Nkhaniyi ilibe nthano za "nthano", mawu a "onse a mbuzi", "palibe chikondi" ndi nyimbo zina. Chowonadi chakuti mukuwerenga, tinasuntha ndi zovuta zambiri kuchokera pamilomo ya anthu mndandanda wa zizolowezi zosiyana ndi mafunso ovuta. Tsegulani chinsalu! M'zinthu zathu mudzawerenga za zochitika zenizeni: momwe kugonana kwakukulu kumagwiritsira ntchito amayi. Zoona zonyansa, zachinyengo ndi zofuna ...
Ngati mnyamata akukugwiritsani ntchito kugonana
Pali zitsanzo ziwiri za khalidwe la amuna, pamene atsikana amafuna kugonana komanso palibe china chilichonse.
Choyamba : kukonda pang'ono m'magulu oyambirira a chibwenzi, kufikira kugonana.
Chachiwiri : khalidwe lofananako panthawi yonse ya chibwenzi chanu. Ndipo anyamata samayesetsa kumuchitira mwachikondi msungwanayo, ifeyo timabwera ndi zifukwa zopanda pake kwa wokondedwa kuchokera ku "angayambe kusonyeza maganizo ake," "khalidwe lake ndilo." Zonsezi zimagwirizana ndi chikhalidwe cha khalidwe la amuna. Sungani mosamala mchitidwe wa mnyamata: si choncho?
- Iye samamuwuza mtsikanayo ku malo ake, abwenzi
- Onyalani pempholi kuti muwonekere palimodzi pamodzi: pitani ku cafe, kanema
- Ubale wanu wafupika kukhala ndege yopanda malire kwa wina kunyumba, chifukwa china chirichonse palibe nthawi, palibe ndalama, ndi zifukwa zoterezo. Akubwera kwa inu kokha pa nthawi yabwino kwa iye. Ngati mumacheza, koma mumamva zifukwa zopanda malire, ndinu chidole chogonana.
Malinga ndi mmodzi wa anyamata ofunsidwa, pali zosiyana ndi malamulo: "Ndikhoza kuyenda naye pogwiritsa ntchito, ndikupita ku bar ndi kusambira, koma sindikumusamala. Palibe malingaliro, palibe malingaliro. Inde, ndine bulu. Ine ndikungoganizira kokha mbali zakuthupi. Ngati mtsikana amayamba kunjenjemera kapena ayamba kukonda chikondi, ndimangomuuza zakukhosi kwake. " Ngati mwagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati "kupambana masewera"
Kawirikawiri pakati pa anyamata a zaka 18 mpaka 25 ali ndi lingaliro lakuti "Ndimamukonda: kukwaniritsa, kugona ndi kuponya." Wopwetekayo amasankha zosankha:
- Wokongola, koma cocky
- N'zosatheka
- Pathos hen
- The Queen's Syndrome
- Atangondiletsa
- Anthu onse
- Amene mukufuna chifukwa cha kuchuluka
Mnyamata woteroyo adzachita zonse kuti akwaniritse zolinga zake - kuti amugone. Ndipo nyengo ya msuzi, ndi chikondi. Ndikovuta komanso kosatheka kusakonda. Pambuyo pokomana ndi amuna oterewa, pamakhala misozi yamisozi, kupweteka komanso kukhumudwa. Kuzindikira kuti mnyamatayo sangachite ntchito ... Yang'anani, choyamba, pa mbiri yake. Pitilizani kuyang'anitsitsa kuti ndi momwe munakumana nawo. Zochita zake. Ngati pali zambiri zokhudza kale, fufuzani momwe ubale wawo unayambira ndi chifukwa chake iwo anatha. Anyamatawa amagwira ntchito yogwirizana ndi atsikana ambiri.
Ngati munthu akugwiritsani ntchito monga chokongoletsera
Nthawi zina amuna amafunika kukhala ndi mtsikana kuti akhale. Tenga nawe ku zochitika zofunika, misonkhano ndi madzulo. Mtundu wa khalidwe la woimira chilakolako chogonana mumkhalidwe umenewu umasiyana ndi makulidwe ake.
Mnyamata wolemera adzakugulira chidwi ndi mphatso, nthawi zina amayendetsa galimoto kumalo odyera ndipo pa nthawi yoyenera akuti "lero timapita ku phwando / phwando." Mwamuna
yemwe kachikwama kake kamangobweretsedwanso patsiku la kubwezera , lidzakhala komwe kuli kosavuta komanso ndalama sizipindulitsa kwa iye. Makhalidwe omwe amasonyeza zizindikiro zoyambirira za chidwi - amaitana nsomba, pussycat, bunny. Nthawi zina amavomereza kuti asatayike. Mndandanda wa misonkhano yodziphatikizidwa ndi yokha. Zingakhale zamwano, zofunikira. Akukana kudziwana ndi makolo ndi mabwenzi apamtima a mtsikanayo zifukwa zopusa.
Ngati mwagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati wantchito
Kodi pali zochitika zomwe munthu akukuitanani ku malo ake, pamene ali ndi mbale yonyansa, zinthu zosasamba komanso opanda firiji? Ndipo ndi kumwetulira kokoma, kukumbatirana ndi kukankhira mumilomo, kukupemphani kuti mutuluke. Ngati imabwereza nthawi zonse, mtsikanayo amadziwika ngati wantchito, yemwe
"amakonzekera kudya, chabwino, ndipo mukhoza kugonana .
" Ngati mutagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati "malo osungira"
Zikuchitika kuti mumagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati "ndege yamtendere". Ndipo si za kugonana. Ife tikufotokoza izi. Mtsikana amayenda ndi mnyamata ndipo amawoneka kuti ali pachibwenzi ndi chisangalalo chosangalatsa, ndipo panthawi ina, m_mnyamatayo anapita kwa wakale, anayamba kukomana ndi wina kapena anapezeka popanda tsatanetsatane. Kotero, okondedwa, inu munali "malo osungirako mwayi." Zimayambitsa:
- mwamunayo ali ndi mkazi wina ndipo amasankha pakati pa awiri;
- mwamunayo adaganiza kuti adzigwedezeke, kuti adzibwezeretse.
Kawirikawiri m'mayeso otere simuli. Ubale wanu uli mu limbo: iwo amawoneka akukumana nawo, koma panalibe mawu ovomerezeka. Panthawi ina munamva mgwirizano ndi mwamuna, kwinakwake - mwaokha.
Momwe mungadziwire? Zobisika, nkhani zake zimagwedezeka, zambiri zimasintha ndi kusintha.
Mnyamatayo amapewa malo otukuka pamayendedwe amtundu, mwachitsanzo, amatsogolera ku nyanja. Kodi si chikondi, kumayenda pamalo opanda phokoso, osasamala? Ngati msungwanayo akuumirira kupita kumalo otetezeka - cafe - mnyamatayo amachita zinthu mosangalala, kupeĊµa kugwirizana kwambiri. Amabisa maitanidwe ndi mauthenga ochokera kwa amithenga amodzi. Amaika foni patebulo ndi chinsalu kapena akuchigwira m'thumba mwake. Kawirikawiri amaitana patsiku ndikufotokoza momveka bwino: ndikuti muli kuti, ndiwotani ndi kumene mukupita. Mulimonsemo kuti musayende nanu.
Ngati mwagwiritsidwa ntchito pofuna malo okhala
Pali nthawi yomwe mlimi amagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu majeure: Alibe denga pamwamba pa mutu wake kapena popanda ndalama. Ndiyeno "mutu wake wowala" ukuyenderedwa ndi lingaliro la kugwiritsira ntchito mkazi ngati malo osakhalitsa. Kutanthauza, kunyozetsa, kokhumudwitsa - koma kofunikira ... Zizindikiro za khalidwe:
- Ikukupemphani kuti mukhale nanu masiku angapo mzere;
- Amalumbira pamalingaliro amphamvu, ngakhale kuti ubale wanu ndi sabata ndi mchira;
- Mikangano yomweyo imasamukira ku nyumba yanu. Ndipo sasamala kuti mumakhala ndi mchimwene wanu kapena amayi anu.
Anthu oterewa amatha kuchita chilichonse kuti adzipeze mwamsanga pachilakolako chotentha nthawi yolemba.
Momwe mungazindikire ? Yesani zambiri za kulemera kwake, ntchito imene akukhala. Ndipo onetsetsani kuti muwone ngati ali ndi nyumba, mufunseni kuti apitirize masiku angapo mzere.
Ngati mwagwiritsa ntchito ndalama
Atsikana omwe ali otetezeka komanso osamala ayenera kusankha mosamalitsa anzawo komanso osaphonya gigolo. Kawirikawiri, amasankha wogwidwa ndi yemwe nthawi zambiri amakhumudwa ndi amuna. Ndipo kachiwiri, zisankhozo zinasonyeza kuti amuna olemera ndalama amachita motsatira ndondomeko iwiri:
Yoyamba . Mnyamatayo, yemwe amakuona mwa thumba la ndalama, amatha kukhala kawiri kawiri komanso wofatsa. Iye ndi munthu wabwino kwambiri pa dziko lapansi yemwe sasamala za ndalama ndi udindo wanu. Amafalikira mwachikondi ndi chikondi pohlesche usikuingale tsitsi. Alfonso ndi wangwiro kwambiri moti imatenga mzimu: chakudya cham'mawa pabedi, kusisita madzulo pambuyo pa ntchito ndi gulu la zinthu zabwino zosangalatsa m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Komanso amayesetsanso kusonyeza "yemwe ali mbuye panyumba," kuti alamulire mkazi wopambana mnyumba mwake. Amuna amenewa nthawi zambiri samasonyeza zofooka zawo ndipo izi ndi zomwe atsikana amakopeka nazo. Ndipo pamene mutu wa mkazi ukutambasula mu chikondi, mnyamatayo akudandaula mobwerezabwereza akupempha ndalama zochepa kuti apange bizinesi "yaikulu," kapena ikuyandikira kwambiri tsiku laukwati.
Lachiwiri ndi loipa komanso limatanthauza. Amafuna mwana wanu. Zomwe zimayenera kupha makondomu, "mwangozi" mulibe nthawi yoti mutuluke. Chitani chilichonse kuti msungwana wolemera uja "aziuluka" mwamsanga. Ndipo kachiwiri, timagwiritsira ntchito mawu a umodzi wa kugonana mwamphamvu:
"Chifukwa chiyani ndikunama? Inde, munthu aliyense nthawi imodzi amaganiza kuti adzipeza kuti ndinu wolemera komanso mchere. Ndiye ukwatiwo, ndi agogo ake aakazi m'thumba lanu. " Ndipo pang'ono ponena za amuna
Ichi ndi chitsanzo cha amuna osakondwa ndi odzitukumula, komatu pali chikondi chosakanikirana, amuna okongola ndi anyamata omwe ali okonzeka kwambiri pa chilichonse! Kwa zozizwitsa zirizonse, kuti mukhale osangalala. Zonsezi, otsala omwewo akutsogolereni omwe akufuna kukukondweretsani ndi cholinga cha moyo wake. Mabwinonso omwe omwe kumwetulira kwanu pamaso ndi okwera mtengo kuposa diamondi iliyonse. Ndipo anyamatawa ndi ochuluka kwambiri kuposa zowopsya! Ndipo kodi mwamuna wanu ndi ndani?