Maganizo a amuna mu chiyanjano ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi maganizo a akazi. Tsiku lochokera tsiku la munthu liripo mmoyo wathu ndipo timawawona, kutsegula maso athu, kukwatirana, kuwadutsa mumsewu kapena kuntchito. Zonsezi ndizofanana ndi ife ndipo nthawi zambiri zofuna zathu zimagwirizana, koma sizinthu zonse. Zokongola monga zikhoza kuoneka, amuna ali a makadi osiyana ndi akazi. Nthawi zina iwo samasamvetsetseka komanso ali alendo, kutali ndi ife komanso osadziwika, owongoka komanso odzikonda mu ubale wawo.
Ngati tileka mzere pansi pa zonse zomwe zanenedwa, tidzakhala ndi zotsatira zokondweretsa kuti mu chikhalidwe cha psycholo ya munthu akufotokoza zomwe zimabweretsa, zomwe ziri kutali kwambiri ndi chenicheni. Zonsezi zosamveka bwino zikuwoneka kuti ndizo pulogalamu ya pakompyuta yosiyana siyana. Ngati munthu adzipangira yekha chifaniziro chake - amachifuna. Ndipo ife, akazi, nthawi zonse tikufunafuna zomwe sizinali m'moyo mwathu, timakhulupirira kuti mwadzidzidzi chotsatira sichimodzimodzi chomwe mungathe kukonda ndi kukondedwa.
Mapangidwe a maganizo a amuna
Malingaliro aumunthu a maubwenzi angamangidwe pazinthu zosonyeza kuti amuna omwe ali pachibwenzi ndi mkazi amaona kuti chilungamo ndi cholondola. Amuna nthawi zambiri amakhala olimba kwambiri kuposa akazi, koma mocheperapo makhalidwe. Oimira abambo amphamvu amayesetsa kubisa maganizo awo, kuwunikira kusagwirizana kwawo, ndikuika maliro awo mumtima. Malingaliro aumunthu ndi moto wa moyo wake, umene umatsogoleredwa kumbali imodzi, kuwotcha akazi omwe amatentha nthawi zonse. Mu psychology ya amuna mu maubwenzi ndi amayi, pali kusowa kwa malingaliro, sakufuna kuwulula zinsinsi zawo, kukwiyitsa mkazi, chifukwa ali ndi mphamvu yogonana, ndipo ali wofooka.
Amuna amaganiza chiyani za amayi?
Mkaziyo wapanga kukongola kwambiri ndipo amathamanga pa tsiku, koma abambo sangathe kungozindikira. Koma iye anayesa molimba kwambiri kuti awoneke wamkulu, pokhala pafupi ndi iye. Koma kuyamikira kwa adilesi yanu sikudamveka. Ndipo chinsinsi ndi chakuti maso a munthu akhoza kuona chirichonse chokongola, chachilendo, zonse zomwe iye amakonda. Ngati sakuzindikira chithunzi chodabwitsa cha mkazi, mwina akuzunzidwa ndi maganizo ena kapena iye, povutitsa kwambiri, anakhumudwa ndi mkazi. Mwa njira, ngati mumamuuza momwe amawonekera bwino, adzalandira chitamando ichi, chifukwa kunyada kwa amuna kumachokera ku mawu opusa. Kumbukirani kuti chirichonse chomwe ubale wanu, mwamuna nthawi zonse, amadzikonda yekha.
Zochitika za amuna
Amuna onse ndi a boyaguzes. Ichi ndi chifukwa chakuti nthawi zina amawopa kuvomereza ngakhale kuti iwo ali ndi "chikondi" padziko lapansi. Tili chete ponena za kuopa munthu kutayika ufulu wake mu chiyanjano. Chiwopsezo ichi, monga lamulo, ndichibadwa mwa iwo kuchokera kubadwa.
Amuna onse ndi ana. Dziko lawo likuchokera pakugonjetsa mapiri ena. Kuonjezerapo, amayi Achilengedwe apanga kuti mwamuna nthawi zonse azikhala mwamunayo ayenera kugonjetsa mkazi. Ngati mwamuna sapeza njira yake, amakhala wamantha wabwino, mwamuna sangathe kuchita manyazi pamchitidwe wake wapakati, samavomereza zolakwitsa pazomwe akugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo.
Chikondi cha munthu
Pa gawo loyambirira la chiyanjano, mwamunayo amapeza zozizwitsa za thupi lake, amasintha kwathunthu, amakhala wokondedwa ndi wachikondi, wotsutsidwa ndi kukongola kwa akazi. Amamufuna iye, amamufuna. Iye ndi katundu wake (ichi ndi chinthu chachikulu). Zimatha mpaka atawerenga buku la "Woman's Soul" patsamba lomaliza. Ngati mwamunayo akukhumudwa ndi chinachake mwa mkazi, maganizo ake amayamba kutha.
Mwamuna wa banja
Malingaliro aumunthu nthawi zambiri amachititsa munthu kugwidwa ku ubale wa banja, chifukwa moyo wa banja umapanga malamulo ake a masewerawo. Patapita kanthawi, amatayika luso lake monga chibwenzi chokomera ndi mwamuna wamwamuna. Ndi chifukwa chake kuti zomwe zimamveka kwa mkazi zimachepetsanso. Amayamba kuyang'ana zosiyanasiyana ndikusangalala ndi misonkhano ndi anzake a unyamata wake, komanso nthawi yomwe amathera nthawi yaulere.