Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino m'banja? Si chinsinsi kuti ndizovuta kwambiri kuchita izi. Lero tiyesa kupeza njira zothetsera vutoli.
Tikakumana ndi munthu ndipo timamukonda, timadziwa bwino, ndipo nthawi zina timadziwa. Si chinsinsi kwa aliyense. Choyamba, ife tikufuna kuti tisiyane ndi misala, kodi munthu uyu angatizindikire bwanji. Ndipo tsopano amatisamalira, ndife okondwa ngati ana. Maso athu amawala, ndipo kumwetulira sikuchokera pa nkhope. Chifukwa cha ichi, tili ndi chiyembekezo ndi chikhulupiriro - uyu ndi munthu yemweyo amene tili okonzeka kumanga maubwenzi osatha komanso opindulitsa.
Tikufuna kudziwonetsera tokha kuchokera kumbali yabwino kwambiri. Ndipotu, tili ndi ntchito yokondweretsa. Samalani zomwe tikusamala, zofatsa, zotsegula, tcheru, zomvera komanso zothandizira. Timayesa kupanga ena aura of sensations, kuti ndi wokondedwa wathu yekha amene adzasangalala.
Ndipo ife timapambana. Tikabisala zofooka zathu, timayima kudziko lokondana wina ndi mzake.
Pali nthawi yomwe timamvetsetsa kuti mnzathu wopanda bwenzi sangathe kukhala ndi moyo. Pali chikhumbo chimodzi chokha - kugona limodzi ndikudzuka m'mawa kuchokera kununkhiza kwa khofi. Zimatipweteka kuti tisiye ngakhale kwa tsiku. Palibe "I", pali "wamba" wamba. Mgwirizano umenewu wa miyoyo, matupi, chinsinsi cha chikondi, momwe timamira, chimatitsogolera ku chitukuko china. Kwa kulengedwa kwa banja.
Ndipo apa pali, chimwemwe choyembekezeredwa, chimwemwe chokhalapo. Ife tinayesetsa kwambiri kupita ku izo. Iwo anachita izo. Tinayesetsa kwambiri. Tsopano nthawizonse pafupi. Tsopano zokhumba zathu zachitika. Ndi nthawi yoti tigwirizane osati zosangalatsa zokha, komanso moyo. Monga lamulo, panthawi ino timaiwala kuti pachiyambi chadzidzidzi, tinayesera kuti tidziwonetsere bwino ndipo nthawi zina sitinadzizolowerere, ndikusankha kuti ino si nthawi yoti tisonyeze khalidwe lathu. Kuti tipewe mikangano, tikhoza kukhalabe ndi fano lomwe tinalenga. Anthu ena amatha kuchita izi kwa nthawi yaitali, koma nthawi yomwe chinthu chenichenicho cha munthu chidziwonetsera chimabwerabe. Ndi pamene mavuto oyambirira akuyamba. Ndipo theka lina likuyang'ana pa ife ndi maso osiyana. Yambani kukula namsongole wa kusamvetseka ndi mtunda. Poyamba, izi sizingatheke pokhapokha ngati pali mikangano yaing'ono ndi mikangano, komabe ikutsogolera mwamsanga kuyanjanitsa. Koma ngati mutazisiya ndi kutuluka, mukhoza kufika kumapeto, komwe sikutheka kupeza njira yotulukira. Ndipo zotsatira za izi ndi kugwa kwa mgwirizanowu. Funso limayambira - momwe mungasunge ubale, mukhale olekerera chikumbumtima ndi zolephera. Kwa posachedwapa tinali okondana kwambiri ndi munthu uyu. Iye ankawoneka kwa ife kwambiri, kwambiri.
Chinthu chachikulu ndi chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhala woona mtima momwe tingathere pachigawo choyamba cha chiyanjano. Kuyankhula osati makhalidwe awo abwino okha, komanso kusaiwala za zovuta. Izi, ndithudi, sizikutanthauza kuti pa tsiku loyamba tiyenera kusonyeza kwa osankhidwa mndandanda wa zosokoneza ndi zofooka zomwe tiri nazo. Koma tiyenera kukumbukira kuti palibe zolinga ndipo nthawi zina timamukumbutsa mnzakeyo. Ubwenzi uliwonse umaphatikizapo kudalira. Choncho, muyenera kuphunzira kuti mupeze mgwirizano mu mawonekedwe a masewera. Konzani madzulo madandaulo ndikupanga mndandanda wotsutsana. Koma kwa zinthu zotere tiyeni tiyandikire molimbika. Musaiwale kuti iyi ndi masewera. Ndipo musati muwoloke iwo. Kumbukirani kuti musanayambe wokondedwa wanu, osati mndandanda wa makhalidwe onse otheka komanso osatheka. Kulongosola koteroko kwa ubale kuyenera kuthera pamapeto pake. Pambuyo pazinenedwa kuti ndizofunikira kuyankhula makhalidwe ndi ulemu zomwe timayamikira mwa osankhidwawo. Kuonjezera chiyanjano, ndikofunikira kuti wina ndi mzake azikhala oleza mtima. Anthu sali abwino, ndiye n'chifukwa chiyani tikufuna zambiri kuposa munthu wamba yemwe angatipatse? Ndikofunika kudzipangira tokha - kodi ndife okonzeka kupirira zolakwa kapena ayi. Ngati sali okonzeka, zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti tisunge banja. Zingatheke. Ngati tifuna kuwatenga, ndiye kuti tifunika kutenga. Osati kuti azidzudzulidwa, koma kuti azifuna kuyanjana. Imakhalabe kuwonjezera chinthu chofunikira kwambiri. Ndikofunika kuti mumvetsere wokondedwa wanu, komanso kuti mumve. Kumvetsa zomwe akuyesera kutiuza. Pitani kukakumana naye kuti mukwanitse kumvetsetsa. Nthawi zonse timazimvetsa bwino pamene sitimvekedwe. Zimangobweretsa mavuto. Kotero pamene akunena chinachake kwa ife, tiyeni timve ndikuthandizira kukambirana, m'malo momangokhalira kudandaula, ndikuchita bizinesi yathu.
Ndipo chinachakenso, kuganiza. N'zovuta kupeza chikondi chanu. Zili zovuta, monga zowonetsera, kuti zisungidwe. Kuonjezera dontho la kudzikonda, tiyeni timenyane ndi zomwe tapatsidwa. Kuwunika maubwenzi ndi kukhazikitsa chikondi ndi momwe mungakhalire ndi ubale wabwino m'banja.