Kodi ndichite chiyani kuti ndibwezeretse wokondedwa wanga?

Bwanji ngati ubale umene unali wamtengo wapatali kwa iwe ndi misewuyo unatha? Momwe mungapulumuke kugawa ndi wokondedwa wanu, momwe mungabwerere ku moyo wathunthu. Apanso, sangalala ndi dzuwa, kuimba mbalame, maluwa ndi chimwemwe chokha. Ngati wokondedwa wakuponya, nthawi zonse zimapweteka, koma moyo sumatha pamenepo. Ngati mutayesetsa, mukhoza kubwezeretsa wokondedwayo. Mutha kuona maso ake, ndikupsompsona milomo yake, kukumbatirani mwachikondi ndi kugona pafupi naye.

Kotero, gawo loyamba la magawano lapita. Simukudzidzimutsanso ndi misonzi yotentha kuchokera ku mtundu wina wa chithunzi chake, simumamatira pamalo pomwe mudali palimodzi, mumasiya kumuneneza pazinthu zonse, kufunafuna misonkhano, kudzudzula, kunyoza. Gawo loyamba lapita. Kulimbitsa zotsatira ndizoyenera kuchita zinthu zingapo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuyang'ana pazochitika zonse njira yatsopano ndi kuona zomwe mukupindula nazo. Yang'anani kawirikawiri pa chithunzi chanu chogwirizana, yang'anani kudzera mu album kuchokera ku tchuthi lanu. Lolani mutu wanu kachiwiri padzakhala macheza okondweretsa momwe munasangalalira. Kumbukirani chimwemwe ndi kukhumba, chikhumbo chokumana ndi wokondedwa wanu. Kotero, pofuna kubwereranso munthu wokondedwa wanu, izi zidzakuthandizani kwambiri. Kusinkhasinkha zokhumba ndi njira yamphamvu yobweretsera munthu. Maganizo ndi chinthu. Ngati inu nthawizonse mumakuyimirani inu palimodzi, kuti iye abwereranso, ndiye izo zidzakhala chomwecho. Komabe, musataye khama lanu lonse pa mwamuna mmodzi. Yang'anani pozungulira, mwinamwake mmodzi wa anzanu akale omwe mwalidziwa kale akhala akulota kuti azipita nanu pa tsiku? Mkazi akauzidwa kuti amuthandize, mumusamalire, zimakhudza moyo wabwino, maganizo. Kuwonjezera kudzidalira. Ichi ndi sitepe yoyamba kubwereranso munthu wokondedwa wanu.

Poyesera kubwezeretsa munthu wamaloto ake , ndi bwino kulipira mwapadera maonekedwe ake. Mwina chifukwa chake anachoka ndiye kuti munanyalanyaza? Pitani ku salon, lembani ku malo olimbitsa thupi. Kwa inu, pakalipano ndi nthawi yokwanira kuti mudzipangire nokha kukongola kwamakono. Palibe amene angakupusitseni ndi zinthu zokoma usiku, amapereka mowa ndi zovuta zonse, zomwe zimapangidwa ndi mapaundi owonjezera. Kenaka yambani kukambirana ndi anzanu omwe simunakumane nawo kwa nthawi yaitali, chifukwa nthawi yonse yopuma idatha palimodzi ndi mwamuna. Pangani moyo wanu kukhala wosangalatsa ndi wolemera. Ndiye simudzakhala ndi nthawi yowona, maganizo olakwika. Fufuzani, yesani kupeza chifukwa chimene mwamuna wanu anakusiyani. Mwinamwake mwakhala wodzikonda kwambiri, osakhalanso mkazi wabwino wa nyumba ndipo nyumba yanu ili muwonongeka kwathunthu? Mwinamwake simungathe kuphika? Kenaka, lembani zophika maphunziro kapena sitima kunyumba kwa achibale kapena abwenzi. Mwinamwake iye anali wotopetsa ndi iwe? Ndiye yambani kuwerenga, khalani ndi chidwi ndi dziko ndi zomwe zikuchitika pozungulira inu. Izi ndi zomwe mungachite kuti mupeze wokondedwa wanu.

Ndikofunika kuti musangopeza kulakwitsa kwanu, komanso kuti musinthe. Musati mubwererenso mtsogolo, ziribe kanthu ndi munthu uyu kapena ndi zina, koma pamutu womwewo, simudzakhalanso. Ndicho chimene simuyenera kuchita ngati mukufuna kubwereranso munthu wokondedwa wanu. Khalani mkazi wosavuta, wosewera ndi waulendo, lolani njira ya kukumbidwa kwa mwamuna ikuwone. Ndizosangalatsa pamene sakuwoneka ngati malo opanda kanthu, koma ngati Mkazi. Phunzirani kukhala! Pogwiritsa ntchito dziko lanu lamkati, musaiwale za maonekedwe anu. Nthawi zonse muzichita masewera, penyani nokha, pitani ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndipo mu mwezi simungadziwe nokha. Kukhala wokonzekera bwino ndi mkazi wokongola ndi wabwino kwambiri. Izi zimapangitsanso chidaliro, mphamvu ndi chithumwa. Muyenera kuyang'ana bwino nthawi zonse! Ngakhale mutangopita ku sitolo! Mukhoza kuyendetsa mwangozi mumsewu kapena mukakumana ndi bwenzi lake, amene angamuuze zomwe mumakhala. Kusangalala, kumwetulira, zovala zabwino, mawonekedwe okongoletsedwa - ndipo mwamuna wako akufuna kukuitanirani, kukomana kachiwiri ndikukhala ndi inu.

Zomwe mungachite ngati wokondedwa wanu akuponyera inu - osadandaula ndikudziwa kuti pa nthawi iliyonse mungathe kukonza chirichonse, kuchotsani zolakwitsa zanu, ndi kukhala naye kachiwiri. Akamamuuza momwe mumayang'anitsitsa, adzakhala ndi lingaliro la "amene ndataya." Choncho, palibe vuto lililonse. Zonse ziri mu mphamvu yanu!