Gawo limodzi. Kukayikira.
Mukangomaliza, simukukhulupirirabe zomwe zinachitika, makamaka ngati woyambitsa pulogalamuyo sanali inuyo. Zikuwoneka kuti "ndondomeko" iyi si dotolo konse, ndipo osati ngakhale mfundo yofuula, koma funso chabe kapena ngakhale ellipsis. Inu mukuzindikira kuti dziko silinagwe, koma pali chinachake chimene chikusowa mmenemo: kununkhira, kuwala, kukumbatira pamaso pa kama. Koma chokhumudwitsa kwambiri ndi chakuti kukumbukira, kulingalira kwakukulu kwa kusowa kwa chinthu chofunikira kukupangitsa iwe kulira. Zoona, ngakhale misonzi sitingakhoze kuvulaza kwamuyaya, zimatenga masiku angapo kapena masabata, ndipo mumakhala bata. Momwemo, mukuganiza choncho.
Panthawi iyi, atsikana amatha kuyang'ana maenje a mafilimu omwe amawomba misozi, amawotcha mawonekedwe omwewo ndi "nyimbo yathu", akugwira maswiti ndi phiri. Ndiye pakubwera lingaliro loyang'ana ophatikiza paokha nokha ndipo pamakhala chikhumbo chofuna kusintha. Chifukwa ndi zochitika zimati kusintha sikuchitika mwachiwiri, koma mtima sumafuna kumvetsetsa. Kotero pamitu yathu pali zachidwi za tsitsi, ndi zovala zapamwamba zatsopano zomwe zimatha kungobvala kanyumba kanyumba. Ndiye ife timaganiza za kuti inu simungakhale nokha moyo wanu wonse. Ndiyeno timagwidwa ndi cholakwika china.
Gawo lachiwiri. Khoti lachitsulo.
Mwadzidzidzi kumbukirani kuti nthawi ina mumakonda mnzako, mnzanu, mnzanu wamba, ndipo mumayamba kuchita zofuna kuti mugonjetse mtima wa munthu watsopano. Ichi ndi chinthu chovuta kwambiri chomwe mungachite pa izi. Ndipotu, kawirikawiri akazi amakhala okonzeka kuyambitsa ubale watsopano, osagwirizana ndi akale, makamaka ngati kupatukana kumapweteka. Mwamuna aliyense amawoneka kuti ndi mpulumutsi yemwe adzasokoneza chisoni chake, kutonthoza, kukondana ndi iyemwini ndi kuthandiza kuiwala zodandaula zake. Ndipotu, zonse zimakhala zolakwika.
Pokhapokha, bwenzi lanu latsopano lingakhale munthu wabwino komanso wabwino, koma simudzawona zoyenera zake. Mudzafanizira nthawi zonse kuyerekeza ndi wanu wakale, ndipo kuyerekezera sikungakhale kovomerezeka ndi munthu watsopano. Inu mukukumbukirabe izo, fungo lina, liwu, zizolowezi, inu mumakondabebe, ndipo munthu wachirendo ndi wina basi. Pamapeto pake, mutangotaya moyo wa munthu amene adapatsa chiyembekezo, ndipo panthawi yomwe mukumva chisoni, muuzeni zinthu zambiri zoipa, zomwe mudzadandaula pambuyo pake. Choncho, musathamangire kufunafuna chikondi, pamene mtima wanu uli wotentha.
Gawo lachitatu. Kuyesera kupanga mtendere.
Ndiye inu mukuzindikira kuti inu simukusowa wina aliyense kupatula Iye. Koma iye samaitana, salemba, ndipo amamvetsera kuti akhale ndi nthawi yayikulu popanda inu. Panthawiyi, zikhoza kuwoneka kuti kunyada kuyenera kunyalanyazidwa chifukwa cha chimodzi - kuyitana kokha komwe kungapatse mwayi watsopano pa ubale wanu.
Ngakhale mutatchula, sizowona kuti adzasangalala. Mawu ake akhoza kukukhumudwitsani inu ndi kusayanjanitsika, kukwiya, kudziimba mlandu. Amuna sali wokonzeka kuwona omwe adachoka posachedwapa, makamaka ngati atasiya mwadzidzidzi. Iwo sapeza mpumulo wokha, koma amatsutsa chifukwa cha zochita zawo, ndipo kuyitana kwanu kumamukumbutsa nthawizonse za zomwe iye anachita molakwika.
Kukambirana kaŵirikaŵiri kumathera pa chinthu chabwino. Mukuyitanitsa kuti mukungofuna kudziwa momwe mungachitire kapena kutenga chinthu choiwalika. Ndiye mumapempha mafunso osokoneza bwereza, mumayesa kuphunzira chinachake ponena za moyo wake, ndiye mumamuimba mlandu ndikumufunira. Amatsitsa foni, amatsutsa chinachake, ndipo mumalira ndikudzipangira nokha kuti musabwererenso.
Ndipotu, nthawi yopuma nthawi zambiri imapita mofulumira kwambiri. Kuti muthamangitse ndondomekoyi, musapange zolakwa zanu, kotero muteteze mphamvu ndi mitsempha. Yesetsani kuchoka ku zochitikazo, kusintha moyo wamakhalidwe, kupeza zinthu zatsopano, koma musachedwe kupanga zolemba. Mukangomvetsa kuti mwasiya kufanizitsa onse ndi onse omwe muli nawo kale, kuti simukufuna kuitanitsa kapena kubwezera, mudzakonzekera chikondi chatsopano chimene chidzakumbukira chakale.