Kodi ndiubwenzi

Mabwenzi ndi ofunika, ndi iwo mungathe kudya pud wa mchere, ndipo mukhoza kuyenda kudzera mu mapaipi amkuwa, moto kapena madzi. Bwenzi limathandiza kuthetsa mavuto ndikuthandizani pa nthawi yovuta, kuthandizira kudutsa usiku wokhawokha ndikupereka uphungu wabwino. Koma nthawizina ubwenzi sungakhale wofanana ndi umene ukupitirizabe kuimba nyimbo ndi mavesi. Bwanji ngati bwenzi lanu liri ndi mutu umodzi waukulu?

Mnzanga pa msonkho wapadera.
Zimakhalanso kuti munthu amakuwonetsani chifundo chake, ndi chidwi chenicheni pamoyo wanu, amapereka chithandizo, koma mukamusiya mu moyo wanu, zonse mwadzidzidzi zimasintha kwambiri. Mu ubale wanu palibe china chomwe chingakhale choyenera ngati "kwaulere". Bwenzi lanu la chibwenzi likuyenera kuvomereza kulipira, koma sakubwezera ngongole. Zikuwoneka kuti tsitsi lanu latsopano likukhala mwa inu mwanjira ina yachilendo, koma pa iye ... Iye akusowa thandizo la mwamuna wanu pakukonzekera ntchito yatsopano, mwinamwake sipadzakhala kalikonse kodyetsa katsako. Nthawi zonse amakhala ndi agogo ake omwe salipo ndipo amafunikira ndalama za mankhwala. Inde, simudziwa!
Ndipo ngati sakufuna ndalama, ndiye kuti akukufunsani kuti mumutengere pa bizinesi yofunika kwambiri, mapepala otsika kapena chinachake. Nkhani za chikhumbo chofuna kuthandiza, ndithudi, si.
Yang'anani mwatcheru. Kodi mukuwona munthu wofunikira kwenikweni amene akukumana ndi mavuto osakhalitsa ndipo akuyesera kuthetsa mavuto ake payekha ndi thandizo lanu lochepa kapena ndi munthu amene akufuna kuthetsa mavuto ake onse ndi inu nokha? Ngati mukukhulupirira kuti pamaso panu leech nthawi zonse, amene amangodikirira, kukhala pansi pa khosi la munthu, musachedwe, kuchotsa!
Choyamba, pali zifukwa zomveka zokana naye pempho lina ndikumveka. Ngati chibwenzicho chikulimbikitsabe, perekani zosinthana. Inu mumapita ku sitolo yake kwa iye, ndipo iye akutsuka mbale panyumba panu panthawi ino. Iye sagwirizana? Muli ndi ufulu wokhumudwitsidwa komanso mkhalidwe uno kuti musiye chiyanjano. Choncho leech kapena kudziwononga, kapena adzasamalira kukugwiritsa ntchito m'tsogolomu.

Mzanga wochokera kudziko lina.
Ndipo izi si zachilendo. Mu moyo wanu, chibwenzi chikhoza kuoneka, chomwe chimakhala chokwanira poyamba, koma zimakhala kuti zonse zomwe zimakondweretsedwa ndizozizwitsa, karma, mphamvu zamagetsi ndi mawu a Mphunzitsi Waluso. Chabwino, iye angakhale ndi chidwi ndi izi zokha, koma pamapeto pake, mumamva kuti mugwidwa kuphompho kwavumbulutso. Inu mukuyang'ana pa izi, ndipo inu nokha mulowa mu mpatuko - pambuyo pa zonse, osati kuchokera padenga, komabe, iye watenga mavumbulutso onse awa.
Samalani! Msungwana woteroyo akhoza kukhala wowopsa kwambiri, ngati kokha chifukwa chapamwamba choterechi chikukoka ndi kufalitsa ngati chimfine. Kuchokera pamenepo mukhoza kugwidwa ndi kukhulupirira malingaliro openga omwe amafalitsa.
Yesani kuphatikiza malingaliro. Muuzeni kuti simukugwirizana ndi zikhulupiliro zake, musagwirizane ndi zokambirana za "otherworldly", kapena bwino - pangani chiphunzitso chomwe chimatsutsana ndi ziphunzitso zoyambirira za zomwe adazilandira. Choncho, bwenzi kapena muime kuti musamve nkhawa, kapena mupite kwa omwe ali okonzeka kumumvetsera.

Mzanga wa magazi.
Inu simungakhoze kukana izo_ndi bwenzi-wachibale. Mlongo, azakhali, kapena, choipa kwambiri, apongozi ake. Amapereka kukhala mabwenzi, ndipo simungakhoze kukana. Icho chimaperekedwa, ndipo iwe umamverera kuti uyenera kuchivomereza icho nthawi iliyonse ndi chifukwa chirichonse. Koma kodi zingakhale zotheka bwanji kukwiyitsa wachibale?
Zikuwoneka kuti izi ndizovuta komanso zovuta kwambiri, chifukwa simungathe kuchotsa munthu wapafupi, ndipo zimakhala zovuta kuti mum'phunzitsenso. Ngati vendetta sichikuphatikizidwa mwamsanga, yesetsani, koma mwakachetechete.

Choyamba, nkofunikira kufotokoza momveka bwino malire a ololedwa. Ngati simukulola abwenzi anu akale zinthu zina, simuyenera kulola wachibale wanu.
Chachiwiri, khalani odekha, koma olimba ndi osasinthasintha. Gwiritsani ntchito chikhalidwe cha khalidwe ndi mawu omwe angakutetezeni ku zochitika zadzidzidzi usiku ndi kufunsa zopereka chirichonse padziko lapansi chifukwa chakuti mu zovuta panalibe wina koma wachibale.
Chachitatu, yesetsani kufotokoza kulakwitsa, koma ngati zokambiranazo sizikuthandizani, muyenera kuwonjezera mtunda pakati pa inu.

Amzanga samakhala nthawi zonse mogwirizana ndi zomwe tikuyembekeza, ndipo nthawi zonse samakhala mwamtendere. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti bwenzi sindilo tanthauzo lalikulu m'moyo. Ngati ubwenzi udzakhala wolemetsa, ngati ubalewo umakhala umodzi, ngati mumvetsetsa kuti ndinu wokoma mtima, ndipo mnzanuyo amalola kuti akhale bwenzi - kuthetsa mayesero onse a mnzanuyo kuti alowe mu moyo wanu. Aliyense wa ife ali ndi ufulu wokondwa, ziribe kanthu momwe izo siziyimirire. Eya, nthawi zina zimachitika kuti moyo umabala mabwenzi apamtima, koma umaperekanso atsopano, omwe sachita manyazi kunena kuti zenizeni.