Gwiritsani ntchito zizoloŵezi zanu zoipa, kumenyana ndi ulesi, phunzirani zinthu zatsopano, kusangalala tsiku lirilonse!
Kodi munayamba mwalingalira kuti ana athu mwachindunji ndi galasi lathu? Mukhoza kudandaula mozama za kuumitsa kapena kukwiya kwa mwana wanu wamwamuna kapena wamkazi, koma kawirikawiri zinthuzo zimakhala zovuta kwambiri zomwe zimakhala zonyansa zonyansa zoterezi kapena zimafuna kuti mumutsogolere kupita kumalo akutali kwambiri. Chabwino, mutha kulingalira mfundoyi ndikupitirizabe kulimbana ndi zizoloŵezi zoipa za ana anu koma kodi sizosavuta kudzimangirira nokha kuti galasi lowonetsera liwonetsedwe chithunzi chabwino kwambiri? nce limati: "Zivute zitani, mwana wanu chitsanzo chanu ndi makhalidwe, osati malangizo anu." Kotero, ife timapitiliza kukonzekera ndi kugwira ntchito mwakhama!
Yang'anani kuyankhula
Musagwiritse ntchito chonyansa nokha ndi kuchepetsa mawu a mwana wamba wozungulira. Pitirizani - musapite kumalo oyankhulana, achikulire. Nthawi zambiri muzidziika pamtima m'malo mwa mwana wanu. Kodi mungakonde ngati munthu wapafupi akukwiya? "Ndati kwa wina aliyense: Chotsani zojambulazo ndikusamba m'manja mwamsanga - chakudya chamadzulo!" Chizoloŵezi cholira mosayenera sichiwonjezera ku kutentha. Khalani munthu wolemekezeka komanso wochenjera amene amadzilemekeza iye ndi anthu ena. "Awuzeni" mawu amatsenga ", kuphatikizapo pamene mupempha mwanayo kuti achite chinachake (" chonde tengani kapu m'chipinda ") Sindikanatha kupambana popanda iwe! "). Lankhulani moni kwa anansi anu, khalani achifundo ndi oganizirika pa zoyendetsa pagalimoto, ngakhale mutakumana ndi kanyumba kamtengo wapatali. Ana safunikira kuona momwe mumakwiyira.
Mulimonsemo, sungani nkhope yanu ndikugwiritsira ntchito zizoloŵezi zanu zoipa. Musamunene mwanayo chifukwa cha anthu odziwika - mwinamwake, onetsetsani kuti apongozi anu adziwa zomwe mukuona kuti zafota.
Muzidya moyenera
Kuwoneka kwa mwana ndi nthawi yosavuta kuti banja lonse liyambe kudya zakudya zathanzi, zosiyanasiyana ndi zolimbitsa thupi. Ngati simukufuna kuti musapange zaka zing'onozing'ono kuti mukhale ndi maswiti apamwamba otsika mtengo, mowa, zipsu, zakumwa zam'madzi ndi zakudya zina zosautsa - musasunge chilichonse monga chonchi m'nyumba. Mwanayo akhumudwa, ngati saloledwa kuyesa chinthu chimene makolo ali nacho chisangalalo chodziwika amadya okha. Kuti afotokoze chifukwa chake amayi ndi abambo angadye chips, ndipo Vanya sangathe, sangagwire ntchito popanda bodza. Koma timakumbukira galasi ndipo sitikufuna kuti phokoso likhale lachinyengo kuchokera kwa anthu omwe amakhulupirira mwachidwi. Ndipo pamene mwanayo akuwona zolemba za zakudya zina zotsika kwambiri, zimakhala zosavuta kuti avomereze kuti sizingatheke kudya chakudya chodabwitsa kwambiri, ngati munganene kuti: "Sitidya." Onetsetsani kuti mukutsatira nthawi zonse. Ngati mukufuna kumwa tiyi ndi cookies pabedi mu chipinda choyang'ana kutsogolo kwa TV, ndizosamveka kuti tilekerere chakudya m'chipindamo, tayiwala za chizolowezichi.Therembetseni mapewa anu ku khitchini, kapena kuyika zinyenyeswazi pamtumba.
Mwinamwake mulibe chizoloŵezi chogwira bwino chakudya patebulo lililonse. Yambani kuchita zimenezo chifukwa cha mwanayo! Apanso, pali phindu lopindula kawiri: chochepa chochepa chimapatsa chizoloŵezi cha kudya chamasana, ndipo mumaphunzitsa kugwira ntchito ndi zokongoletsera kuti musamve zovuta mu lesitilanti.
Mwachizoloŵezi, chizoloŵezi chokhala palimodzi patebulo palimodzi osangalala ndi chakudya chophika bwino, koma kuchokera kuyankhulana wina ndi mzake, monga chinthu china chirichonse chimapangitsa banja lanu kukhala thupi limodzi. Wina angatsutsane kuti ndi mwana wamng'ono si chinthu chophimba patebulo - nthawizina amalola tsiku loyamba dzulo kudula kuchokera firiji sizingatheke. Inde, pali nthawi pamene ana sangakulole kuti muzimasuka mphindi imodzi. Sizomwe mukufuna mu nthawi yochepa kwambiri kuti mukhale woyang'anira wabwino komanso m'mawa uliwonse kuphika bisakiti zatsopano. Koma kudziwa maphikidwe angapo, "maphikidwe" mofulumira amatha ngakhale kuphika kwambiri, makamaka chifukwa choti zipangizo zamagetsi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kuthandizira amayi anga.Zitsanzo, nthunzi zamagetsi ndi timer zimakulolani kuti mukonze nthawi yophika kuti chakudya chamasana chikonzeke basi ndi nthawi yobwerera kuchokera ku kuyenda.
Yang'anani pa milioni
Zimakhulupirira kuti mwana wakhanda samasamala zomwe amayi ake amawoneka. Kwa mwanayo sikofunika kwenikweni, kaya muli ndi cellulitis, morshchinki pafupi maso ndipo ngati mwapanga manicure. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho chikondi, chikondi, mawu achikondi komanso nkhawa. Koma panthawi inayake chitsimikizo chimayamba kukhala ndi chidwi ndi mafunso a kukongola kwa thupi. Chilichonse chomwe akunena, kudzikongoletsa sikudalira ndalama ndi nthawi yaulere, koma ndi chikhumbo ndi chizoloŵezi. Kwa msungwana, momwe mayi amachitira chidwi ndi maonekedwe ake pambuyo pake adzakhala kampasi kuti azitha kukhala "wokongola komanso wokongola kwambiri." Kwa mnyamata, chithunzi cha mayiyo n'chogwirizana kwambiri ndi chifaniziro cha mkazi wabwino, yemwe angamufunse monga mnzake Khalani okonzeka kuti mwana wanu azidzikuza kuti: "Amayi anga ndi okongola kwambiri!"
Chizoloŵezi choipa
Chomwe chimabwereza chirichonse chimene iwe umachita. Ngati mumasuta, mwamsanga mudzaziwona ndi pensulo mkamwa mwanu ndi kuunika m'manja mwanu. Ndipotu, pamaso pa mwana zonse zomwe amayi amachita zimakhala zabwino komanso zabwino. N'zoona kuti anthu omwe sali kusuta fodya omwe amalembetsa zolemba zapamwamba angathe kukula ndi zizoloŵezi zoipa. Koma iyi ndi nkhani ina. Ndipo tsopano, pakuwonekeramo m'nyumba yaing'ono, wachibale wokoma mtima komanso wonyeketsa, muli ndi zifukwa zomveka zothetsera kudalira fodya wosuta.
Osakhala waulesi
Kuzoloŵera kuyambira paunyamata kukuthandizira kuthetsa mavuto a zachuma, mudzapatsa wolowa nyumba wanu ulemu waukulu. Chizoloŵezi cha ukhondo ndi dongosolo chinayikidwa kwa zaka zitatu, gwiritsani ntchito nthawi ino kuti musangomunyengerera mwanayo kuti ayeretse zidole zawo, koma kuti awaphunzitse kusangalala ndi kusintha kwa nyumbayo. Ngati muli, chomwe chimatchedwa, chilengedwe cholenga ndi luso lokondweretsa kudzipanga nokha ndi chisokonezo, dzipangeni nokha! N'zotheka kuti muphunzire zofunikira za Feng Shui - luso la Chi China lakale lomwe likukhalapo. Masters a Feng Shui amanena kuti ngati nyumbayo ndi yonyansa, ndiye pamutu ndi mumtima mwa iwo okhala mmenemo, nazonso, zonse sizili bwino. Pa msinkhu wa zaka, mwanayo ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti ndi kofunikira kuti azitha kulongosola zomwe akuyenera kuchita. Choncho, musamulonjeze zomwe simukuchita, koma ngati mwadzidzidzi mwaphweka, pemphani kukhululukidwa kwa mwanayo chifukwa chakulephera kukwaniritsa lonjezoli, ndipo yesetsani kupereka malipiro anu pokhapokha ngati mukulephera.
Kupanga
Mwinamwake, makolo onse achikondi amalota kuti agwire ntchito mwa mwanayo chidziwitso chachikulu ndi luso, kuti amulitse ndi munthu wophunzira komanso wophunzira. Nkhani yokhudzana ndi kukula kwa ana ndiyomwe imakhala yosangalatsa kwambiri pazakhazikitsa makolo. Koma amayi amalakwitsa kwambiri akamachita chidwi mwachangu komanso mwachangu, amawatsogolera ku masewera ndi magulu ku dongosolo la Montessori, ndipo samangowerenga kalikonse pokhapokha pulogalamu ya pa TV ndi cookbook. Ngati simukukonzekera kukhala mayi wam'nyumba, tenga nthawi yobereka kuti mukhale ndi mbiri mu malo anu ogwira ntchito. Pothandizidwa ndi banja, ambiri amatha kulumikizana ndi kuleredwa kwa ana komanso kulembedwa kwachinsinsi. Kuyenda ndi mwana wogona, mvetserani kwa audio books. Yang'anirani mapulogalamu a wolemba a anthu otchuka, omwe amagawana nawo malingaliro awo omwe sali oyenera pa chirichonse mu dziko. Musamapeputse dziko lonse ku German "K": wachifundo, kyuhe, kleide, kirche (ana, khitchini, madiresi, tchalitchi). Mudzakhala ndi zofuna zanu, zomwe mudzadziŵiratu posachedwapa komanso wolowa nyumba.
Zosangalatsa kwambiri
Kodi mumakhumudwitsidwa ndi zipsinjo zaunyamata ndi kumangoganizira? Kodi mwana wanu sasangalala ndi chilichonse? Kodi nthawi zambiri mumaseka ndikuimba nyimbo zosangalatsa? Kodi simukukhutira kudandaula kuti moyo wakuchitirani molakwika? Musati mupite ndi nkhope "yowawa"? Tikuyembekeza kuti izi sizikukhudza inu.
Anthu ophweka ndi oyembekeza amakhala ovuta kukhala m'dziko lino. Ngati muli ndi mdima wakuda m'moyo wanu ndipo manja anu agwa kale, ngati mukutopa kwambiri ndipo chikhumbo chanu chokha ndicho kuthawira kumapeto kwa dziko lapansi kumene palibe amene angakupezeni, ingoyenda pagalasi, kumwetulira paziwonetsero ndikudziuza nokha kuti: "Ndine wokondwa kwambiri! Zonse zomwe zimandichitikira ndi mavuto osakhalitsa. Mawa dzuwa lidzawuka, tsiku latsopano lidzabwera, lidzabweretsa uthenga wabwino wokha. Ine ndithudi ndidzakhala ndi mwayi. "Ndipo chirichonse chidzakhala chomwecho.