Tangoganizani kuti mtsikana Katya adawoneka chinthu chosangalatsa - munthu. Anakumana pa intaneti, ndipo pamphuno ndi tsiku loyamba kuyembekezera. Kodi Katerina ayenera kuchita chiyani kuti asangalatse mnyamata? Gulu la Allwomen linafunsa anthu oposa 100 a ntchito zosiyanasiyana pakati pa zaka zapakati pa 20 ndi 55 ndipo adapeza momwe angakopererere chidwi ndikupangitsa chidwi chenicheni kuchokera kumisonkhano yoyamba ya msonkhano. Kodi atsikana amafunika bwanji kuti azikhala osiyana kwambiri? Ife tikugawana kuvomereza koyera kwambiri kwa amuna!
Mmene mungakonde mnyamata wazaka 20-25
Ivan, wazaka 20, wophunzira Amakopa msungwana wamanyazi, wodekha. Ndikukulangizani kuti mukhale nokha, osati kusewera munthu wina. Kuchulukanso kochepa: kokha kuti ugogomeze maso, penyani pa milomo. Misomali yapamwamba ndi nsovu zansalu, zokopa pensulo - awa samamvetsa. Sitiyenera kudalira makolo 100%. Khalani ndi zokondweretsa zokondweretsa, ndipo musati muzengereza mfundo zosayima ndikubwezeretsanso mawu omveka pakhoma. Popanda kunyenga ndi zonyansa. Popanda matenda a "princess". Wosamala.
Vasily, wazaka 22, wazamalonda wachinyamata ndimayamikira atsikana okonda zolinga zawo. Ndimakondwera ndi mphamvu komanso yachikazi mu botolo limodzi. Ndi msungwana wa filosofi ya mkati, okhoza kulimbikitsa ndi kumuthandiza mwamuna. Odwala, ophunzitsidwa, olenga. Amadzipangira yekha ngati munthu ndipo amakhala wotanganidwa ndi bizinesi yake.
Cyril, wazaka 22, woweruza milandu Mtsikana aliyense ali wabwino mwa njira yake, koma kwa ine malingaliro, kuthekera kwakulankhulana, kusangalala-poyamba. Ndiye ndimamvetsera kalembedwe, mgwirizano ndi chikhalidwe cha fano. Ndimakonda kukongola kwachilengedwe ndi kuchepa kwapangidwe - kupanga mafiriya, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala odzola pakamwa. Kuonjezerapo, mkazi ayenera kumvetsetsa zofooka zake ndi mphamvu zake, asonyeze zotsirizazo. M'moyo wa banja, khalani okonzeka kuthetsa mikangano, kukhala katswiri wamaganizo komanso kumuthandiza. Musadalire mokwanira pazochuma za anthu, muzigwira ntchito nokha.
Anton, wa zaka 22, IZI sindimakonda anthu wamba. Choyamba, ndimayamikira kuthandizira kukambirana kosakhala kochepa. Osati kokha kuti ayankhe mafunso, komanso kuti asonyeze zoyesayesa pakuyankhulana. Ndimakonda magetsi openga m'maso mwanga ndikumwetulira. Pezani umunthu wosangalatsa, wodabwitsa.
Andrew, wazaka 23, wophunzitsa thupi labwino Mchifundo , moona mtima - zifukwa zofunika. Magnet amakopa atsikana ophunzira kwambiri. Ziyenera kukhala ndi zooneka bwino komanso mfundo za moyo. Kuwukitsa munthu, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo akhale wosiyana naye. Ndimasangalala ndi dona ali ndi zokondweretsa komanso zopambana zake. Maonekedwe - Sindinena zovuta, koma ndimakonda kukongola kwamakono. Kupanga motsutsana mitundu ya Amazon ndi matani a tonalki pa nkhope tsiku ndi tsiku. Zosangalatsa, zachibadwa, zokondweretsa umunthu - inde, msungwana wotere amamukumbatira!
Alexander, wazaka 24, wabizinesi Amakopeka atsikana mmalo mwa zokambirana zosangalatsa ndi maganizo okhazikika pa moyo. Chofunika kwambiri pa wosankhidwa wanga ndikuti sangatseke pa foni tsiku loyamba. Ndipo tepi ya "Instagram" inali ndi zithunzi zochepa za "momwe ndakhala tsiku losangalatsa". Maonekedwe abwino ndi fungo ndi zofunika.
Wachiroma, wa zaka 24, wophika msasa Nthawi yomweyo pamsonkhano woyamba ndikuyang'anitsitsa tsitsi lokongola bwino, maonekedwe achilengedwe, zopanga zachilengedwe. Ndine wokonzeka kukongola kwa chilengedwe. Kokani atsikana otseguka, koma ndi chithunzi. Amadziwa kuseka ndipo ndi wokoma mtima. Sindimakonda zidole zomwe zimasewera poyera. Amakonda mabuku akale ndi masewera. Kukula mwauzimu.
Vladimir, wa zaka 25, woyenda panyanja Akukoka akazi, okonzeka bwino, atsikana okongola omwe ali ndi chithumwa chamkati. Osauka, okondweretsa komanso okhulupirira nkhondo.
Zimene atsikana amakonda amuna kuyambira zaka 26 mpaka 35
Vlad, wa zaka 26, wofuula nsapato Anthu osauka ali ndi zokonda zosiyana, kuchokera kumtunda kupita kumtunda. Mwini, ine ndine wa mitundu imeneyo imene imasankha "golidi" amatanthawuza. "Mkazi wovulazidwa" akuyandikira kwa ine, yemwe si wamanyazi wa anthu. Makhalidwe ndi maubwenzi sawoneka anthu pafupi, akutsogoleredwa ndi dziko "ine ndekha ndi iye." Uyu ndi mtsikana wokoma mtima, womvetsetsa komanso wokondweretsedwa. Mitsempha ndi mapuloteni sizosangalatsa kwa ine.
Dmitry, zaka 26, IT Ndikuganiza kuti palibe njira yadziko lonse kapena yamatsenga yosangalatsa munthu - aliyense payekha :) Ndine wothandizira mfundo yakuti chirichonse chimachokera pamalingaliro ndi zosowa. Mwachidziwitso, mwachibadwa, mosasamala kanthu za makhalidwe abwino kapena oipa, maonekedwe kapena makhalidwe omwe ali nawo. Choncho, chinsinsi ndicho kukhala "wekha", kuti mutsegule ndi mtima wonse. Ndipo ndithudi, mtsikana wa erudite.
Denis, 28, miyambo Yoyamba, ndithudi, maonekedwe. Mtsikana wokonzekera bwino mwa munthu aliyense amachititsa chifundo. Kuchokera kumphindi yoyamba yolankhulirana kumakhala koyera - kaya muli ndi mfundo zothandizira kapena zokambirana sizigwirizana. Amamvera kwambiri amayi omwe ali ndi chidwi chosafunika: amakonda masewera, amamvetsa magalimoto. Zimadabwitsa, pali chilakolako chophunzira munthu pafupi. Kuti ndiyanjanenso, ndingayambe kuchokera kumalingaliro ambiri pa ubwenzi, kugonana, bizinesi. Miyezo ya moyo iyenera kukhala ngati yanga. Koma mulimonsemo, musatsanzire mnyamata! Musadzipange nokha munthu wosiyana pamisonkhano yanu yoyamba. Pambuyo pake, izo zimawululidwa mosavuta, ndiyeno chilakolako chomuyitana mtsikana kwa tsiku lachiwiri sichitha.
Ivan, zaka 30, wojambula zithunzi Ndati mwachidule: mkazi ayenera kufuna ana, koma osati kuti apange ukwati patsogolo. Khalani anzeru, owona mtima, kuti asakhudzidwe ndi ena, poyamba, abwenzi. Wokongola popanda zopanga, wamng'ono kuposa amuna kwa zaka 6-10. Lankhulani pa nkhaniyo, musamufanizire mnyamatayo ndi abwenzi ake ndi akale. Kuti athe kukhululukira zolakwa za osankhidwa - pamlingo woyenera.
Sergei, wazaka 32, wogulitsa bizinesi Sindidzakondwera ndi mtsikana yemwe akulimbana kwambiri ndi vuto lake ndi ine. Mkazi wodziimira yekha komanso wodziimira sachititsanso chidwi chilichonse. Khalidweli likuyang'anitsitsa bwino pazinthu zing'onozing'ono: mpando mwiniwake umapita ku gome, pamene mlimi akuima pafupi ndi icho, kapena woyamba alowa m'chipindamo. Amavala malaya ake. Zimatayika ngati munthu atapereka dzanja lake kukwera kapena kuwoloka. Pakukambirana, akutsindika za kudziimira kwake. Mawu osasunthika "munthu lero ndi, koma mawa sali, kotero mumasowa zinthu zonse nokha."
Denis, wazaka 35, mwini wa bizinesi yayikulu Tiyeni tisakhale wochenjera - kwa munthu, choyamba, deta yathu ndi yofunikira. Ngati mkazi sakopeka, njira zomwe zingasokoneze ndi chidwi ndi mnyamatayo basi. Kenaka kumabwera malingaliro okhwima komanso kuthekera kukambirana. Atsikana opusa omwe ali ndi nkhope yokongola ndi yabwino zokha zosangalatsa zogona. Ndikulangiza kuti amayi amasiku ano akule bwino.
Momwe mungakonde munthu wopitirira zaka 55
Vladimir, wazaka 55, mwiniwake wa masitolo ambiri. Maonekedwe okonzeka bwino ndi malingaliro ofulumira - ndizo zomwe zimapindulitsa akazi a msinkhu uliwonse. Mphamvu zolimbana ndi zokambiranazo, konzani mutuwo. Kwa munthu yemwe amakukoka kwa iwe, uyenera kukhala "wofanana." Kodi mumapita tsiku loyamba? Phunzirani zofuna zake ndipo werengani zolemba zingapo pa mutuwo. Ngati phokoso losautsa likubwera, mwadzidzidzi mumati "Ndimawerenga tsiku lina ... kodi mukuganiza bwanji za nthawiyi?" Izi zidzasinthira chidwi mtsikanayo. Ndipo luso lalikulu la mkazi ndikulongosola za chiwerengerocho. Valani mateti ndi mipendero, madiresi. Zovala zoyera. Kwa chithunzicho chinakondweretsa diso ndipo chinandipangitsa ine kutembenuka. Koma musati musokoneze ndi "bl * dskim" - skirt kumene wansembe amawonekeratu, kudulidwa kwa nkhono kumapangitsa chikhumbo chimodzi chokha - kukokera kugona. Ndipo kukopa anthu wamba mu chiyeretso chanu ndi makhalidwe anu adzakhala ntchito yosatheka. Ndipo musanakhale nawo pamisonkhano yoyamba musaike ntchitoyo pamalo oyamba. Musadzimangire nokha bizinesi yamalonda. Mwamunayo amadziwa kuti ndinu wofooka. Ndibwino ngati muli odziimira nokha. Koma musati muzipanga chipembedzocho. Banja ndi nyumba kwa inu ndi zofanana zomwezo.
Kufotokozera mwachidule: momwe mungakonde mnyamata kapena mwamuna
Ngakhale pali zaka zambirimbiri za amuna omwe anafunsidwa ndi ntchito zosiyanasiyana, chikhalidwe cholimba cha amai pa:
- Makhalidwe athunthu, omwe sali okha pa nkhani imodzi kapena ziwiri zokambirana
- Ukazi ndi maonekedwe abwino
- Kukongola kwachilengedwe - zofunikira pamoyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku
- Khalidwe lenileni ndilochepetsetsa komanso kusasinthasintha
- Musaike ntchito patsogolo
- Wokoma mtima, woona mtima ndi wosinthasintha
- Musayese kuti muphunzitsenso munthu ndi kutenga udindo wa mutu mu ubale / banja
Kotero, atsikana, ife timayesa zopindulitsa zathu ndi zamwano, tiphunzire munthuyo ndi kudzaza mndandandawo. Ndiye kalonga wosirira adzasanduka munthu wapafupi kwambiri ndi wokondedwa! :)