Mumakonda kugona mukulandira ndi buku, ndipo mwamunayo sakufuna kuchoka ku mpira wotsekemera kuti akupsompseni usiku ... Ndi chiyani chomwe chiyenera kusinthidwa mu chiyanjano kuti wokondedwa asadzuke pabedi?
Kumbukirani zonse
Zakale sizomwe zimangokhalako zokha, koma ndi chuma chodziwikiratu, chomwe inu ndi wokondedwa wanu simunakane.
Mwinamwake, mu zovala zanu muli "chovala" chofanana, chomwe inu munatembenukira mutu wanu komabe kwa mkazi wam'tsogolo. Kapena inu ndi mwamuna wanu muli ndi nyimbo zomwe mumazikonda, zomwe munavina pa tsiku. Kawirikawiri, yesetsani kuchita chinachake chomwe chingathandize wokondedwa wanu kumverera bwino pamisonkhano yanu yoyamba kachiwiri.
Pofuna kukumbukira nthawi yamakono, gwiritsani ntchito njira zotsatirazi, ndikulolani kuti muyambe kuyenda bwino: pemphani mwamuna wake kuti ayang'ane zithunzi zakale kapena mavidiyo achikwati kuti akwaniritse zochitika zosangalatsa; Yesetsani kukumbukira pamodzi zomwe munachita tsiku limenelo (kapena mwezi umodzi) zaka zisanu zapitazo; tchulani milandu yodabwitsa yomwe yakuchitikirani.
M'chilankhulo cha chilakolako
Monga chakudya chakudya, nthawi zambiri chilakolako chimayambira pa nthawi yogonana. Kaŵirikaŵiri kusonyeza zoyeserera kuti muzisangalala ndi kugonana kwa abambo ndi amai, mumatsitsimutsa ubale wapamtima ndikuwafunsanso nyimbo yatsopano. Mwa kuwapanga mwamuna wake "zopanda pake" kangapo patsiku, kapena kungowonetsa kukopa kwake, mudzanyalanyaza zopanda pake ndikukulimbikitsani kuti muchite. Nazi njira zingapo zosonyezera chikhumbo chanu.
Kutamandidwa kwa malingaliro, maonekedwe, mphamvu ndi mphamvu ya mwamuna wake.
Amakhudza mobwerezabwereza, kumpsompsona ndi kukumbatirana. Amuna ena amasangalatsidwa ndi chidwi cha akazi awo, owonetsedwa mwa anthu.
Gwiritsani ntchito chilankhulo chapadera chofotokozera chilakolako ndi kukondweretsa kugonana kwa amuna ndi akazi. Gulu lirilonse liri ndi zake zokha, ndipo nthawi zina zenizeni zogwiritsa ntchito mawu ena zimapangitsa kuganiza.
Pofuna kugwirizanitsa kugonana, nthawi zina zimangosintha nthawi ya chibwenzi. Muzikhala m'mawa kapena masana tsiku lotsatira. Ndiyeno kugonana kumatha kukhala mwambo wamba, kuchita ntchito ya mapiritsi ogona.
Yatsani vector
Ndani adanena kuti mkazi wachigololo ndi dona yemwe ali ndi chiwonongeko chakuda mu nsalu zakuda? Mwinanso mwamuna wanu amakusangalatsani mukamachita masewera. Kapena mwinamwake kumayambika msonkhano wovomerezeka wa masewero kapena kanema. Yesetsani kumanga pa zofuna ndi zoledzeretsa za amuna, ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti simukukonda kwambiri.
Ndithudi mu moyo wanu kangapo kamodzi munalipo pamene inu mwazifukwa zilizonse munakana "kufika" kwa mwamuna wake kwa thupi. Samalani kwambiri pa milandu yomwe inkagwirizana ndi zosagwirizana za njira yogwiritsira ntchito nthawi yaulere. Mubvomerezeni, pomalizira, kuti mupite ndi mwamuna pa nsomba kapena kuti muwone ngati akumukonda. N'zosatheka kuti chizindikiro chanu chachikulu chisaoneke. Mudzapindula mukangokhala ndi wokondedwa wanu yekha.
Kukwanitsa kugonana kumagwirizanitsidwa ndi momwe mumakondana. Ndipotu nthawi zambiri mabanja amakhala osakondana chifukwa sakondana wina ndi mzake, koma pazifukwa zina amakhala pamodzi komanso amalerera ana awo.
Kukwanitsa kugonana kumadalira moyo wa achinyamata pamodzi. Ndipotu, m'moyo muli zosiyana siyana zomwe sizikulimbikitsani kugonana okha, komanso siziyenera kuyanjidwa ndi okwatirana.