Mwanjira zambiri, zosankha zomwe timatenga zimakhudzidwa ndi zochitika za zaka. Panthawi ya moyo wake, munthu amadutsa muzigawo zingapo zomwe zimagwirizana ndi kukula, kukhala ndikulitsa umunthu. Achinyamata ali ndi chizoloŵezi chochita zinthu mopupuluma, koma zimakhala zosavuta kusintha mogwirizana ndi kusintha kulikonse. Anthu okhwima sakhala ndi zikhumbo zofuna kusintha, makamaka ngati pali zifukwa. Koma m'zaka zambiri, munthu amapanga malo otonthoza, omwe amaphatikizapo zizoloŵezi zake, zikhulupiliro, mfundo, njira ya moyo, njira yolankhulana ndi lingaliro la iye mwini ndi dziko lapansi. Wakulirapo munthu, makamaka pamene akutsutsana ndi dziko lake komanso kusintha kulikonse kwa moyo kumakhala koopsa.
Patapita nthawi, njira iliyonse yomwe tikukhalamo, imatha kutheka ngati makonzedwe ake sali okwanira. Timabwerera ku vuto lomwelo - kuthamanga agologolo mu gudumu. Poyesa kusintha pang'ono pa moyo wake, munthu samamva bwino, akuganiza kuti akuthamanga mpikisano, koma akuopa chifukwa chake akubwerera ku moyo wake wonse. Choncho, ambiri amangolakalaka kusiya kusuta fodya, kuyamba kugwira ntchito pa doko, kupanga ntchito yopambana, ndi Lolemba, yomwe imalembedwa pa kalendala ngati tsiku loyamba la moyo watsopano, imagwiritsidwanso ntchito mwachisawawa.
Kuti muyambe kuchita, osati kuti mulole kuchita kanthu, simukusowa zambiri momwe zikuwonekera.
-Dalitsani zomwe mukufuna.
Mwachitsanzo, cholinga chanu ndi ntchito yatsopano. Kuti muyambe kuchita chinachake kuti mupeze icho, mukufunikira zosowa zochepa. Fotokozani nokha, ndi ubwino wotani umene mukuwona pa kusintha kwa ntchito, kodi kusintha kumeneku kubweretsa chiyani, chifukwa chiyani mukusowa.
- Dziwani mavuto omwe angathe.
Zolepheretsa kukhala okonzeka pasadakhale, zimathandiza kupeŵa mantha osafunikira. Mwachitsanzo, simukudziwa momwe mungayang'anire ntchito yatsopano kapena simungathetse mgwirizano wa ntchito pakali pano. Izi ndizovuta, koma zimatha kusintha ndipo sizili zoyenera kuti musiye maloto anu.
-Tengani mchira.
Musanafulumire kukwera kwa mphepo yamkuntho ndi mutu wanu, tengani zinthu zanu mwadongosolo. Mwina kusintha kwanu kudzakhudza okondedwa anu, anzanu ndi anzanu. Zinthu zonse zofunika kuntchito, zokambirana ndi banja lanu, konzekerani moyo watsopano.
-Sabata ndi kuyamba kwa sabata yogwira ntchito.
Koma mulimonsemo palibe moyo watsopano. Mu kalendala yanu, malemba onse a mtsogolo sayenera kukhala apadera. Ndiye, mukakonzekera kusintha, zidzachitika "pano ndi pano," ngati simusiya chizoloŵezi chokhazikitsira zosankha zofunika pakapita nthawi, palibe chomwe chingasinthe.
- Musawope mantha anu.
Lolani nokha kuti mumve zomwe mukumverera, musati muteteze maganizo aliwonse mwa inu nokha. Kuyambitsa bizinesi yatsopano, nthawi zonse timamva zosiyana, nthawi zambiri zimatsutsana. Zingakhale zosasamala ndi zosangalatsa, kukayikira ndi kutsimikiza, mantha ndi chilakolako chogonjetsa mavuto alionse.
-Awona mantha m'maso mwanu.
Kuopa kusintha, kusadziŵika bwino kwa zochitika, kusowa mtendere ndi zowonjezereka zikuwopsa. Koma ichi si mantha omwe angalepheretse munthu wodzipereka kuchita. Yang'anani zam'tsogolo mwanu: Ndinayesedwa kusiya zonse monga momwe zilili ndikusiya mwayi wokhala wopanga mphoto yanu. Kodi muwona chithunzi chokondweretsa chimene mudzachiwona?