Mayankho a funso ili amaperekedwa ndi akatswiri a maganizo ndi ogonana.
Pambuyo pa kugonana, amayi nthawi zambiri amafuna kuti mwamuna aziwakumbatira, kuwagwiritsira kumbuyo ndikugwiritsitsa mwamphamvu kwa masekondi angapo. Choncho amayi amakhutira kufunika kokhala ndi maganizo osokoneza bongo, omwe asanakhale nawo nthawi yakuthawa kugonana. Amazindikiranso chikhumbo cha chitetezo, atataya mphamvu ndi mphamvu.
Chachiwiri, akazi ambiri amafuna kumva kuti zonse zinali zabwino. Amafuna kumvomereza, moona mtima monga momwe analili musanayambe masewera achikondi. Akazi amafunikira mawu awa, kuti asatayikire chidwi chawo.
Chachitatu, ife tikufuna kuti osankhidwa athu agone pansi kwa mphindi zochepa, osachepera mphindi zingapo asanatuluke ndi khomo kumbuyo. Potero, timayesa kutsimikiza kuti ndife ogwirizana osati kugonana, koma komanso chifukwa chodzikhulana wina ndi mzake.
Ndipo tsopano tipenda mkhalidwe womwewo, koma kuchokera ku malo a anthu.
Pambuyo pa kugonana, amuna amafuna kugona, kudya ndi kugona kachiwiri. Amuna amagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zambiri ndi ma calories pa maubwenzi apamtima kusiyana ndi akazi, chifukwa amakhala achangu pa masewera achikondi. Ndizosadabwitsa kuti iwo akugonjetsedwa ndi chilakolako cha thupi, monga chakudya ndi kugona kubwezeretsanso mphamvu zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito.
Chachiwiri, amuna amafuna kumva kuchokera kwa mkazi zomwe iwo ali abwino pa bedi. Iwo amakhalanso ndi maofesi, makamaka omwe akukhudzana ndi malo apamtima. Amangozibisa mosamala, osati akazi. Mwamuna ayenera kudziwa kuti ali pabedi iye Apollo ndi wofanana naye, mosakayikira izi zimupatsa kukhala ndi chisangalalo chabwino komanso mphamvu. Choncho, kuti mukhale ndi mwamuna pambuyo pa kugonana, muyenera kukhala ngati munthu weniweni.
Kenaka amayamba kugwa mumsamba, kenako amalandira misala kuchokera kwa mkaziyo. Malingana ndi anthu ogonana, amuna 60% amalota za izo. Otsala 40% omwe akufuna kuti apite mwamsanga pa bizinesi yawo, ayambitse TV omwe amawakonda kapena kompyuta, ndi zina zotero.
Kwa amayi nkofunika kukumbukira nthawi zonse kuti muyenera kukhala usiku kunyumba, ngakhale tsiku lanu litatalika. Ngakhale 3 koloko mmawa mupempheni kuti abwere kunyumba kwanu mwachisomo. Kuonjezera apo, mwa njira iyi mudzapewa zosautsa zosayenera, monga zodzoladzola zosalekeza, kusowa kwa dzino la mano komanso mabala ophwanyika. Ndipo m'mawa wokondedwayo samawoneka mofanana ndi madzulo.
Ngati mumadzuka m'mawa kwambiri pabedi limodzi, khalani okondwa, okondwa komanso okondwa. Chinthu chachikulu m'mawa sikuti mupeze mgwirizano. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, musamufunse mafunso monga: kodi tidzawonananso? kodi mungandiyitane? Ayenera kukufunsani mafunso amenewa, osati inu. Yesetsani kuchita zinthu ndi mwamuna pambuyo pa kugonana mofatsa.
Chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kukhala ngati munthu wotere ndipo musanene kuti zikomo kwa iye, monga momwe akazi ena amachitira. Izi zingawakhumudwitse ndi kuwavulaza kwambiri, chifukwa ali kunja kwa pansi, ndipo mkati mwawo muli ana ofooka ndi opanda chitetezo omwe akudikirira kutentha ndi chikondi kuyambira theka lawo lachiwiri.
Musaiwale kuti mumusonyeze pogonana kuti mumamuganizira. Chisamaliro ndi chida champhamvu kwambiri chogonjetsa mtima wamwamuna. Simukuphwanyika ngakhale diso, popeza ali ndi bedi lanu ndi khofi yotentha. Ichi ndi chisonyezero chabwino cha maganizo ake kwa inu ...
Musamafulumire kuchoka mwamuna wanu mutagonana ndikumusiya pabedi, ndikofunika kuti amve chikondi chanu ndi fungo lake, inde, fungo la thupi lanu limamukopa kwambiri. Choncho yesetsani kukhala ndi mwamuna mutagonana, nthawi yochulukirapo.
Pa bedi ndi pambuyo pake, khalani owona mtima ndipo musasewere maudindo omwe mukukhala nawo pamene mukulankhulana ndi alendo. Ndiwe pano! Ndipo mawu omwe mudzati kwa wina ndi mzake pa nthawi ino ndi amphamvu kwambiri. Kotero penyani zomwe mukunena ndi momwe. Ndipo tikuyembekeza kuti chirichonse chidzagwira bwino bwino ndi wosankhidwa wanu.