Momwe moyo ungapezere chimwemwe?

Mwinamwake mwazindikira kuti ngati muli ndi maganizo abwino, ndiye kuti zonse zimakhala zophweka komanso zophweka, zonse zimayenda bwino. Ndipo pamene maganizo akusintha, zikuwoneka ngati dziko lonse likutsutsana nanu ndipo muyenera kudandaula zaka zomwe mukudutsa. Koma munthu aliyense padziko lapansi akufuna kukhala wosangalala komanso sakufuna kuvutika. Khalani okondwa, chifukwa mafungulo achimwemwe ali m'manja mwathu. Mukamasangalala, mumamwetulira, koma tiyeni tigwiritse ntchito mfundoyi muzonse, tidzamwetulira pamene zili bwino, ndipo ngati zoipa. Ndiye thupi lanu lidzasintha ndikukwaniritsa dongosololi, lidzasunga maphunzirowo. Tiyeni tigwiritse ntchito mfundo imeneyi m'zonse. Momwe moyo ungapezere chimwemwe?

Mukadzuka mmawa, kumwetulira. Pa nthawi yomweyi, nenani kuti lero chinthu chodabwitsa chidzachitika. Kenaka pitani pagalasi ndi kumwetulira kachiwiri, ngakhale ngati galasi likutsutsana ndi muyezo wokongola, mumati ndinu wokongola kwambiri. Ndisavuta kukhala wovutika maganizo komanso wokhumudwa kusiyana ndi kupeza chimwemwe. Koma kusankha kwa chisangalalo kudzakulolani kunena kuti miniti iliyonse m'mbuyomu inali yopanda pake. Sungani pomwe mukusinkhasinkha. Zikondweretseni nokha ndi tsiku latsopano ndikudziwitseni kuti mudzaligwiritsa ntchito phindu.

Pewani anthu osakondwa omwe nthawizonse amalira chifukwa cha gawo lalikulu. Sitikukhudzidwa ndi zotsatira zolakwika za nkhanizi.

Phunzirani kuwona kuzungulira kwanu ndi kukongola. Musasiye kuyamikira ndi kudabwa.

Onetsani zokondweretsa zanu ndi ena, kusewera ndi ana anu, kukonzekera misonkhano ndi anzanu, tcherani chidwi ndi anthu achikulire, pangani zosangalatsa zanu kwa achibale anu ndi abwenzi anu. Ponseponse ndipo nthawizonse pangani chikhalidwe cha ubwenzi ndi kukoma mtima.

Onetsetsani kuti musakhumudwitse aliyense. Kukwanitsa kwake kulimbitsa chithandizo cha kuwerengera zamakono zamakono ndi zina zamakono. Onani mafilimu abwino ndi mafilimu.

Yesetsani kukhala moyo lero, kusangalala ndi mphindi iliyonse, ndi mavuto a padziko lonse, pamene mapeto a dziko lapansi adzakhalapo, kaya padzakhalanso zosasintha, kaya padzakhala madzi okwanira padziko lapansi kwa nthawi yaitali, muzisiya kwa ena.

Onetsetsani chizoloŵezi cha tsiku ndi tsiku ndi chizoloŵezi mwakumachezera zochitika zosangalatsa, zosangalatsa zochititsa chidwi, kuyenda mofulumira, kuyenda.

Yesetsani yoga. Ndiye kuchokera ku makalasi oyambirira mudzamva momwe mumadzimverera nokha mwamtendere, ndibwino kuti dzikoli likukuyenderani bwino.

Panthawi zovuta, yesetsani kudzikumbutsa kuti kuvutika maganizo ndi tchimo lalikulu, ndipo zilizonse zomwe zimachitika zimakhala bwino.

Fufuzani chimwemwe tsiku lililonse, musazengereze tsogolo lanu. Moyo wa munthu ulipo pakalipano, chifukwa zakale zapita kale, ndipo tsogolo silinabwere. Pa mphindi iliyonse ya moyo, dzimvere nokha. Mukamamwetsa khofi, sungani maganizo anu ndikukhala mwamtendere ndi chete mkati, muzisangalala ndi fungo labwino, ngakhale phokoso likutuluka. Ndiyeno kuchokera kumtunda mkati kumverera kwa chimwemwe ndi chimwemwe kudzatsanulidwa. Ngakhale anthu atakupeza iwe wamisala, kumwetulira pakati pa anthu osasangalatsa. Mwa ichi mudzawonetsera nokha.

Ngati mukufuna kuti mukhale ndi maganizo abwino, muzikumbukira kachiwiri madzulo. Pezani maganizo pa njira yolondola, monga ola la ola. Yesani kangapo, choncho chizoloŵezichi chimapangidwa. N'chiyani chingakhale bwino kuposa chizolowezi chokhala ndi maganizo abwino?