M'nkhaniyi ndikuyesera kufotokoza bwino maganizo anga pa zomwe ndikuganiza zokhudza kugula. Psychologia ya "maniac maniac" ndi yosayenerera, monga mankhwala osokoneza bongo, sawona kanthu koma malonda ndi kuchotsera. Panthawi yogulitsira nyengo, amatha kusiya ntchito zawo kuti achite bizinesi yawo yokonda ndikudzipatulira kwathunthu: kugula. Phindu, perekani ndalama zambiri. Iwo sangakhoze kuimitsidwa, iwo ali ndi maso oyaka, akuwombera nkhope, iwo ali odzaza ndi kuzunzika pakugula.
Zotchuka "masitolo a masitolo." Amaphatikizapo Mfumukazi Diana, yemwe sanagwiritse ntchito ndalama zokha, koma nayenso. Mu zovala zake munali pafupifupi zikwi 300 za mtundu woyera. Cameron Diaz, yemwe ndi katswiri wotchuka kwambiri, sadziwa kuti amakonda kugula zinthu. Amagula chilichonse chimene amamuona popanda kuganiza kuti chinthuchi chikhoza kukhala chovala chake. Elton John, yemwe ndi woimba kwambiri, amagwiritsa ntchito ndalama zodabwitsa kuti azigula. Mbiri yake ya madola milioni imodzi tsiku limodzi inali kumverera kwa atolankhani.
Pochiza matendawa otchedwa - kugula, ku America, magulu angapo amatsegulidwa osadziwika kuti spender. Kawirikawiri, "ogulitsa masitolo" amagula zovala zawo kuti aziwoneka ngati mafano awo, kapena kuti asamawonedwe ngati nkhosa zakuda m'madera otchuka. Chifukwa cha udindo wawo, anthu amawononga ndalama popanda kuganiza.
Ngati muli ochokera ku "shopu maniacs", ndipo mukufuna kudziletsa nokha, koma osachimvera, mverani malangizo a akatswiri. Musanapite ku sitolo, lembani pa pepala chomwe mukufuna kugula. Mukabwera ku sitolo, gwiritsani ntchito mndandanda, ndikuyika mudengu, zinthu zabwino ndi chakudya. Ngati simungathe kuthana ndi chilakolako chanu chofuna kugula chinthu china, mumachoka pamasalefu ndi kumapachika, kupuma bwino ndi kutulutsa, pamene mungathe kutseka maso anu. Tsegulani maso anu, yang'anani chinthu chomwe mukufuna kugula ndipo simukufuna kugula, chifukwa pakali pano simukumva mwachangu.
Kawirikawiri zimachitika kuti munthu amabwera kwa munthu yemwe angamuchezere, ndipo amawona eni ake malo atsopano, akufunadi kugula chimodzimodzi. Koma mutatsekanso maso anu ndi kulingalira kwa kanthawi malo anu, momwe chinthucho chidzasinthidwira mkati mwanu. Mwinamwake sangafanane nawo kwambiri, ndipo nthawi yomweyo muziyamba kukumbukira kuti munaganiza zochotsa vutoli.
Tsopano lamulo lofunikira, ndi la iwo. Amene sangatsutse zofuna za ogulitsa kugula izi kapena mankhwalawa. Izi zidzakuthandizani wokondedwa wanu amene angakulepheretseni kuwononga ndalama zosafunikira, kapena kuthandizira kusankha bwino. Komabe, onetsetsani kuti chotsani zovala zakunja musanapite ku sitolo, mwinamwake kutentha sikusokoneza bwino ubongo wa munthu. Ndipo iwe ukhala ndi ndalama zochuluka kuposa momwe iwe unkayembekezera.
Amuna ndi akazi amasiyana mosiyana ndi zosowa zawo komanso maluso awo. Pamodzi nthawi zambiri amapita kukagula, mwamuna amatha kutopa kwambiri mofulumira kuposa mkazi. Pambuyo ola limodzi ndi hafu yokhala mu sitolo, ndi bwino kutumiza munthu kwinakwake kukakhala mu cafe, kotero kuti akuyembekezera inu apo, ngati simungathe kukangana naye. Ayenera kukulolani kuti mupeze ndalama zogulitsa, ndipo mumagwiritsanso ntchito mwakhama popanda kumukakamiza kupita naye kukagula.
Kuchokera pano, muyenera kupirira mbali zingapo za khalidwe: musanapite ku sitolo, lembani mndandanda wamagula; kubwera ku tsambali, kupuma bwino ndi kutulutsa; kale. Kuposa kugula chinthu chokondedwa chomwe chiri pa abwenzi, ganizirani, ndipo ngati chiri chofunikira kwa inu; musabvala mofunda mu sitolo; ngati n'kotheka, pitani ku sitolo popanda amuna.
Ndikukhumba inu kugula bwino!