Moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku mwa akazi umadzazidwa ndi chimwemwe ndi maganizo, ndipo nthawi zambiri sangathe kukhala ndi mphepo yamantha. Ndi omwe angakunene, kambiranani mavuto awo, bwanji osati ndi abwenzi awo abwino. Nthawi zina kulankhula pa foni sikokwanira, chilakolako cholankhulana momasuka ndi anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo omwe ali pafupi ndi khofi kapena tiyi. Pankhaniyi, amakumana pa phwando la bachelorette - chochitika chomwe amai okha amasonkhana.
Kusula pang'ono.
Mkazi wokwatirana, ayenera kuti ayenera kuyamba kumenyana ndi mwamuna wake chifukwa cha ufulu wake. Chifukwa sikuti mwamuna kapena mkazi aliyense amavomereza kuti mkazi wake apite ku phwando la nkhuku. Inde, mwamuna amakhulupirira mkazi wake, koma nthawi yomweyo amatsimikiza mtima kuti mkazi wake padziko lapansi alibe chofunika kuposa iye mwini. Choncho, akhoza kuganiza kuti pamene mkazi wake akakumana ndi abwenzi ake, amakambirana ndi mwamuna wake. Ndicho chifukwa chake mkazi ayenera kuumirira, koma mwachikondi amamukonda wokondedwa wake poyamba, kuti adagwirizanitsa moyo wake ndi iye, osati kuti amugweretse poyera. Chachiwiri, mzimayi ayenera kukumbutsa mwamuna wake kuti popereka malumbiro a chikondi ndi chikondi, sanachotse ubwenzi wawo ndi abwenzi ake. Ndipo pambuyo pa mkazi wonse amalola mwamunayo ndi abwenzi ku masewera kapena kusodza.
Ndipotu, si amuna onse omwe ali eni eni. Kuwongolera magawo onse a mkazi wake osamusiya kuti apite kulikonse. Ngati phwando la nkhuku ndi mwambo wakale wa mkazi, ndibwino kusankha masiku enieni ndikuchenjeza mwamuna wake kuti asakhalepo kale.
Timakonzekera bwino.
Kodi zingakhale bwino bwanji kukonza phwando la bachelorette? Pali njira zambiri: kuchokera ku cafe kupita ku dacha kapena nyumba. Pa phwando la atsikana simukuyenera kuganizira za menyu - apa njira yoyamba ndi yabwino kwambiri. Ndipo n'zotheka kuti anzanu ena ali ndi ndalama zabwino kwambiri. Koma ngati kuli koyenera kukakamiza bwenzi lanu kuti lichite nawo chikondi kapena choipa kwambiri kuti mutenge ndalama, zomwe zinasinthidwa kuti zikhale mvula. Komanso, alendo salola kuti msonkhano ukhale wapamtima wabwino. Njira, kukonza phwando la bachelorette kwa wina aliyense kunyumba. Koma kumbukirani kuti pa phwando la nkhuku sipangakhale nthumwi zogonana kwambiri kapena phwando la nkhuku lidzawonongeka.
Ndi bwino kusonkhana ndi bwenzi limodzi kapena kuponya ndalama ndi kugula matikiti kwa amuna, pa masewera ena. Dacha ndi oyenerera kuchitika, komabe n'koyenera kuti zikhale bwino, chifukwa amayi safuna kunyamula madzi kuchokera pachitsime ndikudula nkhuni. Komabe n'zotheka kuti wina sangathe kukhala usiku, choncho nkofunika kuti atsikana omwe alibe magalimoto akhoza kubwerera kwawo.
Timagawira ntchito zonse.
Ngati mukufuna kusonkhana pamodzi ndi mnzanu, muyenera kukambirana nkhani zonse za bungwe pasadakhale. Mwachitsanzo, sankhani yemwe adzayang'anire chakudya ndi zakumwa. Ena adzaphika, ena amasakaniza osamwa mowa kapena kugula vinyo. Ngati n'kotheka, mbale ziyenera kukhala zophweka, simukusowa nthawi yochuluka, koma zimatha kusiyana pakusintha, chifukwa mungathe kudzipangira nokha.
Zingakhale bwino kuphika pakhomo, kuti tisamawononge nthawi yochulukirapo, ndipo titha kugwiritsa ntchito kuyankhulana. Pambuyo pa nkhuku, woyang'anira nyumbayo akukuuzani zomwe muyenera kuchita ndi inu. Mwinamwake wina ali ndi mphete zokongola za mapepala apamwamba kapena magalasi. Zidzakhala zopanda phindu ngati mutasiya zakudya zochepa kwa anthu a m'banja la alendo, omwe sangakhale pa phwando la nkhuku. Aloleni iwonso akhale abwino.
Kodi aliyense adzakhudzidwa ndi chiyani?
Kodi ndiyenera kunena chiyani, koma zomwe siziri pa phwando la nkhuku? Funso limeneli lingamawoneke zachilendo, chifukwa amayi amasonkhanitsanso mbali yochepa kuti akambirane za chirichonse. Koma m'moyo wa mkazi aliyense pali mitu yawo yodwala, ndipo ndibwino kuti enawo asawakhudze. Mwachitsanzo, kungakhale koipa kulankhula za chisangalalo cha amayi anu, ndi mnzanu amene sanakhale ndi pakati kwa zaka zingapo.
Ngati si abwenzi anu onse angadzitamande, zidzakhala zoipa kuti muzinena za mafilimu a Federico Fellini kapena maganizo a Jean-Paul Sartre. Choncho, muyenera kusankha nkhani zosaloŵerera pazokambirana zomwe zidzakhudza abwenzi anu onse.
Good mwayi kwa bachelorette phwando!