Limbikirani mwamsanga
Amati amayi akufulumira kukwatira. Koma palinso amuna omwe ali okonzeka kutsogolera mayi mu registrar patapita maulendo angapo. Musagule chikondi chachikondi chotere, ndibwino kuyeza ubwino ndi kuwononga. Kodi mwakonzeka kufotokoza moyo wanu kwa munthu amene simukudziwa? Kodi ndinu otsimikiza za kukhulupirika kwake ndi ulemu wake? Kodi pali zifukwa zilizonse zobisika zomwe akufulumira? Mulimonsemo, munthu yemwe mukupita naye kukalenga banja, ndi bwino kudziwa nthawi yayitali kuposa masiku angapo kapena masabata.
Zosathandiza
Mayiyo, posankha mwamuna, akuyembekeza kuti ali ndi chitetezo ndi chithandizo chodalirika. Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani pamene munthu yemwe ali ndi kusamvetsetsana komweko akuyang'ana pa kubowola ndikufuula mokweza pa mbola? Ndipo chinthu chotsatira chikuchitika: inu mukuona kuti si iye amene ali mwamuna mu ubale wanu. Kodi mwakonzeka kuchita ntchito zonse zapakhomo pakhomo, kuthana ndi makina oyendayenda ndi kuthetsa mavuto ndi kukonzetsa galimoto - ziri kwa inu.
Osagwira ntchito
Chinthu china chofunika kwambiri kwa munthu ndi kusowa kwake kwa malo osatha a ntchito. Ngati mukuganiza momwe mungasankhire mwamuna, ndiye kuti mukufunabe kukhazikika mu ubale, kukhazikika kwa ndalama zonse. Mwamuna yemwe nthawi zambiri amasintha ntchito kapena samamuyang'ana iye konse sali wothandizira kwa inu. Pamene mukuyesa kuyesera kuti musinthe ndalama zanu, ayesetsani kuyesetsa, mukugona pabedi.
Ngati munthu akulonjeza kupeza ntchito, koma pambuyo pa miyezi itatu zinthu sizikusintha, ndiye, mwinamwake, sizidzasintha.
Nsanje
N'zoona kuti ndi bwino kuzindikira kuti mwamuna wanu sakukukhudzani, sangathe kulengeza mlendo pafupi ndi inu ndipo ali wokonzeka kukutetezani kuntchito iliyonse yolemekezeka. Koma nthawi zina nsanje imadutsa malire onse, ndipo moyo ndi munthu wotero umakhala wosasamalidwa.
Monga lamulo, nsanje ili ndi mphamvu zowonjezera. Izi zidzatsimikiziranso kuti simungachoke panyumbamo, mwamuna wanu amakhala akudandaula pafoni ndi maimelo nthawi zonse, ndipo kuchedwa kulikonse kuntchito kudzakhala nthawi yowopsya. Mwa njirayi, nsanje yowopsya nthawi zambiri imasonyeza kuti munthuyo mwiniyo ali ndi machimo kapena wokonzeka kuchita chiwembu. Izi zimamupangitsa kuganiza kuti palibe kukhulupirika, ndipo mumasintha.
Zimadalira
Zilibe kanthu kuti munthu amadalira chiyani - mowa, mankhwala osokoneza bongo, masewera a pakompyuta kapena amayi. Izi zidzasokoneza ubale wanu ndipo mosakayikira zidzakhumudwitsa. Ngati mukuganiza momwe mungasankhire mwamuna yemwe sawonjezera mavuto pamoyo wanu, pewani mayankhulidwe ndi anthu omwe sangathe kuchotsa kudalira kwathunthu. Sikoyenera kuyembekezera kuti ukwati ndi chikondi chanu chidzachita zodabwitsa. Mwachidziwikire, naivete yotereyi idzatsogolera zaka za kuyesa kuthetsa vuto la munthu popanda chitsimikizo chilichonse cha kupambana.
Wokwiya
Inde, amuna akhala akukwiyitsa kwambiri kuposa akazi. Izi ndi chifukwa chakuti khalidwe lathu limakhudzidwa ndi mahomoni osiyanasiyana. Koma malire ovomerezeka a chiwawa alipo. Ngati munthu amakonda kupukuta manja ake, amachititsa manyazi, makhalidwe amanyazi, nthawi zambiri amatero ndipo amayesa kukhumudwitsa mwadala, ndiye kuti ali ndi mavuto aakulu a maganizo.
Mwa njirayi, mavutowa sali ochiritsidwa ndi ukwati ndi zoyesayesa za mkazi kuti akwaniritse zofunikira zake. Kwa zaka zambiri, kukhululukidwa kumapereka chinyengo cha kuloledwa, zomwe zingabweretse mavuto. Kodi mumasowa mwamuna wotere - ndi kwa inu.
Aliyense wa ife sali wopanda zophophonya. Zina mwa izo ziyenera kumenyedwa, zina zikhoza kuloledwa, ndipo zina zikhoza kupitirira. Ngati mwamuna ali ndi makhalidwe omwe mumaganiza kuti ndi ovomerezeka, sikuli kwanzeru kuyembekezera kuti mudzatha kuphunzitsanso munthu wamkulu yemwe akugwiritsidwa ntchito kukhala monga choncho, osati ayi. Musakwatire munthu woyamba amene angakupatseni mwayi ndipo musayang'ane zinthu zomwe sizikukondweretsa inu. Kodi mungasankhe bwanji mwamuna pankhaniyi? Ndi zophweka - khulupirirani mtima wanu ndipo musaiwale za luntha.