Kotero, kokwanira kukhala munthu woipa, akukhumudwa ndi dziko lonse lapansi. Sinthani malingaliro anu, malingaliro, maganizo ndi zinthu zonse kuzungulira zidzasintha. Khalani munthu wokhutira, wodzisangalatsa nokha poyamba. Chifukwa cha ichi, muyenera kudzikonda nokha, ikani nokha pakati pa moyo wanu. Khalani odzikuza, ganizirani mafunso otsatirawa: cholinga cha moyo, maloto anu, zomwe mukufuna kukhala. Khalani umunthu wamphamvu. Onetsetsani bwino kukula kwanu. Muzochita zanu zonse, mukudandaula tsiku ndi tsiku, payenera kukhala maziko enieni omwe zinthu zonse zikuyendera. Sangalalani tsiku lirilonse, khalani okondwa ndi okondwa nthawi zambiri. Khalani wapadera. Inde, izo ziri. Aliyense wa ife ndi wapadera komanso wapadera. Choncho ziwonetseni dziko lonse lapansi!
Gawo lofunikira lofanana ndi moyo watsopano ndi kukhala wodzidalira. Kumbukirani kuti pamene mumadzilemekeza nokha ndikumayamikira, kulemekeza kwanu kwambiri kumakhala kochitidwa ndi munthu. Chikondi, khalani okondedwa, achifundo ndi achifundo. Izo ziyenera kubwera kwa inu.
Yandikirani kwa anzanu, achibale anu ndi anthu apamtima. Pambuyo pake, iwo amakutengerani inu kuti ndinu ndani kwenikweni. Musadziteteze nokha, kulankhulana zambiri, kutenga nawo mbali mu miyoyo yawo, kuthandizira, kuyankhulana. Kumbukirani kuti munthu aliyense m'dziko lapansi amafunikira achibale ndi achibale omwe angakuvomerezeni pazochitika zilizonse, chithandizo, chithandizo. Mukhoza kukhala otsimikiza kuti mulimonsemo, mungathe kuwayankha, ndipo adzakuthandizani, kupereka malangizo. Perekani zowonjezereka zabwino ndi zokondwera mtima zikubweranso kwa inu mu buku lalikulu.
Pambuyo panu, banja lanu ndi achibale anu, mukhoza kumvetsera kwa munthu yemwe ali pafupi ndi inu. Inu mudzakhala chinsinsi kwa iye ngati mutamuchotsa pa chikondi ndi kupembedza ndikuyika gawo lachitatu mu mzere. Izi zidzamupangitsa munthuyo kuti akudziwe bwino, amayesetsa kutenga malo apamwamba pamoyo wanu. Ndikumenyana, chilakolako chofuna kukufikitsani kwathunthu, chidzapangitsa ubwenzi wanu ndi wosankhidwa wanu kukhala wofunika komanso wosamvetsetseka. Mwina, patapita nthawi, patapita zaka zambiri za moyo wa banja, mwamuna akhoza kutenga mlingo wachiwiri pamtengo wanu, koma osati kale. Kuonjezerapo, ngati mwamuna sali pachiyambi ndi mkazi, ndiye kuti sadzatopa, amadzikweza. Ali ndi cholinga pamoyo wake, ali ndi wina woti asamalire, amene amatha kumapeto kwa sabata, kumacheza ndi kupuma. Lembani malo anu auzimu ndi chidziwitso chatsopano, pitirizani, mukhale ndi chidwi ndipo simudzasangalatsa ngakhale wophunzira, pulofesa kapena munthu wamba.
Phunzirani kukhazikitsa zolinga za moyo wanu koposa china chirichonse. Mulole munthuyo amvetse kuti ngati chinachake chikuchitika, simudzakhala ndi nkhawa ndi kutha kwa ubale wanu, komanso kuti adzaluma zidutswa za mtundu wa mkazi yemwe wataya. Sonyezani kuti ngati inu simudzakumana naye. Ndizo zomwe mumadziwa, mumadziwa kuchita zomwe amakonda. Kuti mumuthandize, mukudziwa. Khalani mkazi weniweni!