Nthawi ndi nthawi timakopeka ndi zovuta zogonana. Koma kuphwanya zochitika zomwe zimakhalapo nthawi zonse ndizofunika. Bwanji ngati sitikumva bwino? Lolani kukayikira uku kukulepheretseni inu. Ngati kuyesera kukuwoneka kuti kuli bwino, simungolandire chochitika chosaiŵalika, komanso mowonjezera wothandizana nawo. Kodi mungayambe bwanji kukhala ndi moyo wapamtima ndi mwamuna wake? Timataya manyazi ndikuphunzira palimodzi.
Sewani mbali
Anna ndi Gleb akhala atakopeka ndi masewera ochita masewero - mu mafilimu okhudzana ndi zochitika zowonongeka zomwe zowoneka nthawizonse zimawoneka zachilendo komanso zachigololo. "Koma ndisanakumanepo ndi chisangalalo pazinthu zoterezi - zinkawoneka kuti anthu okhawo ojambula angagwire dokotala ndi wodwala kapena mtsikana ndi wokhala nawo alendo, omwe angasinthe kwathunthu ndikumbukira kanthawi ," Anna akuti. - Ndichifukwa chake sitinathamangire kuzindikira zozizwitsa zathu ndipo kwa nthawi ndithu timalephera kulankhula. Koma ndinkafuna kusiyanitsa moyo wanga wapamtima ndi mwamuna wanga.
Ndipo tsiku limodzi zinthu zinangokhala zokha. Gleb anabwerera kunyumba pambuyo pa msonkhano wofunikira ndipo, pokhala opanda nthawi, mwachiwonekere, panjira yopita kuntchito zapakhomo, anandiyang'ana ine ndi zolembera zovomerezeka za mkulu. Ndinasangalala kwambiri moti ndinasewera kusewera naye: ndikudziyesa kukhala mtsikana womvera. Tonsefe tinatengeka kwambiri ndi masewerawo kuti sitinazindikire momwe tinali pabedi. Unali usiku wamatsenga. Sitinachite chilichonse chapadera, koma mawu, manja ndi khalidwe zinasintha: Ndinadzimva ndekha m'mwamba asanu ndi awiri ndi chimwemwe ndi chisangalalo, kusewera mbuye wamng'ono wamvera. Kuyesera uku, sitinayambe mobwerezabwereza, koma onse amakumbukira mwachifundo. "
"Anna ndi Gleb anafika pozindikira kuti akuganiza bwino," anatero katswiri wina wogonana wina dzina lake Vladimir Prokhorov. - Poyamba adzikonzekera okha: adakambirana momveka bwino za zilakolako zawo, adziwa zomwe zikuwoneka kuti amakondwera ndikuyesera ndi zomwe aliyense amawopa. Zinangotsala pokhapokha kuti zidikire nthawi yabwino, ndipo chifukwa chake, zonse zinkaoneka ngati pang'onopang'ono. "
Zambiri zamakono
Olga ndi Konstantin sanawope kuzindikira maloto obisika a mabanja ambiri - anapita ku shopu la kugonana ndipo pamodzi adasankha zolaula zogonana. "Poyamba, ndinkangowona kuti kugonana kwapakati sikulekerera anthu osokoneza bongo ndi zina zowonjezera luso - amati, zonse ziyenera kukhala zachilengedwe ," akutero Olga. " Koma Kostya anatha kunditsutsa." Kwa kuyesa koyamba tinasankha mtolo wapadera pa kugonana ndi dildo yokongola. Zida zogwiritsa ntchito sizinasokoneze pabedi, koma mosiyana ndi zimenezo, zimapangitsa kuti zinthu zisasangalatse kwambiri. Komanso, panthawiyi sitimangoganizira zachinsinsi (zomwe ndikuyenera kuvomereza, ndikuwopa), koma ndikuganiziranso zokhudzika kwanga . "
"Banjali linafika pa chisankho cholondola kwambiri: ndithudi, musawope kugwiritsa ntchito zochitika za malonda ogonana," anatero Galina Nechaeva, yemwe ndi katswiri wa zachiwerewere. - Masewera olimbitsa thupi masiku ano ndi osavuta kugwiritsa ntchito, otetezeka mwangwiro, kukwaniritsa zofuna zonse zachipatala ndipo ndizopangidwa mwapadera kukupatsani chisangalalo ndikuwonjezera moyo wapamtima. Awalandire ngati okondweretsa, chifukwa simungasokonezedwe ndi nyali yamdima ndi zofunda zokongola. Ndipo musaiwale za ukhondo: chidole chilichonse chiyenera kusambitsidwa ndi madzi ofunda ndi sopo musanayambe kugonana, ndipo mazira ndi mazira ayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito limodzi ndi kondomu ndi mafuta apadera. "
Magic Tablet
Atatha zaka khumi ndi zitatu, Oksana ndi Igor anazindikira kuti moyo wawo wa chiwerewere unawoneka wosauka. Kugonana kunali kosavuta, koma ponena za masewera achikondi, kukakhala usiku wonse, iwo amangokumbukira. "Tsiku lina madzulo, Igor adapempha kugwiritsa ntchito Viagra - mapiritsi adalimbikitsidwa ndi dokotala wathu wa banja ," magawo a Oksana. - Poyamba ndinatenga lingaliro limeneli ndikukayikira: zinkangowoneka kuti mankhwala okhaokha omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito mosagwiritsidwa ntchito anali osagwiritsidwa ntchito. Komatu, mu pepala akuganiza kuti zotsatira zake zingatheke, adagwirizanabe. Ndine wokondwa kuti ndagonjetsa tsankho langa - kugonana kunali kodabwitsa. Zinaoneka kuti mapiritsi samangopangitsa kuti erection isalephereke, koma kuthandizira kukhalabe nthawi zonse mwamunayo ali ndi mantha. Tinakhalanso ndi mwayi wosangalala ndi ntchitoyi malinga ngati tikufuna. Kuchokera apo, miyezi yochepa, timadzipangitsa kuti tichite mwambo woterewu . "
"N'zoona kuti mankhwala oterowo sayenera kutengedwa ndi okondedwa achinyamata," akuchenjeza Vladimir Prokhorov, yemwe ndi katswiri wa zachiwerewere. - Koma ngati munthu wokalamba ali ndi mavuto, ataya mphamvu koma samadwala matenda a mtima, ndiye Viagra ikhoza kuthandiza. Zidzathandiza kusiyanitsa kugonana kwa pabanja. Pamapeto pake, ndi zopusa kugwiritsa ntchito phindu la chitukuko chamakono, ngati kuli kotheka.
Koma ngati banjali likukhulupirira kuti piritsilo likhoza kuchita chozizwitsa, ndiye kuti liyenera kumukhumudwitsa: Viagra ndi zifaniziro zake sizomwe zimayambitsa chisangalalo, koma zimangothandiza kuyambitsa njira zowonongeka. Ngati chisangalalo chiri bwino, mapiritsi akhoza kusintha kwambiri khalidwe la kugonana, ndipo ngati kuli kovuta kuti munthu azisangalala - makamaka, sakusowa mankhwala, koma kuyankhulana kwa wogonana. "
Kusintha kwa malo
Karina ndi Ruben nthaŵi zonse akhala "okwatirana otentha." "Koposa zonse, timakonda kuyesa malo osintha ," Ruben akunena. - Makamaka anawonekera mu unyamata wowawa: chisangalalo chikhoza kubwera pochezera kwa abwenzi, m'chipinda cha usiku kapena m'galimoto. Ndipo posachedwa tazindikira kuti sitinayambe kugonana pachilengedwe. Malingalirowa ankawoneka akuyesa: kunali chilimwe, pafupi ndi dacha, yomwe tinkachita lendi, inali nkhalango, ndipo ili ndi malo ambiri okongola. Tinatenga chosowa chofewa, vinyo ndi masangweji pamodzi nafe ndipo tinachoka pamisewu yambiri. Kugonana kunali kokongola - thupi linkawomba mphepo yatsopano, ndipo kuyandikana kwa chilengedwe kunapatsa mphamvu yapadera . "
"Kugonana kumalo atsopano ndi njira yosavuta kuti mkazi athe kusiyanitsa moyo wake wapamtima ndi mwamuna wake," anatero galamala Galina Nechaeva. "N'zosadabwitsa kuti anyamatawa adasintha kusintha. Koma musanagonane pamalo osayenera, ganizirani zomwe mukufuna kuti mupeze. Mwachitsanzo, kupanga chikondi m'chilengedwe kapena pamalo ammudzi, gwiritsani ntchito kondomu, mwinamwake zingapangitse kukwiya kapena kugonana kwa dysbiosis. "
ZOCHITA ZA AKATSEMBE: Evgeny KULGAVCHUK, wogonana ndi amuna, wogwira mtima, wothandizira pulezidenti wa Russian Association of Sexologists.
Mu moyo wokhudzana ndi kugonana ndikofunikira kutsata tanthauzo la golidi. Sitiyenera kuloledwa kukhala ngati mathithi, koma siyeneranso kuyisandutsa mtsinje wamapiri. Moyo wapamtima uyenera kuwoneka ngati nyanja yokongola yamadzi. Ndiye zimakhalapo kuti zikhalebe zofunika kwambiri: chinthu chachikulu sichidawonongeke, koma kusintha kukuchitikabe. Zachilendo ziyenera kukhala ndi zinthu zothandizira, ndipo zisasinthe kukhala moyo, chifukwa pamapeto pake mukhoza kutenga zomwe zimatchedwa "kutengeka maganizo", kutopa ndi kukhumudwa. Mwachilengedwe, amuna amafunika kusewera kwambiri ndi kusintha pa kugonana. Ngati zachilendo zilipo, ndiye kuti, kukhala ndi ubale wosatha, zikuwoneka kuti muli ndi amayi ambiri. Inde, ndipo amai nthawi zambiri amawona zokhazokha ndi zachilendo ngati mayesero kuti akhalebe paubwenzi wabwino. Ponena za malingaliro olakwika, tingadziŵe kuti ena mwa iwo ali oyenera kuchita. Chifukwa ndi zabwino zokha zokhazokha ndipo pamene zitsatiridwa zimangobweretsa zokhumudwitsa. Pokukambirana izi ndi bwino kugwiritsa ntchito "magulu atatu", mwachitsanzo, nkhani zamagazini. Ngati mnzanuyo akunyalanyaza uthenga watsopano, muvomereze naye, ngati sakusamala, ndiye mutha kukonza zokambiranazo. Koma samalani ndi kugwiritsa ntchito mwakhama: choyamba onetsetsani kuti malingaliro anu amagwirizana ndi malingaliro a mnzanuyo.
5 ZONSE ZOKHUDZA ZOTHANDIZA
1. Chilichonse chiyenera kukhala chachilengedwe. Susowa kuti mukhale ndi mauthenga omwe angakulepheretseni kukhala osangalala ndi kusangalala ndi ndondomekoyi.
2. Kuyesera kukhala ndi cholinga. Ganizirani chifukwa chake mukufuna kuyesera izi kapena izi? Kuti muzimva chilakolako cha nyama? Kapena, m'malo mwake, chikondi? Kapena mulole mnzanuyo kumverera pamwamba?
3. Panthawi imodzi ndibwino kusintha chimodzi, makamaka magawo awiri a script yanu yachizolowezi. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mutasankha kugonana mu chilengedwe, ndiye kuti simungasangalale kwambiri ndi chitukuko chatsopano. Chinthu chimodzi chachilendo chidzakhala chokwanira.
4. Pamene mukuyesera, musayese kuthetsa ndondomekoyi. Zidzakhala bwino ngati mumakhulupirira mnzanuyo ndikumulola kuti achite zomwe akuwona kuti n'zoyenera.
5. Musalowe muyesero. Nthawi ndi nthawi zimakhala zosangalatsa komanso zothandiza, koma ngati simukukhala otanganidwa kuti muzichita zinthu zachilendo nthawi zonse. Pamapeto pake, kukhazikika ndi kokoma. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri - malingaliro anu, osati malo atsopano ...