Anthu omwe adzakhale pamodzi palimodzi, amamva nkhawa, chifukwa sayenera kusintha moyo wawo wokha, komanso amaphunzira kumvetsetsa, kulemekeza ndi kusinthasana. Ndipotu, ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi amakondana kwenikweni, sizili zovuta.
Kukhala pamodzi kunali kosangalatsa komanso kosagwirizana, nthawi yokondweretsa, muyenera kutsatira malamulo ophweka.
Yambani kuchokera pachiyambi
Ngati anthu asankha kukhala pamodzi, amachitapo kanthu kofunika kwambiri kwa wina ndi mzake, kotero muyenera kuiwala zovuta zakale ndi kusamvetsetsana, ndikuyambiranso. Ngati n'kotheka, ndi zofunika kuti nyumbayi igawidwe. Choncho, aliyense adzakhale wofanana ndi mwini wake. Apo ayi, pangakhale mkhalidwe wina yemwe angakhale womasuka, wokakamizidwa kuti apite ku malo "okhalamo", zomwe zingayambitse zochititsa manyazi, mwachitsanzo, ngati munthu ali wamanyazi kuti afotokoze maganizo ake.
Musawope kuti mupereke chinachake
Kumbukirani, ngati mutasankha kukhala pamodzi, muyenera kuiwala za "I". Tsopano muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito lingaliro la "ife", ndikuganiza monga choncho. Zinthu zodziwika zomwe mudapanga kale, zisakonde wokondedwa wanu, choncho onetsetsani kuti mufunse, chonde konzani musanachitepo kanthu.
Gwiritsani ntchito malo okhala pamodzi
Tanena kale kuti ndibwino kuti nyumbayi ikhale yachilendo, kuti onse awiri azidzimva mofanana. Nyumba zambiri zimayenera kumangidwira palimodzi, kuti onse awiri akhale omasuka. Palibe chomwe chingabweretse anthu pafupi ndi bizinesi yogwirizana. Gulani magazini mkati, pita kugula pamodzi, kambiranani mfundo zochepa kwambiri. Ndithudi, mudzakonda ntchito yanu yatsopano, yomwe idzakupangitsani inu zambiri ndi zina zambiri.
TV siilinso pakati pa chilengedwe chonse
Kawirikawiri vuto mu ubale ndi TV, yomwe nthawi ndi nthawi imasonyeza masewera a sopo okha kapena bokosi kapena mpira. Phunzirani kupeza zofanana, onani mapulogalamu omwe mukufuna.
Ndipo njira yabwino ndiyo kuiwala hoteloyo. Yendani zambiri, pitani ku cinema kapena cafe. Ngati mukukhala moyo wanu, izi sizikutanthauza kuti mukuyenera kukhala patsogolo pa TV kapena makompyuta asakayikire za chibwenzi. Apo ayi, mukuopsezedwa ndi "kusungulumwa", pamene anthu awiri omwe akuwoneka kuti amakondana, sangapeze chinenero chofanana ndi ntchito yogwirizana.
Phunzirani kulemekeza mwaulemu ndikupeza zolakwitsa
Ngati mukuganiza kuti simukusowa wina watsopano, kapena simungakwanitse, kapena mukufuna kuti mugule kenakake, musachite mantha kunena. Kumbukirani, mgwirizano ndi makamaka malo ogwirizana ndizoyamba kuyanjanitsa, choncho pofotokoza mwaulemu malingaliro anu, ndipo theka lanu lachiwiri lidzakupezerani nokha, zomwe zingakhale zabwino kwa inu nonse.
Musaope zovuta
Nthawi zina anthu okondana amatha kukwaniritsa chiyanjano chisanafike pamene mavuto oyambirira akubwera, ndikuyembekeza kuti ubale watsopano udzakhala wopambana. Dziwani kuti mavuto ndi mavuto ndi chikhalidwe cha chiyanjano chilichonse. Sungani mosamala mavuto anu kuti musabwerezenso zolakwa zomwezo m'tsogolomu.
Chinthu chachikulu mu chiyanjano ndikumvetsa. Ngakhale mutayamba kukhala pamodzi, koma mutangopereka maola angapo pamapeto a sabata, palibe ubwino uliwonse umene ungabwere kuchokera ku ubale woterewu. Kugwirizana pakati pa anthu pamapeto pake kumachepa ngati simukugwira ntchito ndi maganizo, chifukwa chikondi sichidzabwera kamodzi. Samalani maganizo anu!