Chifukwa chiyani? Choyamba, chifukwa mwamtheradi anthu onse ali ndi lingaliro lachilendo. Chachiwiri, akazi okhawo ndiwo akuyenera kuimbidwa mlandu. Inde, ndi ife, akazi. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri chimene timaiwala
Mwamuna ndi msaki. Mmenemo, wakhala akukula kwa zaka mazana ambiri pa chibadwa, komanso kuti asamve ludzu lake, kusaka sikugwira ntchito, ngakhale kuti akufuna. Kulimbana ndi chilengedwe simungathe kupondaponda. Choncho, mwamsanga amuna atataya chidwi, amadziwa mosadziwika, mwinamwake osadzidziwa okha, ayamba kuyang'ana chinthu chatsopano.
Kumanzere wopanda mwamuna wokondedwa pambuyo posiyana ndi iye, koma akufuna kubwezeretsa, muyenera kusankha njira zoyenera za khalidwe. Choyamba, muyenera kudzikweza nokha ndipo musamangokhalira kulankhulana ndi anthu, kudzibisa nokha mu moyo wanu kuti muganizire za tsoka lanu lovuta. M'malo mwake, gulu la anthu pafupi ndi mtima wa munthu lidzakuthandizani kubweretsa msangamsanga maganizo ndi maganizo kumbuyo. Ndikofunika kuthana ndi kusowa tulo, atatha kulira, kupweteka kumayambitsa kuwonongeka kwamanjenje, ndipo amuna amawopa ndi amatsenga. Mulimonsemo musabwezere choipa pa wokondedwa wanu. Ngati iye yekha ndi amene amachititsa kuti mupulumuke, musabwezere choipa, ziribe kanthu momwe zinalili zovuta kuti musasiye. Lolani muzitsitsimutsa lingaliro lakuti zoipa zonse zimabwereranso ngati boomerang ndipo moyo udzamulanga, popanda thandizo lanu. Ndikofunika kukumbukira, ngati mukufuna kubwerera pambuyo polekanitsa ndikusunga munthuyo.
Mukakhumudwa, kukhumudwitsani, kugona mokwanira, kuyeretsa matumba omwe mumasowa ndi misonzi yaitali, konzekerani kumenyana kwa kubwerera kwa munthuyo. Maonekedwe
• Choyamba chimene munthu amamvetsera, makamaka woimira kugonana mwamphamvu. Kumbukirani momwe mudawonekera pachiyambi cha ubale wanu ndi iye, zomwe amakonda kwambiri. Ntchito yanu sikuti ingobwereranso ku chithunzichi, komanso kuti ikhale yopambana komanso yogwira mtima. Mwamuna wanu sayenera kuwona mwa inu yemwe poyamba adagwidwa chikondi, atatha kusiyana, ayenera kukondana ndi mphamvu yatsopano. Zotsatira zake zimatheka ndipo mumawona pamaso pa munthu chidwi chenicheni mwa munthuyo? Musathamangire kukondwera. Kukhumudwa kwambiri kumakupangitsani kulakwitsa.
• Sonyezani mphamvu zanu. Makhalidwe ndi amuna omwe simungakhale achilengedwe, muyenera kuphunzira kuti mutenge nawo mbali. Makamaka udindo kwa amuna pambuyo polekana. Akazindikira kuti akulakwitsa, poganiza kuti akudziwani bwino, chidwi chake chidzawonjezeka kwambiri, ndipo mwina adzayamba kufunafuna chisomo chanu. Panthawiyi ndikofunika kuti musagonje poyesedwa kuti muthamangire mkati mwakutentha kwa osankhidwa anu, ndikuiwala ululu wa kupatukana. Khalani patali, khalani okonzeka mokwanira komanso osasunthika, mukuwotcha kwambiri. Makhalidwe amenewa angagwiritse ntchito kudzidalira nokha ndikudabwa kuti ngati mphindi ino muli pachibwenzi mumasungunuka. Mukawona kuti wosankhidwa wanu mokwanira "wokonzeka", mukhoza kusonyeza chifundo chanu.
Ndipotu, kukwaniritsa kubwerera kwa munthu pambuyo polekanitsa kwa nthawi yaitali sikovuta. Zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuzisunga. Phunzirani kuti musayende pamalo omwewo. Musati mutsegule moyo wanu kwathunthu, kulolera kuti mukhale wodalitsika podzitamandira zambiri ndi malumbiro a chikondi chosatha. Mawu
· Iyi ndi njira yokhayo yokwaniritsira malo, njira yokopa mu intaneti yanu, kukhulupirira kuti mawuwa ndi njira yopita kumalo. Iwe sungakhoze kugwira munthu popanda kumugwira iye. Onetsani mphamvu zanu, musawope kutaya. Musalole amuna kumvetsa kuti dziko lanu lonse limamangidwa pozungulira iwo ndi munthu wokondedwa
Pakati pa chilengedwe chonse. Atangomva kuti mkazi ali wokonzeka kuchita chirichonse chifukwa cha chikondi, kuti sangakhale ndi moyo popanda wokondedwa wake, ndiye kuti zotsatira zake zimakhala zosiyana, komanso kuti mwatha kale. Choncho, dzina lanu lachiwiri liyenera kukhala liwu lachinsinsi. Konzani mkazi mpaka kumapeto
• Chikhalidwe chachikulu cha munthu aliyense. Ndipo pamene sakukhazikitsa, adzakukondani ndi zonse zomwe zikugwirizana ndi inu. Ndipo izi ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri kuti ukhale ndi maubwenzi abwino komanso kukonzekera chilakolako.
Mkazi kumeneko ayenera kukhala nthawizonse chinsinsi. Ali pomwepo, mwamunayu ayesa kuthetsa vutoli, mkazi uyu adzakhala wosangalatsa kwa iye nthawi zonse. Ndipo zochita zake, zomwe angakwanitse kuthetsa vutoli, zidakali zolimba kwambiri, ndipo chofunika kwambiri kuti muthe kudabwa.