Kwa ambiri, chikondwerero cha Chaka chatsopano chimayamba sabata, kapena ngakhale ziwiri zisanafike 31 December. Ndizosatheka kupita ku malo odyera chifukwa cha maphwando ogwirizanitsa omwe amakhala nawo, ndipo palikumverera mmwamba kuti chinachake chozizwitsa ndi zamatsenga zatsala pang'ono kuchitika. Maonekedwe achikondi ndi otsimikiza kuti Eva Waka Chatsopano ndi nthawi yoyenera kuti akwaniritse miyoyo yawo, ndipo maphwando a gulu ndi abwino kwambiri m'malo ano. Ndipo, panthawi yosangalatsa, palipempha kuti mupume kwinakwake, mantha amkati amamwa mowa womwe umatentha m'magazi ndipo malingaliro amodzi amatsimikizira kuti "bwanji osatero."
Ngati ndinu kemem, ndani samatsutsana pa kugonana
Muli ndi maofesi osiyanasiyana, ndipo musaganize kuti ndi kofunikira kuti mumvetsetse bwino mutu wanu. Inu mukuganiza kuti ngati mukufuna, muyenera kuchita, kulavulira zomwe ena amaganiza kapena kunena. Chabwino, muli ndi lingaliro labwino kwambiri la moyo.
Inu, mwachiwonekere, simukufunikira kufotokoza kuti ndiyiti yeniyeni yomwe mungasankhe kuchitika. Mukudziwa zomwe zikuchitika ndi chiyani komanso ndalama zomwe zingatsindike bwanji ulemu wanu. Nthawi yayikulu yokonzekera holide, mudzapita ku SPA-salon, zakudya zopangidwa ndi mafuta, mafuta onunkhira komanso zovala zapamwamba. Mukudziwa kuti mudzakhala wokongola kwambiri pa holideyi, koma bwanji musasangalale kugula zosintha zomwe zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale osangalala ndikudziyang'ana nokha komanso kuyang'ana kaduka.
Kuti mutenge mwamuna wovuta kwambiri kwa anthu onse omwe alipo, muyenera kukhala okhumba kwambiri. Pa nthawi yomweyi, simuyenera kusonyeza chidwi chochuluka kwa chinthu chosankhidwa, musati mupite, musaiwale mbiri yanu. Pa mbali imodzi mukhoza kumuopseza, ndipo pambali pake, zimawoneka kuti zimapezeka mosavuta, ndipo motero sizosangalatsa. Kwa munthu mwachilengedwe, msaki, musaiwale, ndipo mupatseni mwayi wopambana.
Musamawononge nthawi yanu kukondana ndi amuna omwe adabwera paphwando ndi theka lawo lachiwiri, ndipo samalani ndi kukhumudwitsa abambo ndi abwenzi awo. Pachiyambi choyamba, mutha kupweteka mutu, kukhutira ndi chidwi, ndipo chachiwiri - simukusowa mavuto ndi zonyansa.
Pali mavuto omwe angabwere pamene akufunafuna malo osungulumwa. Zingatheke kuti malo abwino kwambiri atha kale. Koma ngati muli ndi mwayi, musanyalanyaze kukhazikika kwanu, pafupi kapena, panthawi zovuta kwambiri, pani pakhomo kuti musayambe kubwezeretsa "malo pansi pano" ndi anthu ena okhudzidwa, komanso kuti musasokonezedwe ndi odwala ena.
Aliyense, katswiri wonga iwe, amadziwa kuti iwe ukhoza kuyeretsa maonekedwe a kukhalapo kwako bwino. Kotero, ntchitoyo yatha, zosangalatsa zimalandira, mwakhala mukutsatirana ndikudziyika nokha, mukuyang'ana pozungulira. Musati muzisiye chidziwitso mutatha nokha zomwe zidzakuuzani za kukhalapo kwanu "ku zolakwa" kwa anthu osafunika, zosangalatsa zanu zimangokukhudzani inu nokha. Zidzakhala zowona bwino ngati, pasanafike mapeto a chikondwererocho, iwe ndi mnzanuyo mutuluka patsikuli mwakachetechete.
Ngati zanenedwa kuti njira zothetsera vuto sizinathandize, mfundo zomwe sizinakhudze zokhudzana ndi zomwe mumazilembazo zalowa mwa anthu, musadzipangire nokha zosafunikira. Milo akumwetulira pamaso pa anthu achisoni, awapatseni chifukwa chakukuchitirani nsanje kwambiri.
Ndipo zambiri! Zilibe kanthu, ndipo musaiwale konse za kulera! Lembani kugonana pa mbali ya gulu ndikusiya kukumbukira zokondweretsa, ndipo mwinamwake sequel yokondweretsa.
Ngati simukukonda kugonana pa mgwirizano
Azimayi ambiri samaona kuti kugonana ndi kovomerezeka. Chabwino, ufulu wawo. Koma mulimonsemo, muyenera kukhala okonzeka kuti mfundo zopanda pake sizikudutsani. Komabe, chotsani nokha zinthu zovuta ndikukhumudwitsa wina aliyense, mumangofunika kutsatira malamulo ena.
Musanyengedwe ndipo musayambe kukwiyitsa amuna omwe amamwa mowa komanso osadziwika. Apo ayi, zingakhale ndi zotsatira zoipa kwambiri kwa inu.
Ganizirani za chovala chanu. Sikoyenera kuvala chinachake chokhumudwitsa ndi chotsekemera, khalani ndi chiyero chachikazi chokongola.
Musagwiritse ntchito mowa mopitirira muyeso. Munthu aliyense wamkulu ndi wokhwima amadziwa zomwe amachizolowezi, choncho yesetsani kusapitirira malire a zovomerezeka. Pambuyo pake, ngati m'tsogolomu muyenera kufotokoza zochititsa manyazi zomwe mungathe kusokonezeka nazo, kuvomereza mowa mwauchidakwa sikungatipatse ife ulemu.
Posakhalitsa gululi lidzapita kumalo omasuka kwambiri, ndizofunikira kuti mukhale pambali. Pitirizani kuwonongeka, ndipo yesetsani kupewa "kukambirana poyera", simudziwa chomwe chidzakumbukire mnzanu wodekha ndi wokoma mtima omwe akutsogoleredwa ndi zakumwa zosalamulirika. Pa chifukwa chomwecho, ndi bwino kupita kunyumba ndi taxi kupita kunyumba, kapena kupempha kuti muitanitse mwamuna wanu, mchimwene wanu, munthu wamkulu, amene ali otsimikiza za iwoeni.