Mmene mungapezere mphamvu kuti mulekanitse chidakwa

Tili otsimikiza kuti ngati munthu akonda, ndiye kuti adzatha kuthana ndi zopinga zilizonse zomwe zikuyimira. Koma, mwatsoka, moyo umakhala ndi malamulo ake okha. Ndipo tsopano pakubwera nthawi imene mkazi akufunsanso kuti: "Mmene mungapezere mphamvu kuti muthetse chiledzere?"

Nthawi yoyamba muli ndi zonse zabwino. Koma pamabwera mfundo pamene mwazindikira kuti mwamuna waledzera kwambiri. Mzimayi akufulumira kuti apulumutse banja lake. Kuchita chidwi kumapangidwira kubwezeretsa munthu amene kale anali wokondedwa. Ngati mkazi ali wolimba komanso wodzidalira, sakayikira kuti ali ndi mphamvu zokwanira kuti athetse vutoli. Iye ali ndi mutu amapereka yekha kuti apindule ndi mwamuna wake - nthawi zonse amasamala, kuyesera kukakamiza khalidwe lake kuti amutsogolere ku njira yolondola. Pamapeto pake, amabwera kudziko la mandimu. Chifukwa mphamvu yogwira ntchito ndi yofanana ndi mphamvu yotsutsa, zonse zimakhala zoipira. Mkazi wodekha ndi wodekha adzapirira masautso onse, akudziimba mlandu pa chirichonse, ndipo chifukwa cha izi osadandaula mwamuna wake. Koma aliyense, ngakhale chipiriro cha Angelo, akufika pamapeto. Mukuyamba kuzindikira kuti simungabwererenso zakale, koma mungapeze kuti mphamvu yothetsera chisokonezo?

Mphamvu ili mwa inu. Yesetsani kudzimvetsa bwino, mumalingaliro anu kwa munthu amene kale anali pafupi. Kusuta mowa ndi matenda. Kwa anthu omwe ali ndi uchidakwa, chidziwitso chimasiyana ndi munthu wathanzi. Iye amakhala wodzikonda kwambiri, wopanda nzeru, nthawi zonse amatsutsana ndi ena. Koma, pambuyo pa zonse mu vuto - mkazi, poyamba samvetsa, zomwe zimachitika, amayamba kudera nkhawa mwamuna wake ngati mwana wodwalayo. Chibadwa cha amayi chomwe chimakhala mwaife aliyense payekha, sichilola kuti tisiyane ndi cholengedwa cha njala. Pali chiyembekezo kuti akadakali kukonza, adzachira.

Zimatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji? Mwezi? Chaka? Kumvetsetsa, pamene munthu mwiniwake sazindikira kuti ndi chidakwa ndipo safuna kusiya - palibe chomwe chidzabwere. Pafupi ndi inu ndi munthu wamkulu, osati mwana wodwala. Lekani kuwononga mphamvu zanu zamtengo wapatali pa iye! Sikophweka kupeza mphamvu yakulekanitsa ndi chidakwa. Nthawi zambiri, zolemetsa za moyo zaka zambiri. Kuwononga nthawi ndi khama.

Yang'anani pozungulira. Kodi mungatayike ngati mutasintha kwambiri moyo wanu? Pali mwayi wochuluka kwambiri ndipo osadziwika, ngakhale ang'onoang'ono, akulakalaka patsogolo! Mukawatsogolera magulu anu kumalo ena, moyo udzawala ndi mitundu yatsopano.

Chizolowezi chovutika ndi kudzipereka ndizo zikuluzikulu ziwiri zomwe zimakulepheretsani kuswa ndi zakale. Oledzera ali ngati maimpires. Inu nokha simudzazindikira m'mene mungaperekere mphamvu zanu kwa munthu uyu. Kubwerera?

Yang'anani pagalasi. Dzikumbutseni nokha musanakwatirane. Inu mukuganiza kuti chirichonse chatayika, ndichedwa kwambiri kuti muyambe kachiwiri, moyo wadutsa. Zonsezi ndi ziweruzo zolakwika. Pumirani mwathunthu, ganizirani zomwe mukufuna kwambiri padziko lapansi, mudzakhala otsimikiza - mphamvu yokwanira. Adzangotenga nthawi pang'ono.

Osudzulana ndi chidakwa kapena kunyamula katunduwu pokhapokha, podzipangira yekha. Koma ngati mutasankha kupeza mphamvu ndi kufalitsa chisudzulo - musayime. Omwa mowa amamva ngati mwana wakhumudwitsidwa. Adzayesera kukuletsani kuti musudzulane. Boma lanu ndikumupatsa mwayi wina kapena kukhala yekha. Koma, monga lamulo, pokhala patatha kanthawi popanda kumwa mowa, zonse zimayambiranso, posachedwa. Munthuyu amadziwa zofooka zanu, amadziwa momwe mungasinthire kupeĊµa kukhala nokha. Apo ayi, ndi ndani yemwe angakhale wowonerera masewero ake, amene adzamuchitira chifundo, kusamalira thanzi? Pokhapokha nthawi zina mudzavutika kwambiri ndipo zimakhala zovuta kubwerera pambuyo pake. Chifundo, potsirizira, ndi ine, ndi ana.

Kumbukirani - ndiwe mbuye wa moyo wanu, ndipo kokha pa inu zimadalira zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito! Pezani makhalidwe ndi thupi, yang'anani pozungulira, pumani mphepo yatsopano ya kusintha popanda mpweya wambiri. Dziike wekha mu dongosolo, phunzirani kudzikonda nokha. Ndizosangalatsa kuti muzisamalira nokha. Samalani ana. Ndi mwamuna wake, mowa, mwina simunazindikire ngakhale anawo? Zidzatenga nthawi, ndipo simungakumbukire kuti akakhala moyo mosiyana. Musangomugwira choipa ndikumupweteka. Izi zimatengeranso mphamvu zambiri. Musamvetsere miseche kuti mkazi ndiye akudzudzula machimo a mwamuna wake. Inu mulibe cholakwa chirichonse! Zindikirani! Khalani ndi moyo, sangalalani ndi moyo, ndipo musapange zolakwa zambiri.