Chimodzi mwa magawo a ntchito yamaganizo aumunthu akuthandizira kuthetsa mavuto okhudzana ndi maukwati pakati pa okwatirana, kaya ndi upandu, mavuto a kugonana kapena kusudzulana. Nthawi zina, ngakhale kulimbikitsidwa kwenikweni pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi sizitsimikiziranso kuti mutha kumvetsetsa m'banja: kukhala pamodzi nthawi zambiri kumaphatikizapo kupezeka kwazing'ono zopanda pake, mikangano yaying'ono ndi mikangano. Ndipo nthawizina pamakhala kukambirana kokwanira kovuta. Ngakhale kukhala mwapadera, mwamuna ndi mkazi omwe amatha kupeza maola angapo pa sabata kuti alankhulane moona mtima ndi katswiri pa kusiyana kwawo, kumvetsa zomwe zimayambitsa zochitika zawo ndi kupeza njira zothetsera vutoli, kukhala ndi chiyembekezo cha zotsatira zabwino za zochitikazo.
Ochimwitsa amakumana nthawi zonse osati okwatirana okha. Kawirikawiri, mwamuna ndi mkazi wake amafunikira kusintha zochitika zatsopano za moyo, monga kusintha malo okhala, kukonzanso dziko lonse kuntchito, chiwalo cha banja, matenda ndi zina zotero.
Kuyenda kophatikizana kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo aumidzi mosakayika kudzawathandiza kuthetsa chikhulupiliro pakati pa okwatirana. Poyang'ana momwe zinthu zilili m'banja mwakhama, zidzakhalanso zovuta kupeza chifukwa cha mavuto ndikuwunikira njira zothetsera mavutowa.
Katswiri wamaganizo a banja amapanga pulogalamu ya munthu aliyense pa banja, chifukwa cha kusagwirizana pakati pa awiri awo awiriwawiri. Njira yotereyi sikumangotanthauza kukangana kumeneku, koma ndi makhalidwe a mwamuna ndi mkazi aliyense. Ndipotu, monga momwe akudziwira, ndi mavuto angati omwe alipo, ndi njira zambiri zothetsera.
Zifukwa zochezera munthu wokhudzana ndi maganizo a banja sizingowonjezera mavuto a ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Chifukwa cha ulendowo chikhonza kukhalanso chiyanjano pakati pa makolo ndi ana kapena kuyankhulana kwa mwanayo ndi anthu omwe amamuzungulira. Pali zitsanzo zambiri za moyo: kusakhulupirira, kusukulu kusagwirizana, kusamvana, kusintha kawirikawiri m'malingaliro ndi makhalidwe, zolakwitsa zosiyanasiyana, zovuta pakuyankhulana ndi ana a msinkhu womwewo ndi okalamba.
Munthu wamkulu ndiye chisamaliro chachikulu cha makolo. Koma ngakhale kuyang'anitsitsa pang'ono kumatha kuwatsogolera ku zotsatira zoipa - kusagwirizana pa kulankhulana kwa mwanayo ndi achibale komanso anthu oyandikana nawo.
Monga mwa chitsanzo ndi banja, katswiri wamaganizo amasankha njira yapadera kwa kasitomala. Tiyenera kutchula kuti katswiri wa zamaganizo angagwiritse ntchito njira zosiyanasiyana: akhoza kugwira ntchito ndi banja lonse, okwatirana, mwana ndi makolo ake, ndi munthu wina wa m'banja. Anthu angayambitsenso kufunsa, omwe pazifukwa zina samakhala m'banja kapena alibe panthawiyi. Aliyense angathe kupempha thandizo kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Anthu ambiri ali ndi chidwi ndi kufunikira kopempha thandizo kwa katswiri wamaganizo. Amakayikira kuti munthu wamsewu alibe chidwi ndi yankho la mavuto awo, popeza sakudziwa ndi aliyense m'banja.
Ngakhale zilizonse, ndibwino kuyesera. Ndipotu, akatswiri a zamaganizo a banja ndi akatswiri enieni omwe angakuthandizeni kumvetsa vutoli kuchokera ku malo a katswiri. Sakukukakamizani kuti muchite zinthu mwanzeru, koma kungokutsogolerani, kuthandizira kuti mutulukemo ndi kukakamiza abanja kusinkhasinkha pazochitika zawo. Amakutsogolerani ku chisankho choyenera, chimene wodwala aliyense, ndithudi, angadzibwere yekha.
Tsopano ife tikhoza kupereka yankho lenileni ku funso la yemwe ali wazeng'anga wamaganizo. Iye ndi munthu amene amadziwa bwino ntchito yake, zomwe zingathandize kuthetsa kumvetsetsa m'banja, kupanga mgwirizano pakati pa makolo ndi ana zogwirizana, kuthandizira kumasulira momveka bwino malingaliro awo, kuphatikizapo kugonjetsedwa. Komanso kupeza njira yopezera njira zomwe zilipo, kuthana ndi zikhalidwe za makhalidwe anu ndikupanga zatsopano, zabwino kwambiri, kuzindikira zifukwa za kusakhazikika kwa maganizo m'mabanja kapena kupanga ndondomeko ya makolo a mtsogolo.