereka kwa chikhalidwe ichi. Samalani kukhumudwa ndi kusakhutira kwa mwanayo kuti mupewe mavuto aakulu. Mwachirikizo chake, osati ndi ziphunzitso zamakhalidwe abwino, mumuthandiza mwanayo kuti adziwone yekha ndikudzikhulupirira yekha, kuti adzilemekeze yekha ndi ena mwaulemu. Potero, akhoza kusokoneza maganizo ake mosavuta. Muphunzitseni kuti azigwira yekha, ngakhale kuti netak ndi yosavuta, monga zikuwonekera.
Nazi malingaliro omwe akatswiri a maganizo amapereka:
- Musagwirizane ndi mwanayo pamene inuyo mwakopeka - izi mumupatsa kukhala wosasinthasintha, chifukwa ngakhale mwana amamva vuto lanu.
- Musaganize kuti mwanayo akulira ndikulira. Musayese kubweretsa maganizo ake ndi kufuula kapena kukopa - muzochitika zotere sadzakumverani.
- Ndipo usadandaule pamene akuwona kuti wagwada. Zingakhale bwino ngati mutangomaliza chilonda.
- Musamachepetse mavuto a mwanayo ndipo musanene kuti palibe choipa chochitika. Musanditsimikizire kuti kusukulu iye adzakhala woyamba pa zonse.
- Muzochitika zonse, khalani chete ngati mwana wanu ali pafupi. Mutengeni, mutonthoze, koma pokhapokha ngati sakudziwa, chifukwa pali ana omwe sakonda nkhawa pamene akhudzidwa.
- Kuletsa kumafunika pamene mukulankhulana ndi mwanayo. Komabe, weasel sidzakhalaponso. Konzani vuto panthawi yomwe mwanayo ali ndi amatsenga, palibe chifukwa.
- Kuwonetseredwa kwa kulimba mtima pogonjetsa zofooka zathu ndikofunika kutamanda ndi kuthandizira.
- Landirani zomwe wapindula muzochita zonse. Ngati mwana amadzikhulupirira yekha, akhoza kuthana ndi mavuto ake. Musaiwale kuti nokha mungathandize mwana wanu kuthana ndi kuwonjezeka kwa mphamvu.